OP again.

My son has not return my phone calls or emails for a week now. His last words resound in my ears, "I have no opinion regarding transgenders." Of course, he must say this in California, or he will be violating the law, and could lose his children to the CPS.

My priest has advised me not to visit my son and daughter-in-law at their home because of the DIL's unchristian attitude and vicious verbal attacks against me in the presence of my grandchildren. Yes, the DIL has mental issues. She was hospitalized and diagnosed with post-partum psychosis after the birth of her three children.

One of the girls said, "We do not pray at home." No doubt, she was pressured to say this to me by her mom after we led the evening prayers. My son mentioned that he no longer attends church. When I mentioned that I was praying for him, he reacted in shock, and said that he was agnostic.

Apparently, the oldest daughter (7 years of age) has refused to wear skirts and dresses for a year now. She made such a scene when the parents used to take them to church, that they stopped attending. At Christmas, the last time I saw her at her maternal grandma's house, she was wearing long hair, a short sleeve shirt, and shorts. One sign of hope: she did wear the new scarf that I gave her as a Christmas gift, precisely because it was cold.

Please pray for this family.

If I was the father, I would be finding other living arrangements in another state yesterday.

another country ... actually