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Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 13, 2017, 06:29:16 PM
Is it wrong to believe that, of the 'majority' that doesn't make it to heaven, a good 'chunk' of that population doesn't suffer much, if at all, in hell? Perhaps they go to a place like limbo or limbo itself. Perhaps there is a temporary suffering in hell for some souls and then they are admitted into a non suffering 'part' of hell...or something. I've just been feeling so utterly depressed  and desparate over many things lately. I've also been thinking about all of the suffering in this world. And it fills me with such dread, fear, and sadness to think that those who suffer in this world may suffer more in the next life....eternally! I know that the fires and torments are reserved for the truly wicked. I don't want to have a black and white view of life, though. There is black  (evil, wicked people), there is white  (good, righteous people), and then there is an enormous gray area in between. Not just evil and righteous. I know that heaven isn't a right and all that, but why does the opposite have to be horrific torment and misery in gehenna? Why cant the gehenna in hell be for those who are truly wicked, who commit grave sins and know that they are grave yet don't care? And the limbo of hell be for the faultlessly misguided and those who may have committed sins, but didn't know these things were grave or even bad... Especially for people who suffer a lot in this life. I hope that God takes into consideration their experiences here on earth and gives them rest in the next, either in heaven or in hell. Consigning 99.99 percent of the population of the world to the fires of hell just makes me afraid. It makes me afraid of doing anything. It makes me afraid for those I love, those I know, those who I feel bad for, etc. It makes God seem contradictory, and His sacrifice on vain. How many times does he profess His tender love for mankind in scripture? His Sacred Heart revelations. "Behold the heart which has loved men..." Seriously the only way I can reconcile His love for us, in relation to His justice,  is that only the grave,  truly evil, truly wicked people go to gehenna; and the grey area, especially those who suffered so so so so so much in this life, go to limbo or something. God's justice says "They cannot enter heaven." But His Love and Mercy says "I will grant them rest in limbo." And I speak here of the unbaptized people...  :cry:
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Miseremini on February 13, 2017, 06:52:53 PM
It is impossible for us to know the balance between God's Mercy and God's Justice.
We only need to know that both are perfect.

Remember, there are levels/degrees of hell and of heaven.

God leaves nothing to chance.

Most Sacred Heart of Jesus I place my trust in Thee!
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Matto on February 13, 2017, 07:09:07 PM
I am more pessimistic about hell. I think there is more suffering and more people go there.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Stubborn on February 14, 2017, 05:33:47 AM
Quote from: Guest
Is it wrong to believe that, of the 'majority' that doesn't make it to heaven, a good 'chunk' of that population doesn't suffer much, if at all, in hell? Perhaps they go to a place like limbo or limbo itself. Perhaps there is a temporary suffering in hell for some souls and then they are admitted into a non suffering 'part' of hell...or something.


Snip from a sermon on hell from Fr. Wathen:
...Intrinsic in the idea of hell is it's everlastingness. One cannot conceive of a punishment sufficient for those who have defied God all their lives, till their deaths, and who have simply refused to accept God in His sovereignty and refused to do His will. It is altogether contrary, repugnant to reason that there would not be a punishment. This punishment has to last forever simply because these individuals, if hell did not last forever, would have beaten God. They would have defied Him and gotten away with it.  

So of course, those who go to hell, don't go for temporary chastisement, they go there because they hate God and they will never do other. That is why hell lasts always, just as the devils do not hate God less because they have been there who knows how many eons. If anything, we would say that the devils hate God more after all that they have suffered because their suffering does not determine whether they will serve Him or despise Him, their own wills determine this.

Our Lord spoke of hell 15 times in the Scriptures and the things that He said make it clear to us that hell is a state and a place of everlasting burning. He mentioned hell more often, more times then He mentioned the doctrine of the Blessed Eucharist. Among the things He said - "Depart from me ye cursed ones, into everlasting fire which was prepared for the devil and his angels."...

"...where the worm dieth not, neither is the fire quenched". And therein does Christ tell us of the two terrible torments of hell. "The worm that dieth not" refers to the pain of loss and the "fire that is not quenched" refers to the pain of sense. Because people are inclined to give too much intention to the pain of sense, we want you to consider the pain of loss, which is the essential punishment of hell.

