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« Reply #315 on: Today at 10:55:16 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 10:44:06 AM
    I see men are allowed to put their emotions first and women have to listen because of obedience.
    There's no need to be snarky.

    What I will unashamedly mansplain to you now is that as a woman your weak mind is not able to discern when a man is being emotional, or just being just. You will get it wrong.

    You also need to remember the hierarchy that God created and it is not proper for you to correct men.Unless they are your sons.
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    « Reply #316 on: Today at 10:57:03 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 10:45:09 AM
    I can understand you as a man coming to this conclusion, but you are not correct here, at least about me.  I may be emotional about this, but I cannot get over the idea of a man in his mid thirties wanting to be with my teenage daughter.  My husband feels the same way.  Age gap after a girl is20 is fine, even if the man is 20 plus years older.  The men who are upset over this opinion are not helping me change my mind, that’s for sure.  There is a man though who disagrees with me that I would be more willing to discuss ideas with as he seems more even tempered and I would prefer my daughter marry him at age 18, even if he is in his low thirties. 
    Its strange and would be more amusing, if it wasn't so tragic, that you seem blissfully unaware of how subjective you are being.

    These are important matters. You treat it like your preference is the same as what is objectively right.
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    « Reply #317 on: Today at 10:58:20 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 10:51:49 AM
    The men would do a whole lot better if they taught men how to lead.  Leading comes first then obedience, it doesn't work the other way around. I don't think any woman could obey a man into being a good leader.
    I think you are missing the most hilarious irony here is that all the different men posting on this thread ARE trying to lead. By stating the Truth.

    But you keep rejecting it.
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    « Reply #318 on: Today at 10:59:02 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 10:44:06 AM
    I see men are allowed to put their emotions first and women have to listen because of obedience.
    Not sure what this even means.  Your reply was to a message that was based on reason, not emotion.
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    « Reply #319 on: Today at 11:01:23 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 10:51:49 AM
    The men would do a whole lot better if they taught men how to lead.  Leading comes first then obedience, it doesn't work the other way around. I don't think any woman could obey a man into being a good leader.
    Men know how to lead.  Women have been brainwashed not to follow.  Feminization has made women ROAR.  You go, girl.  Speak your truth.  :facepalm:
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #320 on: Today at 11:02:30 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 10:55:16 AM
    There's no need to be snarky.

    What I will unashamedly mansplain to you now is that as a woman your weak mind is not able to discern when a man is being emotional, or just being just. You will get it wrong.

    You also need to remember the hierarchy that God created and it is not proper for you to correct men.Unless they are your sons.
    God didn't give you authority over me.  The only one who has authority over me in this forum is the moderator.  Let's put things in a proper perspective.  If Matthew says I am out of line, I will listen to him.
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    « Reply #321 on: Today at 11:04:44 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 10:51:49 AM
    Leading comes first then obedience, 
    This is the most anti-catholic thing i've ever read.  Women, and men, have to obey, as a matter of religion.  Even if superiors are unjust, the duty to obey remains.  Obedience isn't conditional.  Unless you don't care about heaven.
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    « Reply #322 on: Today at 11:06:54 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:02:30 AM
    God didn't give you authority over me.  The only one who has authority over me in this forum is the moderator.  Let's put things in a proper perspective.  If Matthew says I am out of line, I will listen to him.
    I never said all men have authority over you.

    You need to understand that it's not like outside of your husband it's some kind of free for all.

    you are lower by your very nature than every man. And must respect every man in a way that is different than you treat women.

    Individualism, especially in the West has corrputed our sense of social hierarchy.

    Authority is not the same as hierarchy. Though authority is born out of hierarchy.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #323 on: Today at 11:15:12 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 07:48:50 AM
    Why is it difficult for some men on here to comprehend the protectiveness parents have regarding their daughters (age 14 -17) from men “burning with lust” or struggling with concupiscence of the flesh?  Especially from men those men in their upper 30’s?  You seem to  be trying to change our minds with each new thread coming along.  I understand full well men and women are different in that regard.  You seem to be willing to educate the ladies and men who disagree with you on this but can’t you see the apprehension parents have knowing well that you are looking at our daughters in a way that they are not mature enough to handle?  The church does not encourage long engagements for a reason. 
    A woman was expressing her thought on the matter and the men instead of trying to understand her point of view got all upset because they felt she wasn't undestanding them.  The men accuse the women of being overly emotional, too protective, and prideful.  The men didn't even address the concern.  I stepped in with my comments to point out the miscommunication and then all I get is how unlady like and disobedient I am.  :facepalm: 

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #324 on: Today at 11:21:41 AM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Today at 11:04:44 AM
    This is the most anti-catholic thing i've ever read.  Women, and men, have to obey, as a matter of religion.  Even if superiors are unjust, the duty to obey remains.  Obedience isn't conditional.  Unless you don't care about heaven.
    If you don't have someone telling you what to do then you can't obey.  I obey the Catholic church, pre vatican 2, I obey my husband, I obey my priest, I obey the moderator of this forum.

    If you Anonymous posters are going to twist my words to shut me down that is your perogitive it is a free forum.
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    « Reply #325 on: Today at 11:24:06 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:15:12 AM
    A woman was expressing her thought on the matter andthe men instead of trying to understand her point of view got all upset because you felt she wasn't undestanding you.  The men accuse the women of being overly emotiona, too protective, and prideful.  The men didn't even address the concern.  I stepped in with my comments to point out the miscommunication and then all I get is how unlady like and disobedient I am.  :facepalm:
    The only people talking about 14-17 yr olds are women.  The topic was 18-22 year old ADULT WOMEN being open to slightly older men.  Discussion of 14-17 yr olds is off-topic and manipulative.  
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    « Reply #326 on: Today at 11:27:13 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:21:41 AM
    If you don't have someone telling you what to do then you can't obey.  I obey the Catholic church, pre vatican 2, I obey my husband, I obey my priest, I obey the moderator of this forum.

    If you Anonymous posters are going to twist my words to shut me down that is your perogitive it is a free forum.
    You're always asking how society can be better.  Then you put limits on who you will obey.  You just epitomized the problem and you don’t even realize it.  
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    « Reply #327 on: Today at 11:30:00 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:21:41 AM
    If you don't have someone telling you what to do then you can't obey.  I obey the Catholic church, pre vatican 2, I obey my husband, I obey my priest, I obey the moderator of this forum.

    If you Anonymous posters are going to twist my words to shut me down that is your perogitive it is a free forum.
    Yeah then men have same small parameters to lead and help that you do to obey.  
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    « Reply #328 on: Today at 11:34:24 AM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:15:12 AM
    A woman was expressing her thought on the matter and the men instead of trying to understand her point of view got all upset because they felt she wasn't undestanding them.  The men accuse the women of being overly emotional, too protective, and prideful.  The men didn't even address the concern.  I stepped in with my comments to point out the miscommunication and then all I get is how unlady like and disobedient I am.  :facepalm:
    Has it occurred to you that they may be right? Regardless of your feelings?
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Today at 11:21:41 AM
    If you don't have someone telling you what to do then you can't obey.  I obey the Catholic church, pre vatican 2, I obey my husband, I obey my priest, I obey the moderator of this forum.

    If you Anonymous posters are going to twist my words to shut me down that is your perogitive it is a free forum.
    What that guy had a problem with is that you think its a free for all outside of those authorities you listed.

    That's the issue.

    It's your disrespect.
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