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Author Topic: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?  (Read 11168 times)

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Re: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?
« Reply #25 on: December 04, 2019, 11:55:34 AM »
If someone clicks on this thread, which has enough info to describe the topic, they shouldn’t be surprised at the details of it.  If you want to avoid it, you had the opportunity.  

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Re: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?
« Reply #26 on: December 04, 2019, 11:57:13 AM »
If someone clicks on this thread, which has enough info to describe the topic, they shouldn’t be surprised at the details of it.  If you want to avoid it, you had the opportunity.  

Good point! Don't blame others for YOUR "prurient interest".  If you're not married and clicked on such an article, and it causes you temptation, etc. you have only YOURSELF to blame. There are a thousand other books, manuals, photographs, articles, etc. which are perfectly without sin to publish, but could be sinful for single people to read or view without good reason.

If I pick up a medical manual with graphic nudity in it and lead myself into temptation and sin, whose fault is it? The question is, did I need to read that medical manual? Am I a doctor or nurse? Was I just using it as the most convenient/acceptable-for-me form of pornography? Ask yourself that question, with God as your witness. Remember that many (most?) Trad Catholics would never dream of voluntarily visiting a hard-core porn site. But what tempts them, when they're bored/lusty/alone/idle, when a non-Trad Catholic would visit a porn site? Does a Trad Catholic, perhaps, read articles about sex? Read about what bad guys in the world are doing to violate the 6th and 9th? Read about Catholic morality within marriage? Catholics have their outlets or temptations when they get bored, curious, and prurient, I'm sure.


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Re: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?
« Reply #27 on: December 04, 2019, 12:09:41 PM »
I included both NSFW and foreplay in the title, I dont know what you were expecting

Re: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?
« Reply #28 on: December 04, 2019, 12:21:53 PM »
Yup.  I was waiting for that argument.

The title ALONE should have been enough to bring this thread to a screeching halt.  

Because of the impurity rampant in the world that rubs off on those living in it, now Trad. Catholics here are just becoming nonchalant about publicly discussing subjects which should be off-topic?

If CathInfo is described as a place similar to where Catholic topics can be discussed as they would be while having coffee after Sunday Mass, it would (or should) be hard to imagine that the subject of this thread would talked about after Holy Mass at this or that Catholic chapel.  

It is out of place here.       

Re: NSFW Is foreplay permissible in a Catholic marriage?
« Reply #29 on: December 04, 2019, 12:35:41 PM »
If someone clicks on this thread, which has enough info to describe the topic, they shouldn’t be surprised at the details of it.  If you want to avoid it, you had the opportunity.  
My comment about what was posted without warning referred to horrific pictures of war atrocities in another thread. That was not predictable from the thread title and it was not easy to avoid.

I agree that this thread is relatively easy to avoid, even though I typically read the forum by using the "recent posts" option rather than clicking on the thread.  I have been able to just skim over the posts in this thread rather than reading them closely.