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Offline Cera

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Re: Let's talk about age gaps
« Reply #75 on: Yesterday at 12:39:06 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 10:59:05 AM
    Yes.  Most women have no idea (nor care) what works best for men. 
    Traditional Catholic women understand that we are helpmates to our husbands. We care deeply for our husbands and of course we care about their well-being and their salvation. Since you are presumably seeking a Traditional Catholic woman as a spouse, why do you even care about "most women"?
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #76 on: Yesterday at 12:49:06 PM »
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    • Quote from: Cera on Yesterday at 12:39:06 PM
    Traditional Catholic women understand that we are helpmates to our husbands. We care deeply for our husbands and of course we care about their well-being and their salvation. Since you are presumably seeking a Traditional Catholic woman as a spouse, why do you even care about "most women"?
     Because I care about society and all catholic families.  I don’t have the luxury of the female mindset, which is focused on their personal situation alone.  Females are designed to be self-focused.  Males are designed to be general-focused, because it’s their calling to govern, which requires them to make decisions for personal benefit AND ALSO balanced for societal benefit. 

    Women generally make decisions based on family/friends’ opinions.  So if “most Trad women” are liberal, then even if you find one that is not, they will become liberal by osmosis.  Time has proven that women are corrupted by society far more than men, who are usually corrupted due to laziness and perversion.  

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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #77 on: Yesterday at 12:51:06 PM »
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    • This whole question of “other women” goes far beyond dating and age gaps.  It affects politics, child rearing, voting, etc.  
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #78 on: Yesterday at 01:02:58 PM »
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    • Quote from: The Mrs on Yesterday at 08:14:07 AM
    By putting this topic in the main forum, it seems the OP wants the opinions of women but doesn’t like them. 
    lol. I'm not the OP. But you deliberately have got it wrong... again.Its not about not wanting the opinions of women. But not wanting opinions that simply encourage our worldly revolutionary culture.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #79 on: Yesterday at 01:03:50 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 09:07:33 AM
    Come now, let’s discuss honestly shall we? Stop gaslighting. She is discussing it as a factor, not as the one and ONLY defining factor. 
    Whats NUTS is the PRIORITIZING of the thing.
    You're tone policing here, and its not helpful
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    « Reply #80 on: Yesterday at 01:05:14 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 11:16:56 AM
    Do age gaps have substantially less benefits?  I’ve yet to see any major issues.  The main argument has been personal preference. 
    BINGO. The women arguing for this are women who are in marriages or from marriages where there was no age differences. I would be willing to wager that if they even did see age gap marriages in action, they were not very good ones.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #81 on: Yesterday at 01:07:11 PM »
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    • Quote from: Gray2023 on Yesterday at 12:33:44 PM
    The reality is God helps two people find each other.  The age gap is only an issue if the parents of the girl teach her that it matters and is something to be avoided.

    There are so many other things to consider in finding someone to marry, why does the age gap continue to be some sort of litmus test?
    EXACTLY. Well said. Those of us in the remnant Catholic faithful of the resistance, need to banish this worldliness from our thinking. Especially when it comes to helping our daughters find husbands.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
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    • Quote from: Cera on Yesterday at 12:39:06 PM
    Traditional Catholic women understand that we are helpmates to our husbands. We care deeply for our husbands and of course we care about their well-being and their salvation. Since you are presumably seeking a Traditional Catholic woman as a spouse, why do you even care about "most women"?
    I am not the person you are quoting. But presuming it is a man, he is just making a generalization. Saying the quiet part out loud. That all good men know, but never say to the face of ladies.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #83 on: Yesterday at 01:11:07 PM »
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    • The single guy pushing forty who brags about having a non-commital five-year relationship with a much younger woman tossed a grenade and you all are pushing each other out of the way to see who can jump on it first. 


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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #84 on: Yesterday at 01:13:16 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 01:02:58 PM
    lol. I'm not the OP. But you deliberately have got it wrong... again.Its not about not wanting the opinions of women. But not wanting opinions that simply encourage our worldly revolutionary culture.
    That’s your opinion, that my opinion encourages a revolutionary culture.  
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #85 on: Yesterday at 01:21:51 PM »
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    • Quote from: Mithrandylan on Yesterday at 01:11:07 PM
    The single guy pushing forty who brags about having a non-commital five-year relationship with a much younger woman tossed a grenade and you all are pushing each other out of the way to see who can jump on it first.


    I'm not the person you are talking about here. But that was a pretty effeminate thing to say bro. Maybe go examine your conscience.
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    • Quote from: The Mrs on Yesterday at 01:13:16 PM
    That’s your opinion, that my opinion encourages a revolutionary culture. 

    My opinion. Which conforms to the truth.
    And your stubbornness just confirms in my mind why, generally speaking, women should not be online speaking publicly.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #87 on: Yesterday at 02:02:26 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 10:59:05 AM
    Yes.  Most women have no idea (nor care) what works best for men. 
    What works best for catholic men, works best for families, which works best for society.

    Women hardly even know what they want in a guy, past the very basics.  There are countless stories of women who were happy outside of their <type>.

    Which is why this whole age gap discussion is stupid.  Modern women have been brainwashed into putting so many filters on their marriage choices, that they will never find anyone.  Which is what the brainwashers want, less families.  But modern women won't figure out they've been duped until it's too late.
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #88 on: Yesterday at 03:04:39 PM »
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    • Quote from: Pax Vobis on Yesterday at 12:49:06 PM
    Because I care about society and all catholic families.  I don’t have the luxury of the female mindset, which is focused on their personal situation alone.  Females are designed to be self-focused.  Males are designed to be general-focused, because it’s their calling to govern, which requires them to make decisions for personal benefit AND ALSO balanced for societal benefit.

    Women generally make decisions based on family/friends’ opinions.  So if “most Trad women” are liberal, then even if you find one that is not, they will become liberal by osmosis.  Time has proven that women are corrupted by society far more than men, who are usually corrupted due to laziness and perversion. 
    I don't disagree what you are trying to say.  I just hope for a little more clarification.

    What do you mean when you say women are designed to be self-focused?  Women are designed to raise children, how is that self-focused?
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    Re: Let's talk about age gaps
    « Reply #89 on: Yesterday at 03:06:22 PM »
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    • Quote from: Änσnymσus on Yesterday at 01:22:56 PM
    My opinion. Which conforms to the truth.
    And your stubbornness just confirms in my mind why, generally speaking, women should not be online speaking publicly.
    I pity the poor woman who agrees to marry you. If that ever happens.
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