How truth is delivered matters.  I am not an unreasonable person and I have asked questions and said things without being mean or derogatory to the people who disagree with me.  Is it wrong for me to expect the same kindness? When I find out something is offensive, I stop using it. I have told you men over and over that calling me or anyone on hear feminist is quite offensive.  Yes we are all influenced by Feminism, but can't we just start being kind to each other.

You know maybe try a different approach when talking to men.

Try apologising more (it shows you are aware that your intelligence and judgment is less than a man - and you are humble enough to see that)
And then also ask instead of tell.


Really though, it's your husbands fault for letting you carry on like this.

I actually don't care if you use the word feminism or feminist any more because all it seems to mean to the one's who use it is that I am a women who lives in 2025.

My 2 cents, gray. These boys are just that, boys. They're boys that, for some reason, are hell bent on refusing to learn to embrace the problems of life. They refuse to grow up and learn to be men. They'd rather create litanies of doom and despair than spend even one second looking at what good God has done in their life. The choice is theirs. You're not going to argue or discuss them into growing up.


Sometimes, you have to give up on people, not because you don’t care but because they don’t

My 2 cents, gray. These boys are just that, boys. They're boys that, for some reason, are hell bent on refusing to learn to embrace the problems of life. They refuse to grow up and learn to be men. They'd rather create litanies of doom and despair than spend even one second looking at what good God has done in their life. The choice is theirs. You're not going to argue or discuss them into growing up.


Sometimes, you have to give up on people, not because you don’t care but because they don’t

It really is. Saying men need to grow instead of pointing out the problems in society is such a joke. It's incredibly Jєωιѕн. It's really the boomers who need to grow up. Accept that they fucked up society and kept ignoring the problems they allowed. Now the younger gens call them out and they call it "litanies of doom and despair". Wow I wonder why it's doom and despair. Maybe it's because most people literally cannot afford a place to live? Because most woman are umarriagable? It's certainly despairing for the young to see their future ripped away from them by their elders. It's like that image of Chronos eating his own children. That's the boomers. They can sit and enjoy themselves because they already got the most basic necessities in life, a shelter and family, so no wonder they call it doom and despair, because from their perspective it is. But they have no empathy to understand that that doom and despair is REAL. It's a real problem and pretending it doesn't exist is not what it means to be a man, it's women and children who ignore problems not men. Yet they say we need to grow up. It's like shitting and pissing all over the floor instead of the toilet and telling your children to clean it up, and when they rightfully call you out you tell them to grow up.

And that last line about giving up on people. It's not surprising, since boomers have long since given up on others.

 Boomer mentality can be summed up as "got mine [middle finger]".

I guess sometimes you do have to give up on people (boomers), not because you don't care, but because they (boomers) don't.

It really is. Saying men need to grow instead of pointing out the problems in society is such a joke. It's incredibly Jєωιѕн. It's really the boomers who need to grow up. Accept that they fucked up society and kept ignoring the problems they allowed. Now the younger gens call them out and they call it "litanies of doom and despair". Wow I wonder why it's doom and despair. Maybe it's because most people literally cannot afford a place to live? Because most woman are umarriagable? It's certainly despairing for the young to see their future ripped away from them by their elders. It's like that image of Chronos eating his own children. That's the boomers. They can sit and enjoy themselves because they already got the most basic necessities in life, a shelter and family, so no wonder they call it doom and despair, because from their perspective it is. But they have no empathy to understand that that doom and despair is REAL. It's a real problem and pretending it doesn't exist is not what it means to be a man, it's women and children who ignore problems not men. Yet they say we need to grow up. It's like shitting and pissing all over the floor instead of the toilet and telling your children to clean it up, and when they rightfully call you out you tell them to grow up.

And that last line about giving up on people. It's not surprising, since boomers have long since given up on others.

Boomer mentality can be summed up as "got mine [middle finger]".

I guess sometimes you do have to give up on people (boomers), not because you don't care, but because they (boomers) don't.