You're always asking how society can be better.  Then you put limits on who you will obey.  You just epitomized the problem and you don’t even realize it. 

You are funny.  I don't even know you are a man because this is an anonymous post.

This was my comment 

If you don't acknowledge the fears of women, then you will never get what you want.  Your response is extremely immature.

I was told to stop tone policing.

So everyone is griping because i called an anonymous poster immature. Yet then you follow my example and call me unlady like and a feminist that makes a lot of truthful and just sense.

The comment totally derailed the point I was making.

Catholic women are fearful of men who are hyper focused on the age gap between a woman and a man in marriage.  The current idea is that a secular older man has a lot of bad experience of the world (I know good Catholic men probably don't,  but to be fair that is an extremely small group of people, and even traditional Catholic men are sinners.)

  Women are the ones who are hyper focused on it, calling older men perverts.

Can you quote that?  And I have never called older men perverts.

I might think the idea is strange.

In the book Emma, Mr Knightley comments that he remembers holding her as a baby when he was 13, so I conclude that it was an acceptable thought in the time that Jane Austin wrote the book.  It probably is acceptable now, except for the fact that the time we live in over sɛҳuąƖizes everything.

I think you are missing the most hilarious irony here is that all the different men posting on this thread ARE trying to lead. By stating the Truth.

Lol, Truth?  It’s an opinion that an age gap is desirable or undesirable. Opinion does not equal truth.

Are you new here?  There have been multiple threads on here discussing the readiness of women ages 14-17 for marriage.  Not off topic in a thread about age gap. 

Yes, that was not also creepy, but led many former members of CI to leave.