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« Reply #120 on: July 04, 2025, 06:55:30 PM »
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  • Sure it does.  You just want to accept the truth. 

    Men are perfectly happy being alone.  Women are not.  As God told Eve in the garden — Your desire shall be for your husband —.  Men do not have the same desire for family that women do.  Because men can take care of themselves, while women cannot. 

    The modern world has to brainwash women to be alone — you’re independent, you’re strong, you don’t need a man — meanwhile the opposite is true.  Women need men way, way, way more than men need women.  Modern women will be reminded of this when it’s too late.
    Scripture literally says Adam was sad because he had no companion like the other animals and God said it is not good for man to be alone. As a young man I do not want to be alone, but I won't marry the wrong person either.

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    « Reply #121 on: July 04, 2025, 06:58:52 PM »
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  • Yes this truth is found in Scripture because women are saved through childbirth.  She absolutely can't do that without a man.  And those who become spiritual mothers can't do that without men either because they require the Church.

    Men on the other hand don't need women, but they do prefer to have one.

    Women never choose.  It's the man who chooses.  She can only say yes or no.  Even in a bad marriage the man is the one who chooses.  She's along for the ride.
    This isn't true. Its the woman who also chooses. That's why secular woman choose the top % of men while ignoring the men who choose them. 


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    « Reply #122 on: July 04, 2025, 07:35:09 PM »
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  • This isn't true. It’s the woman who also chooses. That's why secular woman choose the top % of men while ignoring the men who choose them.
    No even in modern dating, women chase after the top % of men, but these men aren’t marrying them.  

    Women choose who they date but men choose who they marry. 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #123 on: July 04, 2025, 09:25:22 PM »
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  • Yes this truth is found in Scripture because women are saved through childbirth.  She absolutely can't do that without a man.  And those who become spiritual mothers can't do that without men either because they require the Church.

    Men on the other hand don't need women, but they do prefer to have one.

    Women never choose.  It's the man who chooses.  She can only say yes or no.  Even in a bad marriage the man is the one who chooses.  She's along for the ride.
    Try being a man and put yourself out there, they get rejected FAR MORE than women do. In a bad marriage, the woman can file for divorce in our society. For men, it's "cheaper to keep her". 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #124 on: July 05, 2025, 12:46:00 AM »
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  • Try being a man and put yourself out there, they get rejected FAR MORE than women do. In a bad marriage, the woman can file for divorce in our society. For men, it's "cheaper to keep her".
    Girls always used to get married in their teens, without (((education))) they are far less likely to divorce and become a brainwashed feminist. A slim teenage girl is very cute, just don't be fat ladies, and have long hair. A slim 20s woman is attractive but lacks the appeal of a young lady.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #125 on: July 05, 2025, 12:52:36 AM »
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  • Girls always used to get married in their teens, without (((education))) they are far less likely to divorce and become a brainwashed feminist. A slim teenage girl is very cute, just don't be fat ladies, and have long hair. A slim 20s woman is attractive but lacks the appeal of a young lady.
    Also the younger lady is the more likely she is to be feminine. I've seen trad girls in their 20s with short hair, colored hair, clothes that don't cover the calves/forearms. Younger girls tend to be more humble, meek and quiet, unfortunately many lose this femininity as they grow if the parents don't educate them properly and allow Jєωιѕн indoctrination to get a hold of their minds.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #126 on: July 05, 2025, 10:44:03 AM »
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  • Girls always used to get married in their teens, without (((education))) they are far less likely to divorce and become a brainwashed feminist. A slim teenage girl is very cute, just don't be fat ladies, and have long hair. A slim 20s woman is attractive but lacks the appeal of a young lady.
    As if a 20s woman isn't a young lady? People need to resume life in the real world.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #127 on: July 05, 2025, 02:38:59 PM »
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  • As if a 20s woman isn't a young lady? People need to resume life in the real world.
    So true. It's sad to see young men so focused on looks which are ephemeral. Any person with sense knows that the person's character and a deep spiritual life are the only things that last. Looks fade quickly.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #128 on: July 05, 2025, 05:21:31 PM »
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  • As if a 20s woman isn't a young lady? People need to resume life in the real world.
    By fertility once a woman is 23 she has started her decline, so indeed she isn't young.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #129 on: July 05, 2025, 05:23:07 PM »
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  • So true. It's sad to see young men so focused on looks which are ephemeral. Any person with sense knows that the person's character and a deep spiritual life are the only things that last. Looks fade quickly.
    Younger girls are both more cute and more fertile, and this is the biology that God has created. Having offspring is the primary function of marriage, it's no surprise that woman at their most fertile are also the most appealing to men.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #130 on: July 06, 2025, 03:05:10 PM »
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  • Younger girls are both more cute and more fertile, and this is the biology that God has created. Having offspring is the primary function of marriage, it's no surprise that woman at their most fertile are also the most appealing to men.
    Looks don't last. Males unable to accept that biological fact are the ones most likely to stray.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #131 on: July 06, 2025, 04:24:14 PM »
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  • As if a 20s woman isn't a young lady? People need to resume life in the real world.
    Thank you for this post.
    Based on what I have read, I have gathered the following regarding the OP (or a few of these males):

