Also fat girls more often than not do not lose weight but gain more. A lady who recently got married was large beforehand but now she has really exploded in mass. I feel so bad for the husband.

I also don't know of fat young women that lost weight as they got older, unless they were ill. Why would anyone want to marry someone who at the get go is unable to refuse a second helping of dessert? Why would any woman choose a man who at the get go is unable to refuse an extra "drink for the road"? Both show very poor examples of self discipline

I think the issue is is that I'm somewhat attractive where a 6/8 girl should consider me on their level depending on if I'm there type. But girls want a man who is greater than them.

Also it's not Catholic to be a rebel, depending on the sense. And I do have a rough side I just keep to myself mainly because it's prudent. And considering my strong belief I can be considered a "rebel' since I don't fully follow either the sspx, resistance or sedes.

If the slim girls are attracted to me they don't show it. Girls really need to work on their unofficial signalling to men.

Thank you for the civil response.  I am not sure about a girl wanting a guy who is greater than them.  I think this thought is pushed on the internet.

And I totally agree with you men and women have definitely lost the art of signaling. The image of a women dropping her handkerchief comes to mind.

One thing I know for sure. I don't want to be a man and I don't want to be single in this day and age.  Prayers for all those struggling.

You have one job as a woman. Be humble. And lady like. It's not hard. You are being asked to change in to the simple way women should be. Namely to take their proper place in society. Both men have to lead and the women step back.

Not double down, not create difficultly.

You accept somethings, but then you remind me of a child that really takes enormous energy to correct and then demands more energy be put into them! And it's not even our job to correct you, its your husbands and your fathers.

The "" does come across as insulting. Don't do it again.

Like I said the man you spoke to took leadership and you basically showed no respect for it. If he were my son or brother, I would encourage him. Tell him well done. You just proved why so many men just give up.

Are you older than me? Are you a man or a women?  What difficulty have I created?

If you really feel this way and want to make a real affect on me then maybe you should not castigate me in public, instead send a private message, but you decided to have the conversation publicly where no one knows who you are.  I find this extremely hypocritical.  

I also do not think the message in question showed leadership.  Please reference the post and describe all the leadership skills in it.  Thank you.

These hormonally stressed women seem perfectly capable of losing weight after divorce when they are looking a for new man. For Catholics though as divorce is not an option, there are some women who have lost the need to make an effort to please their husband.

Hormones is not an excuse. Women who use hormones as an excuse for their rageful impatience within their families are capable of keeping this in check when others are around them

Yeah it's called mistaking kindness for weakness. It's like an angry man who is only explosive with his loved ones not other people. Because his loved ones put up with him, which unfortunately makes him treat them with disrespect. It's like the jews who stood against Christ. Had our Lord beaten them down with violence they would have bent the neck nut because He was loving, kind and patient they tried to take advantage of Him. A person does not attack someone they perceive to be bigger and stronger than them unless they are irrational.

These hormonally stressed women seem perfectly capable of losing weight after divorce when they are looking a for new man. For Catholics though as divorce is not an option, there are some women who have lost the need to make an effort to please their husband.

Hormones is not an excuse. Women who use hormones as an excuse for their rageful impatience within their families are capable of keeping this in check when others are around them

You are right, but things are just not simply black and white.

I know some of you men have particular experiences that are very upsetting.  It is not fair to base all the women on the bad ones.  Nobody should have to put up with rageful impatience.

It's not about feeling better, it's about saying the truth.  Men and women are not equal; this is a feminist lie.

Should prudence be used in speaking truth? 

Men and women are NOT equals,  most people on CathInfo believe that.

Should prudence be used in speaking truth?

Men and women are NOT equals,  most people on CathInfo believe that.

Only a feminist is offended by the idea that men and women aren't equal.  No prudence required.

Prudence is a virtue which is meant govern actions related to morality.  Nowadays, this word has been corrupted to mean it should govern actions according to the emotions of others.  Prudence has nothing to do with emotions.  This is just more feminist propaganda.

It's not about feeling better, it's about saying the truth.  Men and women are not equal; this is a feminist lie.

This post called no one a feminist.  No prudence required.