As a woman you're making things subjective. Try to look at the argument. Not your assesment of motives.
The topic was restarted with a disapproving tone, and then 11 posts of back and forth of "You're a feminist" "No, your a perv"
You think that is a good way to discuss things. I think my observation still stands and it has nothing to do with my gender. Someone wanted to get in an argument and they succeeded. And again just my observation. If you want a better discussion, then go talk about it on the men's only forum. Women will always think of this issue in real case scenarios and it has nothing to do with them being a feminist and everything to do with the concern for their daughters.