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The Catholic answer is very simple and laid out throughout its history. Since Americanism we have the average 2.5 kids where as in tradition we had 10-12 my grandmother came from a house of 18 kids. They all lived good productive lives and were all raised by their mother because great great gramps hit the bottle a lot and she used to have to embarrass him and drag him out of the bar before the money was gone more than once haha. But when you get your brief respite from raising those kids the kids start having kids and your running around helping them all out. You can’t have an opinion and the man in good faith can take your advice but the ultimate decision is to go unquestioned. The man is the head. As for forums like these, this is all new. Men and women never interacted like this through all of history. Ultimately everyone makes their own decisions in a forum and no one has authority online. In person if some crazy man and you get into an argument………. The man will have the ultimate decision for sake of his anatomy if he’s right or wrong. That’s basic nature.

The church has talked about personality types one leans toward.

Sanguine
Melancholic
Phlegmatic
Choleric

It kind of helps to know when looking at predominant faults for people to overcome.

Yes I am a women, I probably should have stayed silent, but I am Meloncholic and don't like misinformation or misunderstandings.  So here we are. 

I didnt ask for your opinion on my life.

Women are given a pass in some ways by good men because they are weak.

When a man acts weak we must be tougher on him, because its less acceptable.

So focus on that point rather than trying to make it personal. That's a perverse mentality.

I understand your feminine need to make things relatable. But it's not welcome in this case. You're not my mother.