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Offline Simeon

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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #660 on: November 29, 2025, 08:23:02 PM »
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  • I think the issue is is that I'm somewhat attractive where a 6/8 girl should consider me on their level depending on if I'm there type. But girls want a man who is greater than them.

    Also it's not Catholic to be a rebel, depending on the sense. And I do have a rough side I just keep to myself mainly because it's prudent. And considering my strong belief I can be considered a "rebel' since I don't fully follow either the sspx, resistance or sedes.

    If the slim girls are attracted to me they don't show it. Girls really need to work on their unofficial signalling to men.

    If there is a particular slim girl you like, then go talk to her. What's all this BS about signaling? You're the man. Go capture your prey.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #661 on: November 29, 2025, 08:31:03 PM »
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  • No you are ignoring the clear feminist infection on this forum. It's quite clear they keep making shit up and calling healthy men perverts. These posters aren't Catholic, they don't care about nuances, only attacking men for being men and not pathetic cucks, simps and whipped beta male feminists.
    If you want understanding, you have to meet people at their level and raise them up.  Turning this whole thing into you are just an evil feminist vs you are just an evol perv is just baiting most people to put there worst foot forward.  I am sorry that you are obviously frustrated,  but you can't change anyone else.  When will you decide this debate is going nowhere?
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #662 on: November 29, 2025, 08:32:19 PM »
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  • I have to throw in my two cents for what it’s worth. Just 200 years ago and less kids used to be married at 15 and already know how to run a home, build a home, and start a life together. No we watch kids that age break eachothers hearts and run around like crazy with multiple partners and out of wedlock pregnancies. Now it is acceptable to be considered a child into your 30s living in mas basement. I don’t think it’s possible for kids to remain celibate especially if they are going to college and have to remain like that until they are well into their 20s it’s just not natural and makes for low reproduction rates and high abortion rates. At 40 years old I have absolutely nothing in common with 20 year old women so I’m not sure what the fantasy is of courting one. That’s not very natural either but in order to get kids 14-16 to straighten out when it comes to relationships I don’t see any other way than raising them right and marrying them off young. I think that would greatly benefit the society and stop a lot of heart brake and bad consequences that we see today in the man woman divide. At 40 if your still single and childless like me it’s a tragedy! My parents low key hate me for it. Unless your celibate for religious reasons, your a saint or priest, it’s not natural or even healthy to be alone! Ask me how I know 🤣 it’s just depressing, lonely, and your asking to be a cat lady or a dog daddy. This is not good! The only way I see to correct is to go back to the way it’s been done 1000s of years and get these kids family oriented by just a few short years into puberty. If your still single and looking for one of these young girls by the time your in your late 20s and 30s there is something wrong with you because you should have been married by then anyway! 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #663 on: November 29, 2025, 08:52:48 PM »
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  • I have to throw in my two cents for what it’s worth. Just 200 years ago and less kids used to be married at 15 and already know how to run a home, build a home, and start a life together. No we watch kids that age break eachothers hearts and run around like crazy with multiple partners and out of wedlock pregnancies. Now it is acceptable to be considered a child into your 30s living in mas basement. I don’t think it’s possible for kids to remain celibate especially if they are going to college and have to remain like that until they are well into their 20s it’s just not natural and makes for low reproduction rates and high abortion rates. At 40 years old I have absolutely nothing in common with 20 year old women so I’m not sure what the fantasy is of courting one. That’s not very natural either but in order to get kids 14-16 to straighten out when it comes to relationships I don’t see any other way than raising them right and marrying them off young. I think that would greatly benefit the society and stop a lot of heart brake and bad consequences that we see today in the man woman divide. At 40 if your still single and childless like me it’s a tragedy! My parents low key hate me for it. Unless your celibate for religious reasons, your a saint or priest, it’s not natural or even healthy to be alone! Ask me how I know 🤣 it’s just depressing, lonely, and your asking to be a cat lady or a dog daddy. This is not good! The only way I see to correct is to go back to the way it’s been done 1000s of years and get these kids family oriented by just a few short years into puberty. If your still single and looking for one of these young girls by the time your in your late 20s and 30s there is something wrong with you because you should have been married by then anyway!

