My parents visited us from far away this past week. Mrs. Charlemagne and I are expecting our fifth child. When I told my dad, he was happy. I didn't tell my (Novus Ordo) mom because I remembered that when we announced our fourth was on the way, her first response was, "Was that planned?" Beautiful. Anyway, as we sat down to dinner on the first night during this latest trip, my mom said, "I understand that you have an addition to your family on the way. Well, once a mother, always a mother, and all I can say is, there are many things I'm worried about. And that's all I'll say about that." It's probably a good thing that that's all she said, because she was close to being asked to leave. What an insult to me and my wife - right in front of our children. As they say, you can choose your friends but not your family. My comfort comes from Our Lord: "He that loveth father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me."