The pain of loss is simply the everlasting recognition that one is in hell because one chose to be there. On earth he made his alibis and he pointed fingers at others and he imagined that he is going to blame his parents or blame society or blame hard luck, but in hell, no one blames anyone but himself because in hell, everyone knows why he is there, because he knows that he has rejected God -  and in turn, God has, despite His love, rejected him. And the pain of loss is that terrible torment of the recognition of what one might have done but did not. That one might be enjoying the beatitude of heaven, but will never.....

Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Matthew on February 14, 2017, 08:49:00 AM
The problem with the OP's reasoning is that he fails to consider that choosing oneself over God in any serious matter makes one "gravely evil". In other words, any mortal sin.

You don't have to have books written about you. You don't have to be a poster boy for evil, like Adolf Hitler has become (thanks to the Jєωιѕн media his evil is exaggerated to be the worst in history or some such nonsense). You don't have to be a notorious dictator like Stalin or Pol Pot to go to Hell and suffer great pains there.

A feminist who chose her own pride, her own glory, over God's will for her is plenty evil. There are plenty of "acceptable by the world" crimes which are grave in God's eyes.

The world doesn't care at all about blasphemy. But as Scripture says, "blasphemers will not enter the Kingdom of God"

And the world certainly doesn't care if you become Catholic or not. But rejecting God's Church isn't a small crime. If one suspects that the Catholic Church is true (and most men must know about the Catholic Church at this point, and the thought crosses their minds at some point...) but rejects it, how is he not worthy of eternal fire and a very real pain?

Sure, the dismissal might be superficial and flippant, like some neo-pagan woman saying to herself, "Me Catholic? Yeah right. I could never have 15 kids. Next..." and that's the only thought she gave God's church during her whole life. But how is that guiltless? She was unwilling to trust in God. She willfully ignored all the happy Catholic families that existed. She ignored all the evidence that it was quite "possible". She rejected God's will. She chose her will, her pleasure and her comfort in this life. How does God owe her any kind of eternal rest?

And she cowardly chose to side with the World -- God's constant enemy -- over God. She chose to stay in the world's favor, with her worldly lifestyle, human respect, her birth control limited number of children, and everything done on her terms. She denied Christ in this world. How is it not just that Christ deny her in the next world?

But you'd never see a woman like this portrayed in a movie as an evil bad guy. More like the protagonist you're supposed to root for and/or identify with!
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 14, 2017, 07:23:13 PM
Quote from: Guest
Is it wrong to believe that, of the 'majority' that doesn't make it to heaven, a good 'chunk' of that population doesn't suffer much, if at all, in hell? Perhaps they go to a place like limbo or limbo itself. Perhaps there is a temporary suffering in hell for some souls and then they are admitted into a non suffering 'part' of hell...or something. I've just been feeling so utterly depressed  and desparate over many things lately. I've also been thinking about all of the suffering in this world. :
when i was younger, i could have written the same thing (will read the rest of your post later)

But i got older and i experienced many things and saw much evil... and you know.. when you see people claiming 2b Christian who do just awful things.. even to other Christians, well. I have gotten highly cynical. And i dont have one problem w/ the notion of the evil ones, the phony Christians and etc... being in eternal misery. I know that sounds awful, but you know.. They show by their lives that doing their own thing is more imporant than doing God's thing and i just don't care about them. I sometimes pray for them but some people are very difficult to pray 4... so.. um... yeh

Many of the saints say VERY few (Jesus said few) do not make it. I just dont have one problem believing that anymore. Some people can't even do the minimal requirement of being christian..  
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Lighthouse on February 14, 2017, 11:39:10 PM
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Many of the saints say VERY few (Jesus said few) do not make it.


I'm sure you meant that very few do make it to Heaven.

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Some people can't even do the minimal requirement of being christian..  


