You sound like a woman with a puppy dog for a husband

You sound like a man who should pluck his eyes out.  

Firstly, sugar is bad for you.

What do you consider an age gap?
How much is too much?
Are you male or female?
Roughly how old are you?

Personally I think mainly older women get upset with age gaps because their 'clock' is ticking. While some younger men get upset because they can't compete.

I consider an age gap to be 5+ years
No age gap is too much as the purpose of married is to have children. So it's not about the age gap but fertility.
I am me.
In my 20s.

I keep seeing age gaps demonised online yet the same people have no issue with Elvis Presley and Priscilla Beaulieu having a 10 yr gap (14 and 24) because Elvis 'respected' her and she didn't want sex before marriage so he wasn't a 'groomer'. Yet some members of this forum have vilified men for wanting something similar (or rather something more Holy). So are these secular people more rational than some trad Catholics? Or are they just making an exception because of their personal like of Elvis since he was rich, tall, handsome and famous?

Also on the wedding day they are called the Bride and Brides-GROOM, so why is the term 'groomer' used as an attack? Seems like a hidden attack on marriage if you ask me.

  No age gap is too much."  Wrong.  A 24 year old looking at marrying a 14 year old is a pervert.  However, the age gap seems to be less and less concern when both are much older (70 and 90).

"In my 20s."  You know nothing.  Stop looking at girls and keep you eyes on women within 1-2 years of your age.

Elvis was a known perv.  Definitely a groomer.

Doesn't matter where/how the word originated.  Don't be a groomer.  Grow up, mature, respect women, treat your mother well.

  No age gap is too much."  Wrong.  A 24 year old looking at marrying a 14 year old is a pervert.  However, the age gap seems to be less and less concern when both are much older (70 and 90).

"In my 20s."  You know nothing.  Stop looking at girls and keep you eyes on women within 1-2 years of your age.

Elvis was a known perv.  Definitely a groomer.

Doesn't matter where/how the word originated.  Don't be a groomer.  Grow up, mature, respect women, treat your mother well.

The only people who want to ban age gaps and men liking younger women are feminist trads who have not got the feminism fully washed out of them after their conversion.

You sound so charming and lady like.

I bet the men in your life are so grateful to have you.

Yes, yes, they are .  On the other hand, I’ll bet the teen girls around you flee to their fathers .

I pray to God your belief is not the norm amongst "trads".  You need help.

You're disgusting.

No one is talking about that

I guess when people want to fight they always come back to this topic.

My observation (I am not speaking for anyone)

The women know that their young daughters (12 to 16) are not ready to be looked at this way.  They are not arguing against the age gap they are looking at it from the practical aspect of their own daughters.

The men are not really "pervs", they are just fearful that they will not be able to find a spouse and settle down.  Fear can make people respond aggressively.

If we stop accusing people of the worst and be more understanding of each other, it would be a good act of charity.  (I know know one wants to look at this from that angle.)  Carry on.

Just curious, why are most of the posts on this topic anonymous even if allowed?

My guess is that OP did not want to be known, so he started this in the anonymous forum.  People who don't want their opinion known followed suit.