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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #715 on: December 05, 2025, 11:01:34 AM »
Women overwhelmingly support the novus ordo system. 
Women overwhelmingly support indult vs Tradition.
Women overwhelmingly support the new-sspx vs old-school, principle-based Tradition (i.e. Sedevacantism, Resistance, Independent).

As Fulton Sheen said, "Society goes how women go."  Women today don't put religion as priority #1, so they don't marry religious men, so families aren't very religious, Tradition suffers, the Church suffers, etc.
1st Timothy 2
11A woman a should learn in quietness and full submission. 12I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; b she must be quiet. 13For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15But women c will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

trying to explain this to western women is impossible. “There will come a time when men will not endure sound doctrine” well….. welcome to it. 🤷‍♂️ They are far too “ educated” and self sufficient. Of course the opposite of that is not good either. There is no balance any more everything’s been pushed to the extremes. But here we sit with birth rates plummeted, divorce rates sky rocketed, movements like mgtow happening. Everything is fine and we should just keep doing what we’re doing! 😵‍💫
The recent controversy between Joe heshmier and Timothy Gordon is one worth listening to. I believe one of the female respondent used the word phlegmatic. So if they are not analyzing us by the position of the stars on a given day like via whoreiscopes they are judging us by the amount of bile or phlegm we produce hahah you can’t win! They don’t say simply this man loves God and I can trust him to make decisions and have the final word. God didn’t say if he is this type do this if he is this type do that. He simply said submit to the man as the man submits to me! Women will not be judged for the outcomes of the decisions made they will be judged by how well they followed His instructions. Gods instructions. But back to the subject, I’m not sure older women can be instructed like this. Younger women……. Maybe. It would be considered misogynistic to say you have to train your wife but if the parents are not doing it……. What does that mean for the spouse? 

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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #716 on: December 05, 2025, 11:10:40 AM »
1st Timothy 2
11A woman a should learn in quietness and full submission. 12I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; b she must be quiet. 13For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15But women c will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

trying to explain this to western women is impossible. “There will come a time when men will not endure sound doctrine” well….. welcome to it. 🤷‍♂️ They are far too “ educated” and self sufficient. Of course the opposite of that is not good either. There is no balance any more everything’s been pushed to the extremes. But here we sit with birth rates plummeted, divorce rates sky rocketed, movements like mgtow happening. Everything is fine and we should just keep doing what we’re doing! 😵‍💫
The recent controversy between Joe heshmier and Timothy Gordon is one worth listening to. I believe one of the female respondent used the word phlegmatic. So if they are not analyzing us by the position of the stars on a given day like via whoreiscopes they are judging us by the amount of bile or phlegm we produce hahah you can’t win! They don’t say simply this man loves God and I can trust him to make decisions and have the final word. God didn’t say if he is this type do this if he is this type do that. He simply said submit to the man as the man submits to me! Women will not be judged for the outcomes of the decisions made they will be judged by how well they followed His instructions. Gods instructions. But back to the subject, I’m not sure older women can be instructed like this. Younger women……. Maybe. It would be considered misogynistic to say you have to train your wife but if the parents are not doing it……. What does that mean for the spouse?
The church has talked about personality types one leans toward.

Sanguine
Melancholic
Phlegmatic
Choleric 

It kind of helps to know when looking at predominant faults for people to overcome.

Yes I am a women, I probably should have stayed silent, but I am Meloncholic and don't like misinformation or misunderstandings.  So here we are.  :cowboy:


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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #717 on: December 05, 2025, 11:41:19 AM »
1st Timothy 2
11A woman a should learn in quietness and full submission. 12I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; b she must be quiet. 13For Adam was formed first, then Eve. 14And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15But women c will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.

trying to explain this to western women is impossible. “There will come a time when men will not endure sound doctrine” well….. welcome to it. 🤷‍♂️ They are far too “ educated” and self sufficient. Of course the opposite of that is not good either. There is no balance any more everything’s been pushed to the extremes. But here we sit with birth rates plummeted, divorce rates sky rocketed, movements like mgtow happening. Everything is fine and we should just keep doing what we’re doing! 😵‍💫
The recent controversy between Joe heshmier and Timothy Gordon is one worth listening to. I believe one of the female respondent used the word phlegmatic. So if they are not analyzing us by the position of the stars on a given day like via whoreiscopes they are judging us by the amount of bile or phlegm we produce hahah you can’t win! They don’t say simply this man loves God and I can trust him to make decisions and have the final word. God didn’t say if he is this type do this if he is this type do that. He simply said submit to the man as the man submits to me! Women will not be judged for the outcomes of the decisions made they will be judged by how well they followed His instructions. Gods instructions. But back to the subject, I’m not sure older women can be instructed like this. Younger women……. Maybe. It would be considered misogynistic to say you have to train your wife but if the parents are not doing it……. What does that mean for the spouse?
Please define exactly what teaching in the church means (for the casual observers). When I hear that I am to stay silent (I and maybe others think on all things)  Are we not allowed to have opinions or ideas or anything useful to society except raising children?  This is only a small part of life, the ages 15 (to show I am not against age gaps, but 18 is more preferable to show that i am not encouraging something that 2025 looks poorly on) to 55, but then what are women useful for if the live to 90?

Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #718 on: December 05, 2025, 12:12:31 PM »
Please define exactly what teaching in the church means (for the casual observers). When I hear that I am to stay silent (I and maybe others think on all things)  Are we not allowed to have opinions or ideas or anything useful to society except raising children?  This is only a small part of life, the ages 15 (to show I am not against age gaps, but 18 is more preferable to show that i am not encouraging something that 2025 looks poorly on) to 55, but then what are women useful for if the live to 90?
The Catholic answer is very simple and laid out throughout its history. Since Americanism we have the average 2.5 kids where as in tradition we had 10-12 my grandmother came from a house of 18 kids. They all lived good productive lives and were all raised by their mother because great great gramps hit the bottle a lot and she used to have to embarrass him and drag him out of the bar before the money was gone more than once haha. But when you get your brief respite from raising those kids the kids start having kids and your running around helping them all out. You can’t have an opinion and the man in good faith can take your advice but the ultimate decision is to go unquestioned. The man is the head. As for forums like these, this is all new. Men and women never interacted like this through all of history. Ultimately everyone makes their own decisions in a forum and no one has authority online. In person if some crazy man and you get into an argument………. The man will have the ultimate decision for sake of his anatomy if he’s right or wrong. That’s basic nature. 

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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #719 on: December 05, 2025, 12:23:34 PM »
Please define exactly what teaching in the church means (for the casual observers). When I hear that I am to stay silent (I and maybe others think on all things)  Are we not allowed to have opinions or ideas or anything useful to society except raising children?  This is only a small part of life, the ages 15 (to show I am not against age gaps, but 18 is more preferable to show that i am not encouraging something that 2025 looks poorly on) to 55, but then what are women useful for if the live to 90?
You're a wife.  Your job is in the home.  Your focus is your family.  When your children move out, your focus is your husband.  Do what he wants to do.  Support him.  

Why do you feel the need to evangelize or discuss theology online?  How do you not have more to do at home?