Men on the contrary should delay as long as they can, unless they are burning with lust. 

So many things wrong with this statement...
A man "burning with lust" should not marry.  

A man who feels he cannot provide yet should get real busy building a nest egg so he can get his girl in two to three years.  If he sulks in the victim mentality for too long, the young women will not be interested.  That may mean living under his means, with his parents, scrimping and saving, or looking for a woman who doesn’t mind living modestly.  There’s nothing wrong with living in a trailer home.  No 17-18 year old wants to marry a 37 year old man.  Give a listen to Dave Ramsey.  He will give you good advice.  

 to Dave Ramsey.  He will give you good advice. 

outdated, non catholic, modernist boomer advice. 

A woman should not be looking for a "father figure" as a husband.

What women want... can change. And does change. 

Western society is far to individualistic to understand this anymore, but marriage has consequences far beyond personal preferences.

Our main focus as men should be what is best, long run.

While women will always have preferences, and you can't force them to have other ones. They can be reasoned with.

A man who feels he cannot provide yet should get real busy building a nest egg so he can get his girl in two to three years.  If he sulks in the victim mentality for too long, the young women will not be interested.  That may mean living under his means, with his parents, scrimping and saving, or looking for a woman who doesn’t mind living modestly.  There’s nothing wrong with living in a trailer home.  No 17-18 year old wants to marry a 37 year old man.  Give a listen to Dave Ramsey.  He will give you good advice. 

We should be also very considerate of the fact that the economy actively works against a sole income provider. Part of the NWO plan dont forget.

So men need to be given a lot more time.

outdated, non catholic, modernist boomer advice.

I personally like a whole lotta boomers:cowboy:.   I don’t suggest listening to his religious beliefs but he makes a whole lot of sense with his financial advice.  

A woman should not be looking for a "father figure" as a husband.

Very true, but they're out there.. 

On the contrary its precisely on topic.

Woman should not delay at all for marriage, and the Blessed Mother gives girls that example.

Men on the contrary should delay as long as they can, unless they are burning with lust. Because they make better leaders the more seasoned they are. And in this, St. Joseph gives the example.

The ideal does not mean what is normally practiced. Most Catholics did not reach this ideal. But its still the ideal.

I find attempts to undermine this ideal perverse.

That's because most of the people calling St Joseph young are female feminists. This is why women need to be obedient to their husbands, they like the rationality that the male nature has and need to be led.