This is gαy bullshit. Most people do not respond well to getting rejected over and over. A man will stop being gloomy when he gets accepted. It's not rocket science.

Woman need to woman up and do their duties instead of dressing immodestly and pretending to be men while only showing interest in extroverted Chads.

Boomer response.  Men need to grow up.  Women can do no wrong.  This is why we are where we are.  Boomers allowed feminism to run amok, while they were too busy with work, golf, sports and hobbies.  Feminism took off with the millennial women.  Guess who are the parents of millennials?  Boomers.

It really is. Saying men need to grow instead of pointing out the problems in society is such a joke. It's incredibly Jєωιѕн. It's really the boomers who need to grow up. Accept that they fucked up society and kept ignoring the problems they allowed. Now the younger gens call them out and they call it "litanies of doom and despair". Wow I wonder why it's doom and despair. Maybe it's because most people literally cannot afford a place to live? Because most woman are umarriagable? It's certainly despairing for the young to see their future ripped away from them by their elders. It's like that image of Chronos eating his own children. That's the boomers. They can sit and enjoy themselves because they already got the most basic necessities in life, a shelter and family, so no wonder they call it doom and despair, because from their perspective it is. But they have no empathy to understand that that doom and despair is REAL. It's a real problem and pretending it doesn't exist is not what it means to be a man, it's women and children who ignore problems not men. Yet they say we need to grow up. It's like shitting and pissing all over the floor instead of the toilet and telling your children to clean it up, and when they rightfully call you out you tell them to grow up.

And that last line about giving up on people. It's not surprising, since boomers have long since given up on others.

Boomer mentality can be summed up as "got mine [middle finger]".

I guess sometimes you do have to give up on people (boomers), not because you don't care, but because they (boomers) don't.

https://www.facebook.com/viralhog/videos/little-kid-screams-as-he-is-drowning-not-really/1578671205735545/

If you boys would knock off with chanting your mantras of self-pity for a second, you might just learn to flail a little less and stand up a little more. But maybe that's asking too much. You boys seem to either be incapable or unwilling to understand the message that has been repeatedly offered to you. 

Everlast is making yet another attempt to explain it to you:

You can be mad all you want with boomers and our current situation, but this is the reality. Nothing you can change about THAT reality. You have to adapt, and adjust your strategy.

No strategy change by men can fix the problem of feminism.  Everlast’s advice only applies if you are dealing with a normal girl, which are rare these days.  

You keep avoiding the problem. 

Nobody is despairing that God won’t help those who pray.  We're lamenting the fact that society at large is awash in feminism and there will be consequences for everyone, whether they pray or not.  

The liberals have been warning/lying of a population explosion for decades.  What the world is about to experience is the opposite - a population implosion.  Especially of the West and Christian nations.  

This is not about dating.  This is not a woe-is-me complaint.  This is about how feminism (among other things) is about to unleash a demographic catastrophe.  

If you want to keep your head in the sand, go ahead.  Sin has consequences.  God can lessen the coming suffering for those who pray.  But He normally doesn’t work miracles to stop consequences for repeated and unchecked sin.  We will suffer with sinners, because that’s how God punishes evil nations.  

Nobody is despairing that God won’t help those who pray.  We're lamenting the fact that society at large is awash in feminism and there will be consequences for everyone, whether they pray or not. 

The liberals have been warning/lying of a population explosion for decades.  What the world is about to experience is the opposite - a population implosion.  Especially of the West and Christian nations. 

This is not about dating.  This is not a woe-is-me complaint.  This is about how feminism (among other things) is about to unleash a demographic catastrophe. 

If you want to keep your head in the sand, go ahead.  Sin has consequences.  God can lessen the coming suffering for those who pray.  But He normally doesn’t work miracles to stop consequences for repeated and unchecked sin.  We will suffer with sinners, because that’s how God punishes evil nations. 

We are aware-everyone is aware. But, what are you going to do about it? I am personally raising my family in a very Catholic way and promoting Catholic principles and lifestyles. 
What am I not doing? Complaining. 
Some of you like to use labels and reference "Boomers"...I am Gen X. We grew up  dealing and getting things done and that's what is instilled in my family. 

Have hope!

Coming from a coward who can't even admit who they are.  And now you are saying it is my husband's fault. And you wonder why women no longer respect men.

It was a charitable correction.

Clearly you don't want to take it. And there is only one reason for it. 

I am anonymous because weak people love to bring personal situations into delicate subjects so they don't have to argue the point.

And women are the WEAKER sex. Do you accept this?

So let me suggest you recite this everyday for the next month or so. It will work wonders.

LITANY OF HUMILITY

O Jesus, meek and humble of heart,
Hear me.
From the desire of being esteemed,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honored,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being humiliated,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected,
Deliver me, O Jesus.
That others may be loved more than I,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should,
Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
Charity
Charity is patient, is kind; charity does not envy, is not pretentious, is not puffed up, is not ambitious, is not self-seeking, is not provoked; thinks no evil, does not rejoice over wickedness, but rejoices with the truth, bears with all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Cor. 13:4-7).
To have Charity is to love God above all things for Himself and be ready to renounce all created things rather than offend Him by serious sin. ( Matt. 22:36-40)
 
Cardinal Merry del Val was the Secretary of State to Pope Saint Pius X (1903-1914)

What's your proposed solution to the collective problem? Are YOU gonna fix it? lol Play the hand you're dealt, man.

This exactly. This hopeless, negative mindset a death sentence to any hopes and wishes one might have to enter the marriage state. Your wife is going to need someone to forge the way during tough times, not sit there and whine about it. 

Yes is it.

Be honest with yourself, we are all aware of the problem with the world and what is coming..

No, this isn't about dating.  The issue of feminism (which is a branch of socialism) is much bigger than marriage.  Feminism is a false philosophy.  Yes, it has ruined marriages, but it has also ruined the economy and politics and will eventually ruin society.  And it's not all women's fault.  

If every single person on this website who wanted to be married were married, the problem of feminism is still to be reckoned with.  Because it's a mindset that has to be destroyed.  But you can't destroy it, until you realize what it is.  You have to admit there's a problem first.

That's why the boomer mentality is wrong, because they still haven't admitted there's a problem.  Men have their own issues but feminism affects all of society (because govts, elites and laws enable it to grow).