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Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
« on: January 06, 2018, 01:54:03 AM »
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  • What do I do? I live with a mother who believes in using people for money, manipulation, lying to changing a situation and she divorced from my father when I was a child. I had no idea who to trust and it was over financial stuff, infact maybe neither can be trusted.

    She is trying to obstruct me from going to church for more than a single day per week(Only allowed to go Sunday) and putting it above materialism/making money, tries to dictate all my life-choices. The priest of my chapel says that parents are the gateway that god has chosen for us and must be adhered to when asked the question of God coming first in everything. Is he right or not?

    I've gotten angry and had some arguments with her over not allowing me to go, and I have to admit I 'hate' her for actions. She becomes enraged and prideful at people who show distress/hurtfulness in any form which proves her actions being harmful to them, and its like she has no empathy at all.

    I live in Australia and have come face to face with evil ever since I was alive so I really know it exists without a doubt. I hate evil, I want to fight and defeat it someday or atleast deal a massive blow to it while alive. I never want evil or sin to make us suffer again and I get angry at anything evil for whatever reasons in society like that of which promotes Darwinian values.

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    « Reply #1 on: January 06, 2018, 01:57:12 AM »
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  • She threatens to expel me from the home if I go against her and I am not considered a minor anymore, just above for info. I've been haunted by some numbers such as 616, 606 or 666 when online in several occasions even though I don't 'look' for them subconsciously. Is Satan/Evil trying to keep me down, and could this parent be their 'proxy' despite their claimed opposition to the devil? They want money and material focuses to be put first above church or mass and focusing on relationship with god/the church. Feminism really needs to go.


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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #2 on: January 06, 2018, 01:57:39 AM »
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  • And for her age she is just in her 50s now.

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #3 on: January 06, 2018, 02:02:59 AM »
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  • If you are not a minor then I think you should get a job so that you can afford to be out on your own.  

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #4 on: January 06, 2018, 02:16:49 AM »
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  • If you are not a minor then I think you should get a job so that you can afford to be out on your own.  
    Requires permission and for them to approve depending on the type. Also I meant biblically do they have to be adhered to or not?


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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #5 on: January 06, 2018, 03:01:15 PM »
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  • OP, you are not in a happy situation. You tell us your about your mother (from your point of view) but nothing about yourself, hence a few questions below.
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    How old are you?
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    What do you do to contribute to the running of the household from both labour and financial points of view?
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    Obstructing you from going to Mass on a weekday is not causing you to sin. How does she obstruct you – lock you in your room? Do you depend of the use of her car? etc.
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    Whose permission do you need to get a job, if you are not a minor?
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    Don’t forget the command to Honour your mother and your father.
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    You say you live with your mother – so why do you use the word “they”?
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    The best way for you to overcome evil is to increase in virtue, by penance, prayer and regular reception of the sacraments. Try to understand why your mother is acting in this way. Do not “go against her” – you are living in her home.
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    Are you doing all you can to help her?
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    Are you praying for her?

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #6 on: January 06, 2018, 11:31:33 PM »
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  • Requires permission and for them to approve depending on the type. Also I meant biblically do they have to be adhered to or not?
    Being an adult means not needing permission or approval to get gainful employment as long as it is legal and moral I don't see the problem. You are under no requirement to obey a parent or any authority when it comes to obeying their inducement to sin.

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #7 on: January 07, 2018, 06:10:20 PM »
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  • Get in contact with Fr. Palma of Melbourne.


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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #8 on: January 07, 2018, 10:15:45 PM »
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  • Get in contact with Fr. Palma of Melbourne.
    Who is he? I did a search and came up with nothing. How about some more info.

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #9 on: January 12, 2018, 09:54:58 PM »
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  • Father Palma is of Bishop Sanborn.  Fr. Palma was asst. pastor of Our Lady of the Sun, El Mirage, AZ.  Fr.. Gilchrist was in Australia.

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #10 on: January 12, 2018, 10:03:51 PM »
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  • Father Palma is of Bishop Sanborn.  Fr. Palma was asst. pastor of Our Lady of the Sun, El Mirage, AZ.  Fr.. Gilchrist was in Australia.
    Australia is almost as wide as the USA, so "being in Australia" could still mean over 500 miles away...
    Many people say "For the Honor and Glory of God!" but, what they should say is "For the Love, Glory and Honor of God". - Fr. Paul of Moll


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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #11 on: January 12, 2018, 11:54:12 PM »
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  • Indeed, it could be 5,000 kms away
    I am wondering what this poster could hope from this priest. Seems like poster has given up the thread, or decided to turn over a new leaf..

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    Re: Living with a parent forcing me to sin or encouraging it?
    « Reply #12 on: February 22, 2018, 08:49:27 PM »
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  • Alright some updates, my mother and father are divorced. I just had the courage to ring my father and prayed beforehand nothing bad would happen then everything seemed ok. He told me that my mother is a liar and that there is alot I don't know. I am looking forward to hearing his side of the story.

    I heard the devil uses lies to keep people in bondage and intimidate them. If I have gone the correct path then I have learned something, this is similar to choosing God the father or Satan/Lilith's lies and material offers in exchange for living in misery then. 

    The door to heaven or God is always there, and if we do not take it up in the end we have chosen Satan? God is like a father just like we know our fathers are as.

     

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