    Great post! And thanks for putting your name on it. It mean's you're a real man. 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #664 on: November 29, 2025, 09:12:38 PM »
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  • I have to throw in my two cents for what it’s worth. Just 200 years ago and less kids used to be married at 15 and already know how to run a home, build a home, and start a life together. No we watch kids that age break eachothers hearts and run around like crazy with multiple partners and out of wedlock pregnancies. Now it is acceptable to be considered a child into your 30s living in mas basement. I don’t think it’s possible for kids to remain celibate especially if they are going to college and have to remain like that until they are well into their 20s it’s just not natural and makes for low reproduction rates and high abortion rates. At 40 years old I have absolutely nothing in common with 20 year old women so I’m not sure what the fantasy is of courting one. That’s not very natural either but in order to get kids 14-16 to straighten out when it comes to relationships I don’t see any other way than raising them right and marrying them off young. I think that would greatly benefit the society and stop a lot of heart brake and bad consequences that we see today in the man woman divide. At 40 if your still single and childless like me it’s a tragedy! My parents low key hate me for it. Unless your celibate for religious reasons, your a saint or priest, it’s not natural or even healthy to be alone! Ask me how I know 🤣 it’s just depressing, lonely, and your asking to be a cat lady or a dog daddy. This is not good! The only way I see to correct is to go back to the way it’s been done 1000s of years and get these kids family oriented by just a few short years into puberty. If your still single and looking for one of these young girls by the time your in your late 20s and 30s there is something wrong with you because you should have been married by then anyway!
    The way I kind of see it, we might be in for some never-before-seen levels of chastisement within the next 5 years..so not being married within that time, and having an infant, toddler, might be a blessing in (a lonely) disguise. I have been considering getting a dog though...
    John 15:19  If you had been of the world, the world would love its own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #665 on: November 29, 2025, 09:17:33 PM »
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  • A man who wants to have a Holy and Happy family life is a pervert???? You aren't Catholic. This is so vile, feminism truly is going to damn a lot of women.
    A 24 year old man looking at a 14 year old for marriage will NEVER have a holy and happy family life because pedophilia is not holy.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #666 on: November 29, 2025, 09:19:36 PM »
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  • A 24 year old man looking at a 14 year old for marriage will NEVER have a holy and happy family life because pedophilia is not holy.
    That is, by definition, not pedophilia :facepalm:
    John 15:19  If you had been of the world, the world would love its own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #667 on: November 29, 2025, 09:19:55 PM »
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  • No that fine as well, cope. You are just a feminist, stop calling health men pervs, it's vile and unCatholic. There is no sin here.
    A 20+ year old looking at a 13 year old for dating/marriage is pedophilia.

    Matthew, why are you letting this vomit continue on Cathinfo?  Isn't being traditional catholic hard enough without the world thinking we're a bunch of pedophiles?


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #668 on: November 29, 2025, 09:27:40 PM »
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  • The way I kind of see it, we might be in for some never-before-seen levels of chastisement within the next 5 years..so not being married within that time, and having an infant, toddler, might be a blessing in (a lonely) disguise. I have been considering getting a dog though...
    I don’t know how old you are worlds but i started thinking that exact same way about my mid 20s the world was going to end then too. If I had settled down then I might have a 15 year old son by now bigger, tougher, meaner, stronger, smarter than me by now and he’d be a great help in preparations and defense. So don’t let terrible times stop you! This was during the Obama-nation days I thought exactly like you! We’re not defeated yet. People are waking up fast and that will either prolong things or the elites will panic and push us into a major conflict as fast as they can. I can’t tell the future but families can be a God send through hard times. You can always get a dog!

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #669 on: November 29, 2025, 09:32:09 PM »
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  • Great post! And thanks for putting your name on it. It mean's you're a real man.
    Oh no! I didn’t click the box!!? 😱 hahaha

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #670 on: November 29, 2025, 09:59:07 PM »
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  • I don’t know how old you are worlds but i started thinking that exact same way about my mid 20s the world was going to end then too. If I had settled down then I might have a 15 year old son by now bigger, tougher, meaner, stronger, smarter than me by now and he’d be a great help in preparations and defense. So don’t let terrible times stop you! This was during the Obama-nation days I thought exactly like you! We’re not defeated yet. People are waking up fast and that will either prolong things or the elites will panic and push us into a major conflict as fast as they can. I can’t tell the future but families can be a God send through hard times. You can always get a dog!
    Thank you for the insight
    I'm open to the possibility of marriage, but I also accept the fact it may not happen..and therefore am looking for some silver linings if that's the case :laugh1: Either way, I hope I submit to God's Will :incense:

