Men don’t go out of their way to be inconsiderate of women online; it’s the very nature of the internet to be cold and factual. Your quest to make the internet a caring, safe/space will always end in you being unfulfilled. It’s an impossibility.
But when you say YOU wont be respectful to men online, that’s YOU making a predetermined decision to be disrespectful.
Men are unintentionally inconsiderate but you are intentionally disrespectful. That’s a YOU problem. Don’t blame the internet for your bad attitude.