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Offline Peter Alcantara

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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #135 on: July 06, 2025, 05:18:49 PM »
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  • I know sir you feel very confident in your various assertions. They are all based in a boomer, naive way of looking at the world. A wordlview which is now bearing the true fruits we were warned it would. Catasrophic decline in marriage rates. Divorce through the roof.

    -No one said no education. Just not over and unnecessary education.
    - 18 in most societies everywhere before the 50s was pretty normal.
    As for your lack of discussion on the other topics, all of those are up to their fathers. Boomer fathers have done a pretty poor job so far. Making their daughters as unnattractive as possible to future husbands.

    I am not the OP. Just another man with sanity.
    I don't think you are using the word "assertion" properly. I stated I gathered information. I surmised and then stated I had not seen certain discussions. 

    Please note,
    "Girls always used to get married in their teens, without (((education)))"

    As for any comments about me personally- have fun with that. 


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #136 on: July 06, 2025, 05:34:56 PM »
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  • I don't think you are using the word "assertion" properly. I stated I gathered information. I surmised and then stated I had not seen certain discussions.

    Please note,
    "Girls always used to get married in their teens, without (((education)))"

    As for any comments about me personally- have fun with that.


    Education here obviously refers to Jєωιѕн brainwashing :facepalm: After highschool any more education makes a woman delay marriage and risks feminist brainwashing. It's not something you can deny, someone even posted a graph here earlier showing that education delays marriage in woman.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #137 on: July 06, 2025, 05:36:16 PM »
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  • I know sir you feel very confident in your various assertions. They are all based in a boomer, naive way of looking at the world. A wordlview which is now bearing the true fruits we were warned it would. Catasrophic decline in marriage rates. Divorce through the roof.

    -No one said no education. Just not over and unnecessary education.
    - 18 in most societies everywhere before the 50s was pretty normal.
    As for your lack of discussion on the other topics, all of those are up to their fathers. Boomer fathers have done a pretty poor job so far. Making their daughters as unnattractive as possible to future husbands.

    I am not the OP. Just another man with sanity.
    It's true, nothing like seething a woman either in the teens or 20s that is overweight, has short hair, and dresses like a man :clown: what are the parents doing? These are 'trad' families :confused:

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #138 on: July 06, 2025, 05:40:58 PM »
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  • Thank you for this post.
    Based on what I have read, I have gathered the following regarding the OP (or a few of these males):

    • Want to marry a 17-18 year old female  to ensure "peak fertility"
    • Always been normal throughout history
    • Will need 1-2 years of courting, so she will be 15-16 when he begins courtship
    • Courtship should be 1 year MAX, so 16-18 is fine.
    • Cannot be educated
    This refers to Jєωιѕн brainwashing not basic education, uni and other post highschool stuff is a meme
    • Currently mid-20's and will need time to make money (see cost of living/job posts)
    half true, some guys manage to provide by their mid 20s others by 30s.
    • Ideal marriage age difference 37 male to 18 female
    According to Aristotle, but others have said yes in regards to the womans age but no in regards to the mans age. Personally mid 20s-early 30s for the man is my ideal age for a man (i am a man)[/list]

    This will mean that he needs to start "sourcing" his bride for ten years from now. The bride will have to be 4-6 years old right now.
    :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm:

    I have not seen a discussion of how she will be able to have children, and run the household with little to no education.
    You assumed that (((education))) meant not learning anything
    Granted, he will probably state there is some education,
    Yes
    but one does not know what since there is no elaboration.
    :facepalm:
     There is never ever any mention of her faith and catechism understanding either...
    These things are assumed, of course the husband can always teach her if required
    Who will handle the grocery shopping? Bills? 
    Easy to learn and the girls should have learnt from their parents
    Dealing  with various repairs/utility situations?
    That's the man's responsibility 
    Hiring folks for possible work on vehicles/house jobs?
    Not difficult
    What happens if the husband dies?
    They have a funeral obviously 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #139 on: July 06, 2025, 05:48:37 PM »
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  • I know sir you feel very confident in your various assertions. They are all based in a boomer, naive way of looking at the world. A wordlview which is now bearing the true fruits we were warned it would. Catasrophic decline in marriage rates. Divorce through the roof.

