My parents respect my faith, though they disagree with me. They have always allowed me to go to the Latin Mass and before I had disability they would give me money to go to Mass and give to the collection and often drive me. So they are supportive and not antagonistic. So they are not a danger to my faith. I like living with family more than I would living with roommates who I do not know. Which is why I stay. I just know that it could be better and wish it were already so.
I don't think I need a coach per se but I am grateful for the offer. I have some questions here and there and usually asking people online and thinking about their advice helps. And if not a I can always ask our priest or a friend or my therapist or doctor.
I believe it doesn't apply the "against the Faith card". Your parents don't have the faith but they don't opose you have it.
You can move on anytime you want, you are a free person: you are not married to them, you are and adult. Dissability don't make you an under age minor.
If you leave, you cannot abandon them, so you have to take care of them specially as they are getting older. You can move out but you can't forget them.
But, if you preffer to live there, it's OK. You have to obey your father's rules and don't try to change things against his will (or your mother's).
You have to live by their rules EVEN if they are messy people.
If they respect your catholic view and practice of the Faith, it's OK.
PS. Your brother is another thing.