Lol the topic is very much objective. Hilarious you tried to claim otherwise.

The issue is whether it is right or wrong. Morality is OBJECTIVE.

And your stubborn attempts to keep dragging it into the realm of the subjective is exactly why anonymity is important.

You truly bring out the worst in female nature.

Stealing is morally wrong. Objective 

Is there a difference between a punk kid stealing for fun and a starving person stealing?

Yes there is a difference.

This topic of age gaps has the same application.  Age gaps are acceptable to the Church, that is an objective truth, but the nuance is 2025 16 and 17 year old girls are not taught to be ready for marriage.  35 year old men who look at these girls give a creepy vibe to the mothers as well as the daughters.  How do we change this?  Probably by not talking about it anymore, turning to God, and praying.

You change this by unbrainwashing the mothers and daughters. A man's nature does not change. If he worked hard during his youth and desire marriage, he may become resentful if people expect him to marry an old lady who just waited at the finish line.

Prayer alone does not solve problems. Discussing them helps. But unfortunately as it was mentioned early on, many women left this forum because they didn't like the topic. Instead of trying to understand male nature they decided to ignore reality and double down on feminism.

The age gaps are only going to widen as more and more men are getting older in search of a woman to have kids with. Since women their own age are getting too old means they have to mate with younger women to survive. So either old men have young girls or the race dies. It's really that simple, but whites care more about muh age gap than their own survival as usual.

  How do we change this?  Probably by not talking about it anymore, turning to God, and praying.

A glimmer of humility. That novena is starting to have an effect. 

But I also attribute my constant bearing down on you. I say so... in all humility of course :)

The age gaps are only going to widen as more and more men are getting older in search of a woman to have kids with. Since women their own age are getting too old means they have to mate with younger women to survive. So either old men have young girls or the race dies. It's really that simple, but whites care more about muh age gap than their own survival as usual.

Solid analysis brother.

As a man, who has been in multiple age gap relationships (marriage attempts lets call it) now, I can say that its not as hard to find women who are willing, but it is hard to find women who are stable enough to get all the way. I keep noticing that.

It's genuinely nothing wrong with me. (Not saying that I'm perfect), but there is 100 percent something more and more wrong with young women these days, and I am not the only one seeing it. 

Spiritually I have been advised, by a wise older layman, to pray hard to St. Joseph. Which he regretted not doing. I'm trying to take that advice. 

There are multiple reasons for general craziness. One is their bad fathers. Best will in the world might be there, but their fathers are hopeless. However, to be fair, there are many situations, where its not that. So you can't blame it all on that.

Within tradition, I find the objection to age gaps is much, much stronger than in indult/novus ordo/ worldly groups. It's ironic really. Sometimes even our own priests are against it. So what can you do if the parents and even the priests are against it. And I am talking about resistance priests here.

So in a way, I have almost ruled out meeting someone within the resistance. Though seeing some of the good reactions here on this forum gives me hope. Because a resistance girl will be much more solidly formed than a girl with a past in the world. And by past in the world I do not mean promiscuity. Just bad character formation (from divorced or troubled backgrounds etc. )

I take heart also by seeing all the other men who really have this worked out. I know I'm not the only one noticing this age gap objection madness, and not the only one really trying to verbalize whats wrong with it. Even more hope by knowing that these guys are probably younger than me. The madness of the general populace of young men also infuriates me too, though in a different way.

Sometimes, though the resistance parents will be fine with the age gaps, but then the girls have picked up the brainwashing from other quarters. And this does make me angry. Not at the parents, as they may have done their best, but just at the general evil of the thing. Because it's highly probable that these girls will not realize how stupid they are until it is too late. (and before you say it, I am taking into account that she is "just not attracted to you" etc. etc.)

Ironically some of them I hear go off and marry absolute morons of men. I don't say that with any bitterness, genuinely. These guys are often totally faithless or worldly, or generally lacking in brain cells. It's almost like these girls want to spite their parents and the massive effort they put into their upbringing. For me, it matters little, cos I just move on. But I do feel for the parents who would much rather have had me for a son in law, than the walking nincompoop their daughter chose. Lol. What are you gonna do. Pray.

As tradition gets smaller, and God smites some, He also raises up others. Conversions come from surprising places. So, younger men than me, I say this: total trust in God is of utmost importance.

I know God and His Blessed Mother will pull through for me. They always have, and always will.


Holy Mary, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.... Amen.

A glimmer of humility. That novena is starting to have an effect.

But I also attribute my constant bearing down on you. I say so... in all humility of course :)

See I am not so obstinate that I can't learn.  I am definitely a very slow learner.