Author Topic: Marrying Later in Life as a Convert (Read 3057 times)

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #75 on:** May 16, 2025, 12:28:32 PM »

Do any of you sɛҳuąƖly frustrated, angry, incel sounding young men have younger sisters? What would you think of an adult male coming on to her? Writing about her desirability on this forum?
You should be ashamed of yourselves.
If I were to figure out your real life identity and meet you in person, I’d avoid you at all costs.
You talk like creeps.

You’re causing women to leave CI and some of their husbands to forbid them to use it because of your topics of discussion and disrespect of others, foul language, rude, lewd, (and puerile) insults.

If you want a male only forum, create one. Or use the men only thread.
Do you think for a moment St. Joseph ever spoke this way of Our Lady?
What does Our Lord think?
Consider your Guardian Angel.
Have you offended his ears?

Rein in your horses, cowboys.

Seraphina · « **Reply #76 on:** May 16, 2025, 12:29:47 PM »

The identify button didn’t work. This is Seraphina.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #77 on:** May 16, 2025, 12:39:49 PM »

Quote from: WhiteWorkinClassScapegoat on May 16, 2025, 06:37:09 AM

Yeah but they still resent a man being attracted to the chicky chics rather than themselves who have little to no Attraction Market Value. They're vindictive for this reason.

Peter Alcantara · « **Reply #78 on:** May 16, 2025, 12:45:21 PM »

I think some of you have some porn addiction problems, possible molestation histories (prey and/or predatory), too much time on your hands, an underdeveloped spiritual life and, the possibility of damaged family life.

If we need to take this topic to the men's forum- let Matthew know but it is evident some of you need help.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #79 on:** May 16, 2025, 12:58:29 PM »

Let's give the devil his due -- ladies? WWSC, probably your least favorite in this thread, used the phrase "Attraction Market Value" in his discussions.

I'll clue you in -- normally the abbreviation is SMV. I'll let you guess what the S usually stands for.

Peter Alcantara · « **Reply #80 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:02:07 PM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 16, 2025, 12:58:29 PM

Let's give the devil his due -- ladies? WWSC, probably your least favorite in this thread, used the phrase "Attraction Market Value" in his discussions.

I'll clue you in -- normally the abbreviation is SMV. I'll let you guess what the S usually stands for.

It is S**ual Market Value.
(Mod edit)

Matthew · « **Reply #81 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:10:02 PM »

America has been in trouble, culturally, for a long time.

But I've never given up (human) hope until I learned about the culture of Gen Z.

None of them want to have children. They make Gen X look like people in the 1800's having large, natural-sized families with no birth control. Or, they make GenX look like the culture in Jane Austen movies/novels (i.e., every woman wants to get married, patriarchy, natural gender roles, etc.)

I used to work in an office with nothing but Gen Z. One of the men, making 6 figures and in reasonable good health, got "the snip" at age 25! And his friends weren't exactly aghast either.

Have you heard the average GenZ woman? They cuss as much as the boys. It's disgusting. And none of them are the least bit interested in marriage or children. Our culture is absolutely moribund. Something's gotta give. This failed American culture is NOT getting passed on to one more generation. It ends here.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #82 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:10:24 PM »

Quote from: Seraphina on May 16, 2025, 12:29:47 PM

The identify button didn’t work. This is Seraphina.

You’re school-marming. If you’re gonna call men uncles than I can call you a femcel because you not married. There were women on this forum that accused the men of pedophilia and they had no accountability for that. Do you think that’s right?

Matthew · « **Reply #83 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:14:22 PM »

I have to weigh in here on that issue --

The modern world is constantly calling young men "pedos" unless they marry the used-up 30 somethings who "had their fun" and pursued careers. The name "incel" and "pedo" gets thrown around like "nαzι".

And back to Gen Z -- they get bent out of shape if a 25 year old tries to date a 21 year old. They call him a "pedo". The name is really getting used up, losing all meaning, like "racist". They say ridiculous stuff like "What could they possibly have in common" I know, a whole 4 year age gap!

I, for one, am sympathetic with these young men on this matter. You try getting called that in the Media, online, at work, school, even church, and just "keep taking it" without ever shooting back.

It's like calling a black person a nigger. Only worse, because no blacks alive today have *any recent memory* of slavery. Not even their great-grandparents can remember being slaves. How many even remember the pre-Civil Rights era of the 1960's? Just Baby Boomers now. And even the Boomers can only remember white/colored drinking fountains FROM WHEN THEY WERE LITTLE CHILDREN. Today they're just emotional about the epithet. No Irishman gets bent out of shape when you call him a cracker or a mick.