Sorry, but that is in no way the "minimal requirement".
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 15, 2017, 12:48:03 AM
Hell is forever
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 15, 2017, 03:48:15 PM
This is the OP, and I wanna say thanks for the replies. Honestly,  I feel like I'm slowly descending into disbelief. Maybe deist or agnostic or some other. I still believe in God, and I still kind of believe in the afterlife, but really I'm just losing faith in Catholicism's view of God and heaven and hell and all that. I mean, what if Christianity is just another religion? Like islam or something. I've always had problems with the whole EENS idea. I read that God wills all men to be saved, yet why doesn't He give a clear and concise path to all men then? He allows so many to remain in ignorance and suffering. Then just damns them to the fire? I know the traditional christian idea that heaven is not a right, it's only a gift, no one deserves it; but still, why does the alternate have to be so terrible? Why can't it be that heaven is an extraordinary end, while hell is the ordinary end. And by hell, I don't mean tormenting agony. Well, except for truly wicked people. Not for people who remained in ignorance and suffering, without knowing what was true and what was false. And the whole sufficient grace hypothesis is also kind of problematic for me. Maybe I am misunderstanding it, but it seriously seems equivalent to seeing someone drowning in a lake and then throwing a clear plastic bag to them. That what sufficient grace seems to be. Something so insignificant and indiscernible in the chaos.  And we are still being horribly punished in the afterlife for not being able to utilize it? It's also like punishing a baby for not being able to solve an algebra problem. It really seems unfair. What really triggered all of this for me was reading about missing people. People who have their loved ones kidnapped or just dissappear for whatever reason. I can't imagine living like that, my loved one dissapearing and never seeing them again. Dying not knowing where they are, where they went or what happened to them. And I think to myself, "Well, if they couldn't have rest and see each other in this life, then at least they have the next life..." And that's when the extremely narrow and limited Catholic view of the afterlife pops in. And then I feel quite hopless. For them and for everyone,  including myself. And from this hoplessness there stems a quiet thought that perhaps there is NOTHING after death. That way, we can ALL have rest. Just go to sleep and never wake up. Even if the wicked have the same rest as the poor suffering people, at least the suffering have rest. That renders the wickeds' rest totally irrelevant. I also have been readin about human trafficking, satanic ritail abuse, and other horrible things that happen in this world. The reason why I empathize particularly with missing persons cases is that I myself went through a missing person crisis when I was 12. It was and is nothing compared to the experiences of other people,  but it still had a profound effect on me. Basically,  my mother went 'missing' for around 5 hours. She didn't actually go missing, but she left her phone somewhere and didn't have it on her so she never picked up when I called her. I don't remember all of the details of that night, but I definitely remember the anguish and desparation. I was panicking, freaking out, and crying. I was crying SO hard. At one point I even felt like I was hyperventilating. I was extremely heartbroken and I just can't describe well enough with words what I felt. But finally, my mother called and explained why she hadnt picked up or told anyone where she went. So my crisis had a happy ending. Even though it left me with separation anxiety until I was 16. Though, even now it manisfests itself somtimes. But when I read of other people who go missing, and their families searching for days, months, years, decades, entire lifetimes! And never finding them, or finding them dead... These stories, I think, trigger within me what I felt that night 7 years ago. And I am filled with so much sadness for them that I feel like Dante when he heard the story of Francesca:  


The other one did weep so, that, for pity,
I swooned away as if I had been dying,


And fell, even as a dead body falls.



I just want them to see each other again in the next life. All people who have been seperated. By natural or criminal means.  :cry: And I absolutely cannot be happy or at peace knowing the daily suffering of millions around the world.  Another thing that bothers me is the Christian idea of collective punishment or guilt. The idea that individuals are punished for the sins of other individuals. Everyone should be responsible for their own sins,  not the sins of others. We shouldn't suffer for Adam and Eves sin. Makes no sense to me. I like, however,  the eastern Christian view of the afterlife. It's not so defined and excessively detailed like the western view.  It's a little more abstract and I guess that gives it a little more wiggle room. I even read from some eastern Christians that there may be a chance for repentance after death...thats comforting. I still might pray the rosary everyday. Still will most likely pray before I eat, go to bed, etc. Though my faith and motivation for life are both dwindling very quickly.

P.s. I see that some people are saying that hell is eternal. I  am not denying that. I am only denying the traditional view that hell is all fire and torment.  I'd like to believe that only a part of hell is like that. Well, theres my long rant. I just like pouring out my thoughts. Even if no one reads or cares.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: nctradcath on February 15, 2017, 06:27:59 PM
You should pray the Rosary and ask Our Lady for the gift of faith.

Jesus and Mary,
David
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: nctradcath on February 15, 2017, 06:29:18 PM
She will give it to you. She had the most faith of any creature.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on February 15, 2017, 09:08:41 PM
I am sorry for your suffering, OP. It sounds like you were well and truly traumatised by your Mother's temporary disappearance. But please do not doubt God's ability to deal with all the evil in this world. God is all powerful, all mercy, all justice, all love and He knows the best way for each and every person who ever lived or who lives or who ever will live.

Meditate on His suffering. Nobody knows more on the meaning of suffering than He does.

