Just remember the devil's know what the hot buttons are to push, and women about their appearance..
It's one of those 'does this make me look fat?' things.. They're very big on being approved of in regards to their appearance. Goes back to Eve being before Adam for his approval, I heard once in a sermon.
There's nothing like telling a woman directly to be more modest to get a flip out, out of some of them.. Indirectly can be better? Step by step? Not direct and blunt first, like you'd tell a guy? Women tend to be more indirect in all communication.. they won't say they want something specifically.. they'll go about it from the side, no? So the man has to think because we don't think that way.
She probably doesn't even know all why she flipped out, but bet it was the Devil.. Of course blaming her won't help.. getting this back to to something that can be talked over peaceably is going to take some sensitivity and some giving up of what is due..
FWIW.. Thinking about 'no right' and the justice owed you side might not be the best approach to actually practically solving the issue.. Especially since this is an issue with a woman, women don't tend to think about the justice side as much I think.. The father wants respect, the woman wants love..
Since it's probably rather blurry to her, are you sure you have nothing you couldn't apologize for too, to break the ice?
You weren't an absolutely perfect saint ... were you? I'm sure you can figure out something to say your sorry for, you didn't pray enough for her -- though don't say that.. You weren't virtuous enough.. One can always be better, no,.. so?
Just some thoughts, take the good, leave aside the bad, apologies... Might be a lot of nonsense..
If you sympathize with her being hurt, you know, that shows you love her.. And then tends more to think -- she thinks she can trust you to take care of her..
Justice is one thing, it can be on your side, but giving it up for the sake of God and greater good.. well.. isn't that how family problems often have to be solved? I mean just practically in my own life.. when I pray for family justice after a fight it just gets worse.. No success. So I learn I have to take a different approach, I think? Pray for peace.. forgive? etc?
Oh well sorry for running on a lot of useless stuff perhaps.