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    • Quote from: Everlast22 on Yesterday at 12:55:10 PM
    And how do you plan on reckoning with feminism? 
    You can't solve a problem, until you first admit it's an issue.  Traditional catholicism has not yet admitted this is a problem.  The point of this website is to discuss issues and spread the word.  No person or persons is going to fix this issue, because ultimately it's a spiritual problem which afflicts individual souls.  But we can still generally talk about the root causes, in hopes that some people wake up.  Just like the Church talks, generally, about the problems of liberalism, naturalism, protestantism, etc.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #526 on: Yesterday at 01:04:38 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 01:00:06 PM
    You can't solve a problem, until you first admit it's an issue.  Traditional catholicism has not yet admitted this is a problem.  The point of this website is to discuss issues and spread the word.  No person or persons is going to fix this issue, because ultimately it's a spiritual problem which afflicts individual souls.  But we can still generally talk about the root causes, in hopes that some people wake up.  Just like the Church talks, generally, about the problems of liberalism, naturalism, protestantism, etc.
    And what's the root cause..
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    « Reply #527 on: Yesterday at 04:20:48 PM »
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    • I'm a man and was in an age gap relationship a few months ago.
    She seemed perfect in many ways, then the slightest challenge and she totally flipped becoming a different person.
    You can't count on anyone. The women these days are rudderless, without real fathers. It's tragic.
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    « Reply #528 on: Yesterday at 07:00:01 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 11:26:46 AM
    Not chomping at the bit to become a concubine/scapegoat/ doormat? You're a feminist!!

    Joking aside, it's not just repugnant to women. I used to have a very similar mentality to these boys. Long story, but I got to a place where I could step back and take a look at myself more clearly, honestly. Didn't like what I saw, don't know how anyone else put up with me either.
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    If you boys would knock off with chanting your mantras of self-pity for a second, you might just learn to flail a little less and stand up a little more. But maybe that's asking too much. You boys seem to either be incapable or unwilling to understand the message that has been repeatedly offered to you.
    Everlast is making yet another attempt to explain it to you:
    Boomer/feminist response, calling men boys for calling out problems shows how dishonest you are.

    Why do you assume we won't have jobs, take out of ourselves and try to be good Catholic men? Your crap about flailing and standing up is a real testimony to your lack of empathy. Once again you are blaming men when the problem mainly lies with the women and cuck parents.
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    « Reply #529 on: Yesterday at 07:09:34 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 07:00:01 PM
    Boomer/feminist response, calling men boys for calling out problems shows how dishonest you are.

    Why do you assume we won't have jobs, take out of ourselves and try to be good Catholic men? Your crap about flailing and standing up is a real testimony to your lack of empathy. Once again you are blaming men when the problem mainly lies with the women and cuck parents.
    To add, even if I am a perfect man, if the woman are damaged or the parents are retarded I still wouldn't be able to get married.
    Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 12:29:42 PM
    I'm not one of those boys and yet I understand and sympathise with them.

    What you are failing to grasp is that they are venting online. They are not going to be like this when with a woman they like. Can't you get this?

    They are right to be angry.

    It is normal that more women are corrupt than men because women are the weaker sex.


    What's tough for men is they are being asked to wait longer than their grandfathers were. A lot longer.

    Mainly for some generational changes to take place.
    Not only do we have to wait longer, the the quality of women is a lot worse and to top it off we are expecting to marry someone is old and past their prime. No thank you. Hoeflation is very real is is why a lot of guys give up, because there is no point working hard just to not marry someone or to marry someone you don't like and/or who doesn't like you and is only settling for you and not even a virgin.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #530 on: Today at 04:25:38 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 12:23:42 PM

    It was a charitable correction.

    Clearly you don't want to take it. And there is only one reason for it.

    I am anonymous because weak people love to bring personal situations into delicate subjects so they don't have to argue the point.

    And women are the WEAKER sex. Do you accept this?

    So let me suggest you recite this everyday for the next month or so. It will work wonders.

    LITANY OF HUMILITY

    O Jesus, meek and humble of heart,
    Hear me.
    From the desire of being esteemed,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being loved,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being extolled,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being honored,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being praised,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being preferred to others,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being consulted,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the desire of being approved,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being humiliated,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being despised,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of suffering rebukes,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being calumniated,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being forgotten,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being ridiculed,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being wronged,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    From the fear of being suspected,
    Deliver me, O Jesus.
    That others may be loved more than I,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That others may be esteemed more than I,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That others may be chosen and I set aside,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That others may be praised and I go unnoticed,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That others may be preferred to me in everything,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should,
    Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
    Charity
    Charity is patient, is kind; charity does not envy, is not pretentious, is not puffed up, is not ambitious, is not self-seeking, is not provoked; thinks no evil, does not rejoice over wickedness, but rejoices with the truth, bears with all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Cor. 13:4-7).
    To have Charity is to love God above all things for Himself and be ready to renounce all created things rather than offend Him by serious sin. ( Matt. 22:36-40)
     
    Cardinal Merry del Val was the Secretary of State to Pope Saint Pius X (1903-1914)
    I do pray that prayer everyday.  Do you?  You act like you have some authority over me.  If you post anonymously then you give up that authority.