    And 40's not too old for marriage, big dog..who knows, there might be a lady waiting for you at one of those chapels you were recommended!
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #671 on: November 29, 2025, 11:12:53 PM »
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  • . At 40 years old I have absolutely nothing in common with 20 year old women so I’m not sure what the fantasy is of courting one. That’s not very natural either 
    Eh Pope Pius X parents were married at 20 and 41. This nothing in common is nonsense. You have children together and raise in common, you can talk about stuff you both like even if only one of you likes it and the other has other likes. Nothing is common is a enemy talking point frequently found on reddit.

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #672 on: November 30, 2025, 12:33:10 AM »
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  • My Grandma, after marrying her highschool sweetheart at the age of 17 (he was a few years older), lost her husband in her twenties and was left with 4 kids.
    She ended up marrying a man 30 years her elder. They lived many happy years together. At the time she faced a lot of backlash for it and even got disowned by some family members. She was the talk of the town- most everyone thought she was a gold digger, but she really did love him and they shared a great deal of things in common.

    3 years after my grandma’s first husband died, she came to know my grandpa. He and his wife lived next door. About a year after his wife died of cancer, my grandpa had seen her struggling to fix something on her house so being a good neighbor, he came over to help his widowed neighbor accomplish a task that she was really missing her husband for. She did not have any money to offer him so she invited him over for Sunday dinner. From then on he was always there to fix things for her and she always invited him to Sunday dinner. They got to know each other during that time and she grew to love him for his kindness toward her and for the stability he offered her and her children in her vulnerable state. He grew to love her for her gentle kindness and hospitality toward him during such a lonely time so they married.

    After many good years he died. My poor grandma has been alone for a little over 20 years now.  My grandma and I are very close. We confide in each other often. She has told me that despite the bitter sting of loneliness, she wouldn’t have done it differently. She loved both of her husbands very much, in different ways.

    Her story is different, obviously. She married young to a young husband before marrying a man with a large age gap. I’m just relating the story to MichaelKnoxville because you never know what might come along even if you consider yourself over the hill!
    Religion clean and undefiled before God and the Father, is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their tribulation: and to keep one's self unspotted from this world.
    ~James 1:27

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #673 on: November 30, 2025, 04:52:39 AM »
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  • How dishonest, that's not what the post said. He said 10-12 yr olds are more attractive THAN 30+ YEAR OLDS. Not that 10-12 are sɛҳuąƖly attractive. :facepalm: your trolls/feminists are unbelievable. We cannot have a proper discussion of things unless you honestly read and acknowledge the thing said instead of twisting them with your perverted mind.

    Since a woman's fertility peaks from 17-22 the banana scale for woman 25+ being overripe is completely true. What does that make a 30+ yr old? Some of you forgot that at 25 it's considered a geriatric pregnancy.
    1. Tell me the definition intended in the use of the word "attractive".  Please cite the dictionary used and the year of publication. 
    2. Tell me how it would make sense to rate the attractiveness of a 10 year old and then rate the attractiveness of a 10 year old compared to a 30 year old. 


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #674 on: November 30, 2025, 06:34:43 AM »
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  • 1. Tell me the definition intended in the use of the word "attractive".  Please cite the dictionary used and the year of publication.
    2. Tell me how it would make sense to rate the attractiveness of a 10 year old and then rate the attractiveness of a 10 year old compared to a 30 year old.
    :facepalm: a 10 yr old will be 15 in 5 years, while a 30 yr old will be 35. It's called potential. Faces always have this aesthetics, you can tell who has a nice face or who has not in a single glance.

    Rather than play on your feminist word games I will just tell you how it is. It's far more rational to wait to marry a younger lady than to risk marrying an older lady. Unless you don't actually want many children or you are very wealthy and prefer less offspring as to not split your wealth among many.

    Maybe the word 'attractive' is where you are tripped up, the word 'appeal' may make more sense to you. This is basic logic not sɛҳuąƖ desire.