You people are truly so stupid.
It is OBVIOUS to any normal humble person seeking to do the will of God that we must be modest in our actions, speech and mannerisms. This is what should SET CHRISTIANS APART from world lings.
Calling this puritanical is a cover because you are a BAD PERSON. and a LAZY CHRISTIAN.
What you are trying to say is something about PRIORITIES, which I agree with. No point worry about certain things, when we can't do other things etc. etc. I get that much. But don't knock others who are sincere and more virtuous than you and more earnest than you.
When we teach children about virtue, they get things wrong because they can't see the bigger picture. But their pure intention is correct. And reading the lives of the saints we can see that if we want to be saints, we have to carry our cross.
Intemperate fools dont just come in non christian crude forms, they also come as trads, who want to drag us all down to their worldly attachments and boisterous immodesty, in their actions. (often prideful sanguines and Cholerics)