You talk about ignorance and suffering together, but please remember that one can suffer in ignorance (and God knows each persons situation) or you can suffer in the knowlege that suffering can bring us rich rewards, both in this life and in the next. It all depends on our attitude towards it.

You can offer your own suffering up for your own and other souls. Call on the souls in Purgatory (you never mention them) to assist you in your understanding. Ask your Heavenly Mother to come to your aid.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 16, 2017, 12:03:15 AM
One of the great dangers of this century, and thus one of the great triumphs of Satan, has been the growing disbelief in the existence of Hell. For many, Hell has become a fable, a myth, an outdated holdover from "the Old Testament God of fire, brimstone and judgment." Urged on by false doctrines, the idolizing of pleasure and self, and an infantile rejection of eternal punishment for serious wrongs "when Jesus is a God of love and kindness," many have thrown Hell out the window - along with horror for sin. After all, if there is no Hell, then why be concerned about sin? Unfortunately, they forget that "I the Lord do not change" (Malachi 3:6). Hell has not suddenly evaporated because we would prefer it so. How subtle Satan is in these times. He increasingly tricks people into his web by disguising its very existence. He wants you to let down your guard. For the love of Jesus, and of your immortal soul, do not be deceived. Hell, eternal punishment for serious sins, exists. Scripture, the Church and the testimonies of many saints all confirm that Hell is a reality - a never-ending reality for those souls who must reside there with Satan and all the other damned forever, because by their own free will and choice they rejected God while on earth and excluded themselves from communion with Him forever.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 16, 2017, 01:00:17 AM
Just in case you might want to consider the following.. according to one medical source more than 1 in ten people have troubles this way, it's often hereditary.. but there're good ways to get health and happiness.. this is from a  health info page:

Signs and Symptoms
Generalized Anxiety Disorder

People with generalized anxiety disorder display excessive anxiety or worry for months and face several anxiety-related symptoms.

Generalized anxiety disorder symptoms include:

    Restlessness or feeling wound-up or on edge
    Being easily fatigued
    Difficulty concentrating or having their minds go blank
    Irritability
    Muscle tension
    Difficulty controlling the worry
    Sleep problems (difficulty falling or staying asleep or restless, unsatisfying sleep)

Panic Disorder

People with panic disorder have recurrent unexpected panic attacks, which are sudden periods of intense fear that may include palpitations, pounding heart, or accelerated heart rate; sweating; trembling or shaking; sensations of shortness of breath, smothering, or choking; and feeling of impending doom.

Panic disorder symptoms include:

    Sudden and repeated attacks of intense fear
    Feelings of being out of control during a panic attack
    Intense worries about when the next attack will happen
    Fear or avoidance of places where panic attacks have occurred in the past

Social Anxiety Disorder

People with social anxiety disorder (sometimes called “social phobia”) have a marked fear of social or performance situations in which they expect to feel embarrassed, judged, rejected, or fearful of offending others.

Social anxiety disorder symptoms include:

    Feeling highly anxious about being with other people and having a hard time talking to them
    Feeling very self-conscious in front of other people and worried about feeling humiliated, embarrassed, or rejected, or fearful of offending others
    Being very afraid that other people will judge them
    Worrying for days or weeks before an event where other people will be
    Staying away from places where there are other people
    Having a hard time making friends and keeping friends
    Blushing, sweating, or trembling around other people
    Feeling nauseous or sick to your stomach when other people are around

Evaluation for an anxiety disorder often begins with a visit to a primary care provider. Some physical health conditions, such as an overactive thyroid or low blood sugar, as well as taking certain medications, can imitate or worsen an anxiety disorder. A thorough mental health evaluation is also helpful, because anxiety disorders often co-exist with other related conditions, such as depression or obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Risk Factors

Researchers are finding that genetic and environmental factors, frequently in interaction with one another, are risk factors for anxiety disorders. Specific factors include:

    Shyness, or behavioral inhibition, in childhood
    Being female
    Having few economic resources
    Being divorced or widowed
    Exposure to stressful life events in childhood and adulthood
    Anxiety disorders in close biological relatives
    Parental history of mental disorders
    Elevated afternoon cortisol levels in the saliva (specifically for social anxiety disorder)

Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Stubborn on February 16, 2017, 06:31:32 AM
Quote from: Guest
This is the OP, and I wanna say thanks for the replies. Honestly,  I feel like I'm slowly descending into disbelief. Maybe deist or agnostic or some other. I still believe in God, and I still kind of believe in the afterlife, but really I'm just losing faith in Catholicism's view of God and heaven and hell and all that. I mean, what if Christianity is just another religion? Like islam or something. I've always had problems with the whole EENS idea. I read that God wills all men to be saved, yet why doesn't He give a clear and concise path to all men then? He allows so many to remain in ignorance and suffering. Then just damns them to the fire? I know the traditional christian idea that heaven is not a right, it's only a gift, no one deserves it; but still, why does the alternate have to be so terrible?