    • Want to marry a 17-18 year old female  to ensure "peak fertility"
    • Will need 1-2 years of courting, so she will be 15-16 when he begins courtship
    • Cannot be educated
    • Currently mid-20's and will need time to make money (see cost of living/job posts)
    • Ideal marriage age difference 37 male to 18 female

    This will mean that he needs to start "sourcing" his bride for ten years from now. The bride will have to be 4-6 years old right now.


    I have not seen a discussion of how she will be able to have children, and run the household with little to no education. Granted, he will probably state there is some education, but one does not know what since there is no elaboration. There is never ever any mention of her faith and catechism understanding either...
    Who will handle the grocery shopping? Bills? Dealing  with various repairs/utility situations? Hiring folks for possible work on vehicles/house jobs? What happens if the husband dies?





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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #132 on: July 06, 2025, 04:46:04 PM »
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  • As if a 20s woman isn't a young lady? People need to resume life in the real world.
    Not by the standards of all of human history. A woman of 23 in most was considered an old maid.

    But hey, if you want to make your standards according to a society that kills one third of its infants, allows sodomy, divorce and fornication to run rampant, then be my guest.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #133 on: July 06, 2025, 04:47:05 PM »
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  • So true. It's sad to see young men so focused on looks which are ephemeral. Any person with sense knows that the person's character and a deep spiritual life are the only things that last. Looks fade quickly.
    Thats also true. Men should search for what a woman keeps after her looks fade. however 23 is starting to push it.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #134 on: July 06, 2025, 04:53:16 PM »
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  • Thank you for this post.
    Based on what I have read, I have gathered the following regarding the OP (or a few of these males):

    • Want to marry a 17-18 year old female  to ensure "peak fertility"
    • Will need 1-2 years of courting, so she will be 15-16 when he begins courtship
    • Cannot be educated
    • Currently mid-20's and will need time to make money (see cost of living/job posts)
    • Ideal marriage age difference 37 male to 18 female

    This will mean that he needs to start "sourcing" his bride for ten years from now. The bride will have to be 4-6 years old right now.


    I have not seen a discussion of how she will be able to have children, and run the household with little to no education. Granted, he will probably state there is some education, but one does not know what since there is no elaboration. There is never ever any mention of her faith and catechism understanding either...
    Who will handle the grocery shopping? Bills? Dealing  with various repairs/utility situations? Hiring folks for possible work on vehicles/house jobs? What happens if the husband dies?


    I know sir you feel very confident in your various assertions. They are all based in a boomer, naive way of looking at the world. A wordlview which is now bearing the true fruits we were warned it would. Catasrophic decline in marriage rates. Divorce through the roof.

    -No one said no education. Just not over and unnecessary education.
    - 18 in most societies everywhere before the 50s was pretty normal. 
    As for your lack of discussion on the other topics, all of those are up to their fathers. Boomer fathers have done a pretty poor job so far. Making their daughters as unnattractive as possible to future husbands. 

    I am not the OP. Just another man with sanity.