Then you don't know the first damn thing about leadership. Not surprising as people, including a lot of traddieland, have no skills in this area. Maybe get off the anon forums and learn from those who do.

Women have to save their own souls.  It's not any man's job to save a random stranger.  If a woman won't listen to church morality, or her priest, or her parent's, she's not going to listen to a random stranger.  You're delusional.

This has nothing to do with not accepting God's will.  Are you really that close-minded to not understand the problems that society faces when women shun marriage and children?  Have you looked at Japan, who is about a decade ahead of us?

Feminization = women not having children = demographic apocalpyse.  Society will collapse under the weight of a lack of young people to do anything.  Which is why the elites are going to use AI to replace humans.  They already know what's coming.

This looks like a melancholic worrying about the future.  You can't control the future and God is allowing it for a future greater good.  All things you said might be true but it doesn't change the fact that you have to live through them with Trust in God. 

It is not about my mind being closed.  I am a woman and I have to raise a family and bring comfort to my neighbor. I don't have time to think about all the worries you listed above.  I just have to Trust God.  (I know I keep saying that, but it is what I am working on and hopefully will be better at soon.)

I did not have the tone of lashing out.  Stop trying to add emotion that isn't mine. Please explain to me how knowing the above, changes how I live my current Catholic life? How would one prepare differently because they know?

Never said it was.  No male vs female issue here.  It is world vs God.  You seem to be focused on the world.  Look you are basically proving my point anyways.  You seem uncomfortable with what I am saying, so then you lash out at me personally.  Let me rephrase the question you didn't answer.

Please explain to me how knowing the above, changes how one lives their current Catholic life? How would one prepare differently because they know?

  I'll spell it out for you:
- A lack of marriages are partially due to women being overly-picky.
- A lack of marriages is a societal problem, with very bad consequences, for the Church and society.
- Age-gaps are an example of being overly-picky.
- Realizing that age-gap pickiness is a problem, helps to counter the false-narrative, which helps the Church.

Admitting there is a problem, is the first step to fixing it.  As a woman, if you don't admit this is a problem, then you will be unable to help other women see the problem.

This problem is bigger than you.  It's about helping society, not just your own, personal catholic life.