But when you consider how the modern world is stacked against young white men, it's really unfair. You have to be sympathetic. And I'm the father of a couple boys as well, so...

Matthew · « **Reply #84 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:18:55 PM »

Quote from: Peter Alcantara on May 16, 2025, 01:02:07 PM

It is S**ual Market Value.
(Mod edit)

Thank you, Captain Obvious. You always go for the low-hanging fruit?

WorldsAway · « **Reply #85 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:23:45 PM »

Quote from: Änσnymσus on May 16, 2025, 12:28:32 PM

Do you think for a moment St. Joseph ever spoke this way of Our Lady?

Certainly not! Our Lady is the Blessed Virgin, the Immaculate Conception, free from all sin

Unfortunately, most young women are certainly not blessed, virgins even less so. Very sad!

Peter Alcantara · « **Reply #86 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:25:19 PM »

Quote from: Matthew on May 16, 2025, 01:18:55 PM

Thank you, Captain Obvious. You always go for the low-hanging fruit?

I don't know what that means. I am stating the fact and basing it on my knowledge battling trafficking (I guess we can't state what kind).

Peter Alcantara · « **Reply #87 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:28:05 PM »

Quote from: Matthew on May 16, 2025, 01:14:22 PM

I have to weigh in here on that issue --

The modern world is constantly calling young men "pedos" unless they marry the used-up 30 somethings who "had their fun" and pursued careers. The name "incel" and "pedo" gets thrown around like "nαzι".

And back to Gen Z -- they get bent out of shape if a 25 year old tries to date a 21 year old. They call him a "pedo". The name is really getting used up, losing all meaning, like "racist". They say ridiculous stuff like "What could they possibly have in common" I know, a whole 4 year age gap!

I, for one, am sympathetic with these young men on this matter. You try getting called that in the Media, online, at work, school, even church, and just "keep taking it" without ever shooting back.

It's like calling a black person a nigger. Only worse, because no blacks alive today have *any recent memory* of slavery. Not even their great-grandparents can remember being slaves. How many even remember the pre-Civil Rights era of the 1960's? Just Baby Boomers now. And even the Boomers can only remember white/colored drinking fountains FROM WHEN THEY WERE LITTLE CHILDREN. Today they're just emotional about the epithet. No Irishman gets bent out of shape when you call him a cracker or a mick.

But when you consider how the modern world is stacked against young white men, it's really unfair. You have to be sympathetic. And I'm the father of a couple boys as well, so...

That's not what is going on here. 21 to 25 is one age range, but the examples and very odd remarks are another when the ages of 12-14 are thrown out with comments such as "chicky chicks".
Apologies, but I think your bias might be causing you to miss the gaslighting and grooming comments made by some of the posters.
If we want to have a real discussion without tip-toeing around words then let's take this to the men's forum.

Matthew · « **Reply #88 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:40:03 PM »

Regarding the accusations (on both sides), I leave you with Acts of the Apostles chapter 19:

36 For as much therefore as these things cannot be contradicted, you ought to be quiet, and to do nothing rashly. 37 For you have brought hither these men, who are neither guilty of sacrilege, nor of blasphemy ... 38 But if Demetrius and the craftsmen that are with him, have a matter against any man, the courts of justice are open, and there are proconsuls: let them accuse one another 39 And if you inquire after any other matter, it may be decided in a lawful assembly.

In other words, the "report to moderator" button is working fine, and the Moderator is on duty as always. If there is a specific post that breaks the rules (against Catholic decency, promoting pedophilia, etc.) then report it. Otherwise, shut up!

I don't want to hear vague accusations about how this or that member hurt your fee-fees. If none of his/her posts break the rules, then I don't see a problem. If you can't handle a discussion, then maybe an online discussion forum isn't the thing for you.

That having been said, I don't want to see any more NAMES bandied about. You can discuss and state things matter of factly without descending into sins against charity or sins of the tongue.

Matthew · « **Reply #89 on:** May 16, 2025, 01:45:09 PM »

For example,

Man: "there are a few preteen girls at my chapel. Maybe in a few years there will be some options for marriage..."

Mother of preteen girl: "Ok, buddy, let's see if you're established enough to get married a few years from now. You really need to make sure you bring something to the table besides drawing breath. I would certainly advise my daughter against marrying someone like you, who has so little to offer. And I have raised her in such a way that she values my advice. So good luck on that!"

See how easy that was? No name calling or exaggeration necessary. You can be frank. You can be brutal. Just don't call names or exaggerate (which is a form of lying) by calling someone "pedophile" which is defined as "a perversion wherein a person is sɛҳuąƖly attracted to pre-pubescent children".

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