As a married person, it part of your duties to maintain good social relations. Making connections and keeping up friendships serve an important purpose. They help to build up Catholic culture and identity. No, you don't need to call one another every day or go purse shopping, but it is good for the soul to make good Catholic friends. Think about your children too, they will grow up someday and try to make it in the world, what better way to start by having a few connections with their parents' friends or the children of those friends. It may even serve a purpose of helping a child find a spouse.
I'm sorry but you sound completely selfish. Someone is reaching out to you in need, and instead of reacting in kindness, you seem disgusted. The ability to be a friend requires the practice of multiple virtues, maybe God is trying to gently nudge you to correct a fault?