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Marriage apologetics
« on: July 22, 2013, 12:34:17 PM »
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  • How can one explain to a person  the concept of marriage as a contract. If he says

    "It's just a contract. Contracts can be annuled easily always. I don't understand why its indisoluble when contracts are mutually  agreed upon and when both of the parties in a contract want out why should it still stay? If it's a contract why is it indissoluble?"

    What is the correct response to this so that I may better know Marriage apologetics on this matter to better explain it to people.


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    Marriage apologetics
    « Reply #1 on: July 22, 2013, 12:44:20 PM »
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  • Is this person a believer?  Does he believe that God unites two people in matrimony?

    Is shared  parenthood just a contract too?

    Don't you believe some promises can't be taken back?

    They have more solemnity than mere financial contracts?

    (and financial contracts are enforced these days, whereas now there is no enforcement of marriage vows when one spouse stop fulfilling his or her promises)


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    Marriage apologetics
    « Reply #2 on: July 22, 2013, 12:45:01 PM »
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  • I don't see Marriage as a contract.

    I see Marriage as a Holy Sacrament.

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    Marriage apologetics
    « Reply #3 on: July 22, 2013, 01:32:01 PM »
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    I don't see Marriage as a contract.

    I see Marriage as a Holy Sacrament.


    a : a binding agreement between two or more persons or parties; especially : one legally enforceable
    b : a business arrangement for the supply of goods or services at a fixed price <make parts on contract>
    c : the act of marriage or an agreement to marry

    http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/contract

    Quote from: newadvent
    Although the Church realized from the first the complete sacramentality of Christian marriage, yet for a time there was some uncertainty as to what in the marriage contract is the real essence of the sacrament; as to its matter and form, and its minister. From the earliest times this fundamental proposition has been upheld: Matrimonium facit consensus, i.e. Marriage is contracted through the mutual, expressed consent. Therein is contained implicitly the doctrine that the persons contracting marriage are themselves the agents or ministers of the sacrament. However, it has been likewise emphasized that marriage must be contracted with the blessing of the priest and the approbation of the Church, for otherwise it would be a source not of Divine grace, but of malediction. Hence it might easily be inferred that the sacerdotal blessing is the grace-giving element, or form of the sacrament, and that the priest is the minister. But this is a false conclusion. The first theologian to designate clearly and distinctly the priest as the minister of the Sacrament and his blessing as the sacramental form was apparently Melchior Canus (d. 1560). In his well-known work, "De locis theologicis", VIII, v, he sets forth the following propositions:

    It is, indeed, a common opinion of the schools, but not their certain and settled doctrine, that a marriage contracted without a priest is a true and real sacrament;
    the controversies on this point do not affect matters of faith and religion;
    it would be erroneous to state that all theologians of the Catholic school defended that opinion.

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    Marriage apologetics
    « Reply #4 on: July 24, 2013, 09:06:30 PM »
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  • In contract law a contract can be found null if it was never executed in the first place.  That's different than canceling a validly executed contract.  

    Annulments don't cancel the marriage contract.  It's a statement from a bishop that the marriage contract was investigated and found to have never existed from the date of the marriage because either the couple had impediments that prevent them from being married (they are blood related for example) or that the exchange of vows was flawed for some serious reason (fraud or force).

    This is no way implies that all annulments these days are correct.  But we laypersons are not allowed to judge marriages.  We must accept annulments as correct even if we personally question them.