    Weak people make it personal? Then prove to me that I have ever attacked you personally, send me a personal message with a quote of the attack.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #531 on: Today at 04:37:53 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 12:40:37 PM
    No, this isn't about dating.  The issue of feminism (which is a branch of socialism) is much bigger than marriage.  Feminism is a false philosophy.  Yes, it has ruined marriages, but it has also ruined the economy and politics and will eventually ruin society.  And it's not all women's fault. 

    If every single person on this website who wanted to be married were married, the problem of feminism is still to be reckoned with.  Because it's a mindset that has to be destroyed.  But you can't destroy it, until you realize what it is.  You have to admit there's a problem first.

    That's why the boomer mentality is wrong, because they still haven't admitted there's a problem.  Men have their own issues but feminism affects all of society (because govts, elites and laws enable it to grow).
    Who exactly on CathInfo hasn't admitted there is a problem or realized what feminismand other isms have done to the world?  We all handle this problem in different ways.  I think the main thing is that even when people agree with you, you guys continue to tell us that we don't understand.  Us generation xers, who had no coddling and were raised tough, just see it as hopeless when the millenials, have the poor me attitude. At some point you just have to accept the life God gave you. 
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 04:20:48 PM
    I'm a man and was in an age gap relationship a few months ago.
    She seemed perfect in many ways, then the slightest challenge and she totally flipped becoming a different person.
    You can't count on anyone. The women these days are rudderless, without real fathers. It's tragic.
    Did you weather the storm or did you add fuel to the flame?
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 12:29:42 PM
    I'm not one of those boys and yet I understand and sympathise with them.

    What you are failing to grasp is that they are venting online. They are not going to be like this when with a woman they like. Can't you get this?

    They are right to be angry.

    It is normal that more women are corrupt than men because women are the weaker sex.


    What's tough for men is they are being asked to wait longer than their grandfathers were. A lot longer.

    Mainly for some generational changes to take place.

    "Venting" implies an expression of relatively short duration. There might be some of that going on here. I don't see a problem with that. But if you've been around for a while you should have noticed that this subject has become a repetitive and impotent wallowing in frustration, no longer a search for solutions, for some. 

    I wasn't lying or exaggerating when I said that I used to have a similar attitude to these boys. I recognize the obsession. I recognize the excitement they have for finding new stats to back up their distorted view of the world (couched as fidelity to reality, of course!). I recognize the pleasure they take in shooting down  anyone that would dare to have a positive view of anything. Somebody has actually coined a term for it now: "negaholism".

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    There's a lot more that could and probably should be said but I'm not much of a writer and I'm short on time, so I'll just leave off with this: There were a number of people that walked away from me because my attitude was so unbearable. Looking back, I'd have to say that they were 100% right to do so.

    Everyone has a right to live their own life, including these boys, but no one has to pretend to not see. No one has to keep quiet and drink poison.
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 07:37:09 AM
    "Venting" implies an expression of relatively short duration. There might be some of that going on here. I don't see a problem with that. But if you've been around for a while you should have noticed that this subject has become a repetitive and impotent wallowing in frustration, no longer a search for solutions, for some. 

    I wasn't lying or exaggerating when I said that I used to have a similar attitude to these boys. I recognize the obsession. I recognize the excitement they have for finding new stats to back up their distorted view of the world (couched as fidelity to reality, of course!). I recognize the pleasure they take in shooting down  anyone that would dare to have a positive view of anything. Somebody has actually coined a term for it now: "negaholism".


    There's a lot more that could and probably should be said but I'm not much of a writer and I'm short on time, so I'll just leave off with this: There were a number of people that walked away from me because my attitude was so unbearable. Looking back, I'd have to say that they were 100% right to do so.

    Everyone has a right to live their own life, including these boys, but no one has to pretend to not see. No one has to keep quiet and drink poison.
    You are frankly quite vile. Because you continue to ignore the problem and insult us by calling us boys. 
    Until fake trads realise they've been brainwashed to think age gaps are bad we will continue to talk about this.

    Imagine trying to gas light us about distort views of reality because we use statistics to prove your claim. :facepalm::facepalm::facepalm::fryingpan::fryingpan: 

    You are the one who is distorted. You do not believe in reality.
    You truely are a boomer.

    I don't want to talk to you anymore because I feel myself growing hateful, like how Hitler gradually began to hate the jews because they were so dishonest, even after rebuking them, the next next day they would act as if nothing happened and continued their wickedness. Because you refuse to acknowledge the actual problems and instead talk down to us.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #535 on: Today at 08:01:37 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 07:37:09 AM

    I wasn't lying or exaggerating when I said that I used to have a similar attitude to these boys. I recognize the obsession. I recognize the excitement they have for finding new stats to back up their distorted view of the world (couched as fidelity to reality, of course!)
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #536 on: Today at 08:09:17 AM »
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    • I can't tell what's more annoying, liberal boomers, or wondering who in the world I'm talking to on a thread because everyone is anonymous because they're embarrassed about their post. :laugh1:
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