What did Ruth say to Noemi?
Book Of Ruth
Chapter 1
[16] She answered: Be not against me, to desire that I should leave thee and depart: for whithersoever thou shalt go, I will go: and where thou shalt dwell, I also will dwell. Thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God. [17] The land that shall receive thee dying, in the same will I die: and there will I be buried.
There are many good examples of female devotion in the New Testament as well, in the lives of the Saints. St. Margaret Clitherow, for example, who was martyred in the anti-Catholic persecutions in England.
Anyhow, your husband is not Bishop Fellay, whom you must "resist". On the contrary!
I'm going to pull something right out of Fr. Zendejas' teaching and sermons here:
In the Garden of Eden, men received 1 punishment: they would have to work.
Women received 2 punishments, since Eve disobeyed first and convinced Adam.
Her punishments are: childbearing, and she would have to obey her husband.
Scripture (St. Paul) even says: women shall be saved by childbearing. And note that he also says, "Husbands, love your wives -- Wives, obey your husbands."
Fr. Zendejas continues: Adam was the one ultimately responsible for what happened, since he was the one in authority. Also, St. Thomas Aquinas teaches that Original Sin is transmitted through the man.