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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #435 on: November 16, 2025, 03:21:44 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 02:31:05 PM
    No man has any desire to force an age gap.  The point is, to counter the pickyness and hyper-unrealistic standards of modern women, which has filtered down to Trads.  And no, women aren’t using their intuition or their Faith in making relationship decisions.  If they were, there would be no problem.  Many Trad women are using worldly measures to pick spouses.  And because they are so picky, they pass up men they shouldnt have or they end up settling with men they are unhappy with or they dont get married at all.  This hurts women more than men but it also hurts society at large.  And that’s the purpose of modern propaganda.  To destroy good families.  Or to prevent them from happening at all. 
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    « Reply #436 on: November 16, 2025, 03:40:35 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 03:20:19 PM

    Passionate kissing is a mortal sin.

    Chemistry is for 15 year old girls. Though being attractive enough is a thing.


    I think you're kind of proving why there is a maturity issue with most men in their twenties.
    I didn't say anything about 'passionate' kissing.

    Girls don't change much from their teens. Whether it's 'chemistry' or not feeling a 'spark' or being told you're a 'great guy' but more like a friend or brother, it's essentially the same excuse. Not finding the man attractive.

    I think you're kind of proving why there is a feminism issue with most women even trads.
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    « Reply #437 on: November 16, 2025, 05:03:20 PM »
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    • Women today are stupidly impulsive.  If there’s no chemistry in the first 15 minutes, they lose interest.  Talk to any married couple over 40 years old.  9 times out of 10, the woman wasn’t interested at first but went on a few dates anyway.  Then they clicked.  Nowadays, women expect to have lifelong chemistry in 15 minutes …”just like the movies…”.  The immaturity level is off the charts.  
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #438 on: November 16, 2025, 06:09:30 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 02:31:05 PM
    No man has any desire to force an age gap.  The point is, to counter the pickyness and hyper-unrealistic standards of modern women, which has filtered down to Trads.  And no, women aren’t using their intuition or their Faith in making relationship decisions.  If they were, there would be no problem.  Many Trad women are using worldly measures to pick spouses.  And because they are so picky, they pass up men they shouldnt have or they end up settling with men they are unhappy with or they dont get married at all.  This hurts women more than men but it also hurts society at large.  And that’s the purpose of modern propaganda.  To destroy good families.  Or to prevent them from happening at all. 
    This is true, but we all are completely responsible for whether we buy into modern propaganda or not.  It may make the women act improperly that is on them and their authorities (dad,  priest, spouse) to correct.  I have a question though are the men being courageous or has the propaganda worked on them to make them feel hopeless?
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #439 on: November 16, 2025, 06:32:33 PM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on November 16, 2025, 06:09:30 PM
    This is true, but we all are completely responsible for whether we buy into modern propaganda or not.  It may make the women act improperly that is on them and their authorities (dad,  priest, spouse) to correct.  I have a question though are the men being courageous or has the propaganda worked on them to make them feel hopeless?
    Modern women have these things called --icks-- which is just another term for being OCD and picky.  That's a spiritual problem. 

    Has nothing whatsoever to do with men.  Though you love to blame everyone equally, which is delusional.  Life is not equal.  
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    « Reply #440 on: November 16, 2025, 06:40:49 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 05:03:20 PM
    Women today are stupidly impulsive.  If there’s no chemistry in the first 15 minutes, they lose interest. 
    In 2025, the only ‘chemistry’ 15 year old girls should be having is studying for that upcoming  exam in science class!
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    « Reply #441 on: November 16, 2025, 07:25:16 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 06:40:49 PM
    In 2025, the only ‘chemistry’ 15 year old girls should be having is studying for that upcoming  exam in science class!
    Nobody is talking about 15 year old girls, but adult women 21-35.
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    « Reply #442 on: November 16, 2025, 08:13:26 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 05:03:20 PM
    Women today are stupidly impulsive.  If there’s no chemistry in the first 15 minutes, they lose interest.  Talk to any married couple over 40 years old.  9 times out of 10, the woman wasn’t interested at first but went on a few dates anyway.  Then they clicked.  Nowadays, women expect to have lifelong chemistry in 15 minutes …”just like the movies…”.  The immaturity level is off the charts. 
    Yeah this is true, even my priest says that married couples have said something similar.

    "I wasn't interested in him at first but grew to love him".
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    « Reply #443 on: November 16, 2025, 08:15:00 PM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on November 16, 2025, 06:09:30 PM
    This is true, but we all are completely responsible for whether we buy into modern propaganda or not.  It may make the women act improperly that is on them and their authorities (dad,  priest, spouse) to correct.  I have a question though are the men being courageous or has the propaganda worked on them to make them feel hopeless?
    The men can't really do anything because the women don't listen and don't care. 
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #444 on: November 16, 2025, 10:29:53 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 06:32:33 PM
    Modern women have these things called --icks-- which is just another term for being OCD and picky.  That's a spiritual problem. 

    Has nothing whatsoever to do with men.  Though you love to blame everyone equally, which is delusional.  Life is not equal. 
    I am not blaming equally.  I am saying if you are not getting what you want or are able to accept what God gives you, then the problem is you.  That works for both sexes.  Our main purpose in life is union with God.  You do that my accepting the world God gave you.  I guess aiming for the high ideals is not a thing we do anymore.::)
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #445 on: November 16, 2025, 10:33:20 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 08:15:00 PM
    The men can't really do anything because the women don't listen and don't care.
    Sounds to me you have already given up.  That is the propaganda that men have been given.  "Why even try, you are only going to fail."
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    « Reply #446 on: November 16, 2025, 10:35:52 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 08:15:00 PM
    The men can't really do anything because the women don't listen and don't care.
    There's a lot of talk in these threads about men being the leaders, which I don't disagree with btw, but things like the above statement tell me that you have no understanding of leadership.

    There have been a number of great leaders throughout history. Study them. One of the first things that you'll learn is that they did not blame the people who they were supposed to lead, as that will get you NOWHERE. 
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    « Reply #447 on: November 16, 2025, 10:37:59 PM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on November 16, 2025, 10:33:20 PM
    Sounds to me you have already given up.  That is the propaganda that men have been given.  "Why even try, you are only going to fail."
    Women have to save their own souls.  It's not any man's job to save a random stranger.  If a woman won't listen to church morality, or her priest, or her parent's, she's not going to listen to a random stranger.  You're delusional.
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    « Reply #448 on: November 16, 2025, 10:38:46 PM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on November 16, 2025, 10:29:53 PM
    I am not blaming equally.  I am saying if you are not getting what you want or are able to accept what God gives you, then the problem is you.  That works for both sexes.  Our main purpose in life is union with God.  You do that my accepting the world God gave you.  I guess aiming for the high ideals is not a thing we do anymore.::)
    This makes zero sense.
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    « Reply #449 on: November 16, 2025, 10:39:53 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 10:35:52 PM
    There's a lot of talk in these threads about men being the leaders, which I don't disagree with btw, but things like the above statement tell me that you have no understanding of leadership.

    There have been a number of great leaders throughout history. Study them. One of the first things that you'll learn is that they did not blame the people who they were supposed to lead, as that will get you NOWHERE.
    It's a man's job to lead those who are in his charge.  Outside of this, you can't lead those who don't care.
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