    -No one said no education. Just not over and unnecessary education.
    - 18 in most societies everywhere before the 50s was pretty normal.
    As for your lack of discussion on the other topics, all of those are up to their fathers. Boomer fathers have done a pretty poor job so far. Making their daughters as unnattractive as possible to future husbands.

    I am not the OP. Just another man with sanity.
    Peter's response is very boomerish, taking extremes and exaggerated examples plus assuming the worst.

    Age is only one thing, I have no baldness in my family which means I would prioritise and older woman (22+) over a younger (teens) if she doesn't have baldness in her family, or at least her fathers side lest my sons become bald.

    It was mentioned on CI many times, you bring many things to the table, age is just one of them and have more value to some than others.

    Now if we talk about ideals then yes a beautiful slim white teen girl with no family baldness is my ideal.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #140 on: July 06, 2025, 06:09:36 PM »
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  • Baldness? seriously? In this valley of tears, all the possible weaknesses, congenital defects and hereditary health disorders or flaws a person could have, you're going to make a big deal about baldness of all things?

    That is about as superficial as it gets.

    As far as I can tell, just about everyone becomes "old" after 60 or 65. Whether it's wrinkly skin, bald, bad memory, bad eyes (if not blind), bad hearing (if not deaf), bad knees, bad back, bad heart, obesity -- something's going to "get you" when you get to late middle age, let alone retirement age.

    You're going to die of some illness, if an accident doesn't take you first. Whether it's alzheimers, heart attack, cancer, stroke. Which of those would you prefer? Of course we'd all choose none-of-the-above. But that's not a choice. Welcome to this vale of tears. Form a close relationship with Jesus Christ and His Sorrowful Mother, and death will lose much of its sting.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #141 on: July 06, 2025, 06:30:05 PM »
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  • I have not seen a discussion of how she will be able to have children, and run the household with little to no education. 
    Parents should be discussing their children's vocation with them, long before age 18.  Also, mothers USED TO teach their girls how to cook, clean, and run a household.  Young ladies USED TO know all this stuff by age 18, whether they were going to be married or not.

    Even now, I don't see a lot of emphasis in Trad circles on preparing teens for a marriage vocation.  The discussion is either -- religious vocation or go to college.  

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #142 on: July 06, 2025, 08:55:50 PM »
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  • Baldness? seriously? In this valley of tears, all the possible weaknesses, congenital defects and hereditary health disorders or flaws a person could have, you're going to make a big deal about baldness of all things?

    That is about as superficial as it gets.

    As far as I can tell, just about everyone becomes "old" after 60 or 65. Whether it's wrinkly skin, bald, bad memory, bad eyes (if not blind), bad hearing (if not deaf), bad knees, bad back, bad heart, obesity -- something's going to "get you" when you get to late middle age, let alone retirement age.

    You're going to die of some illness, if an accident doesn't take you first. Whether it's alzheimers, heart attack, cancer, stroke. Which of those would you prefer? Of course we'd all choose none-of-the-above. But that's not a choice. Welcome to this vale of tears. Form a close relationship with Jesus Christ and His Sorrowful Mother, and death will lose much of its sting.
    No without baldness may get some recession on their hair line or have some thinness/patches but they don't really go bald. It might sound vain but it's not that far from selecting by race, ultimately it's DNA that can't be lost, both race and baldness are things I have to consider, i have seen how bald men get treated unless they have the right face/skull. I know a few guys balding in their teens/20s, it's rough.

