Are you older than me? Are you a man or a women? What difficulty have I created?
If you really feel this way and want to make a real affect on me then maybe you should not castigate me in public, instead send a private message, but you decided to have the conversation publicly where no one knows who you are. I find this extremely hypocritical.
I also do not think the message in question showed leadership. Please reference the post and describe all the leadership skills in it. Thank you.
You know maybe try a different approach when talking to men.
Try apologising more (it shows you are aware that your intelligence and judgment is less than a man - and you are humble enough to see that)
And then also ask instead of tell.
Really though, it's your husbands fault for letting you carry on like this.