    The romans considered baldness a disability btw


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #143 on: July 07, 2025, 01:12:40 AM »
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  • Only terminally online people care about age gaps people in reality don't care. I saw people online arguing about a 18 yr old man with a 17yr old woman being a bad thing because she's too young :facepalm:. These people are delusional. The real issue is there relationship is improper and the man is too young to lead and provide. Instead they complain about teenage being children. 

    How do people get this brainwashed? Seriously 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #144 on: July 07, 2025, 06:09:06 AM »
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  • Two or three of you sound like inexperienced young males not living in reality….. 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #145 on: July 07, 2025, 07:24:28 AM »
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  • Two or three of you sound like inexperienced young males not living in reality…..
    Expand on your take, otherwise it's hot air.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #146 on: July 07, 2025, 07:46:19 AM »
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  • Not by the standards of all of human history. A woman of 23 in most was considered an old maid.

    But hey, if you want to make your standards according to a society that kills one third of its infants, allows sodomy, divorce and fornication to run rampant, then be my guest.
    This is time of great apostasy and near the end of the world. 
    Even more so to look less to looks and more to the soul of the woman. The goodness of her soul is the only quality that matters. It is immature and inexperienced men who say such things. A man that calls a woman old at 23 will not cherish her the way Our Lord commands us to. We all age. Will men cherish a good woman? Thank God if you found one. They are rare creatures. This obsession with extreme youth is poison and points to a short sighted blindness. Are men all now so base that the only value they will perceive in women is the quality that satisfies their lust? “O judgement thou art fled to brutish beasts and men have lost their reason” The west completely deserves the coming chastisement. 


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #147 on: July 07, 2025, 08:02:40 AM »
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  • This is time of great apostasy and near the end of the world.
    Even more so to look less to looks and more to the soul of the woman. The goodness of her soul is the only quality that matters. It is immature and inexperienced men who say such things. A man that calls a woman old at 23 will not cherish her the way Our Lord commands us to. We all age. Will men cherish a good woman? Thank God if you found one. They are rare creatures. This obsession with extreme youth is poison and points to a short sighted blindness. Are men all now so base that the only value they will perceive in women is the quality that satisfies their lust? “O judgement thou art fled to brutish beasts and men have lost their reason” The west completely deserves the coming chastisement.


    “Grace being the soul of thy complexion shall keep the body of it ever fair”
    Youth is a good... Also every woman was young at one point. It makes no sense for a woman not to look for a husband when young.

    So yes youth does matter, as each woman had it at some point, same with virginity. So if I am a man who has life experience, is mature and knows how to lead a family, and is financially capable to provide for a stay at home wife and mother, why wouldn't I try to get a woman according to my desires?

    Men see working hard and not getting a woman they like as an injustice. Why work hard if you don't get what you want? That's illogical and pointless, you have wasted your time and effort.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #148 on: July 07, 2025, 08:58:50 AM »
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  • This is time of great apostasy and near the end of the world.
    Even more so to look less to looks and more to the soul of the woman. The goodness of her soul is the only quality that matters. It is immature and inexperienced men who say such things. A man that calls a woman old at 23 will not cherish her the way Our Lord commands us to. We all age. Will men cherish a good woman? Thank God if you found one. They are rare creatures. This obsession with extreme youth is poison and points to a short sighted blindness. Are men all now so base that the only value they will perceive in women is the quality that satisfies their lust? “O judgement thou art fled to brutish beasts and men have lost their reason” The west completely deserves the coming chastisement.


    “Grace being the soul of thy complexion shall keep the body of it ever fair”
    A younger wife is better for the children and the husband.  Beauty is not the main factor; youth is.  And yes, a woman's piousness is very important.

    The rest of your quote about immature men and lust is just off-topic.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #149 on: July 07, 2025, 02:07:48 PM »
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  •  graph here earlier showing that education delays marriage in woman.
    Statistical correlation does not equal causation.
    For example, women who marry young are less likely to go to college.
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