You have the whole wrong idea of hell - and therefore also heaven. No one is damned against their will, just as no one is saved against their will. You need to believe that. People, in choosing sin, choose hell of their own free will.

This is a much more accurate depiction of what happens. Whenever you contemplate the matter, this is the way you would be better off thinking about it, perhaps then you might come to better understand why so many go to hell - it is of their own free will that they chose it. It's the same for everybody.
(http://www.ohmagif.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/jumping-into-hole.gif)

Of the souls in hell, st. Alphonusus says: "If I had labored for God as much as I had labored for my damnation, I should have become a great saint...."

Ecclesiasticus 15:18
Before man is life and death, good and evil, that which he shall choose shall be given him.

What matters is salvation. Among all the affairs of men, salvation is the only thing that matters. If a man saves his soul, all that he paid was negligible; if he loses his soul, everything else he did comes to waste and bitter memory. This is not to say that life on earth is unimportant; on the contrary, it is immeasurably important, because everything one does pertains to eternity, whether one means that it be so or not, or whether one believes that such is the case or not. In the final analysis, the question is not "to be or not to be;" it is rather, Heaven or Hell? He, therefore, who allows himself to be diverted from the quest for salvation is an utter fool; his life is worse than wasted: it is a consummate failure. "It were better for him, if that man had not been born." (Mt. 26:24). - Fr. Wathen - "Who Shall Ascend?"
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Ladislaus on February 16, 2017, 08:22:57 AM
I'm actually with OP on this one.  I think that there are a significant number of people in hell whose actually sufferings, apart from the pain of loss, are relatively mild.  This is a permissible opinion based on what was taught by the Council of Florence.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 16, 2017, 08:48:04 AM
Quote from: Matthew
You don't have to be a poster boy for evil, like Adolf Hitler has become (thanks to the Jєωιѕн media his evil is exaggerated to be the worst in history or some such nonsense). You don't have to be a notorious dictator like Stalin or Pol Pot to go to Hell and suffer great pains there.


Yes, but hell is NOT monolithic.  Sufferings depend on the DEGREE of sin one committed during one's life.  One of the biggest mistakes about hell is to imagine it as one big caldron of fire in which a Stalin would be roasting in the same intensity of flame as a person who was naturally virtuous during most of their lives but, say, never received the gift of supernatural faith.  Some non-Catholic who lived virtuously from a natural perspective, perhaps even gave their life to save someone else, will NOT be suffering to the same degree as some wicked mass murderer or Satan worshipper.  And I believe that many of those who lived relatively virtuous lives from a natural standpoint suffer very little in hell.  I believe that the actual punishments due to sin can be mitigated or offset somewhat by any virtues that these people may have practiced during their lives (not that these have any supernatural merit of course).

Quote from: Council of Lyon II
The souls of those who die in mortal sin, or with original sin only, however, immediately descend to hell, yet to be punished with different punishments. (Denz. 464)


Quote from: Council of Florence
But the souls of those who depart this life in actual mortal sin, or in original sin alone, go down straightaway to hell to be punished, but with unequal pains.” (Sixth Session, 6 July 1439, Pope Eugenius presiding; Denz. 693)


It is in fact this misunderstanding of hell that influences people to reject the dogma EENS.  So, you see, people recoil at the notion that a virtuous Jєωιѕн grandmother who may have even given her life to save her children would be roasting right next to Joe Stalin.  So they reject EENS and claim that this Jєωιѕн grandmother could be saved.  But if they had a more appropriate view of hell, they wouldn't recoil at this notion.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Ladislaus on February 16, 2017, 12:13:18 PM
Quote from: Guest
...Yes, but hell is NOT monolithic.


This post was from me again.  Just forgot to check the "DO NOT Post Anonymously" box.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 17, 2017, 12:09:49 AM
The Bible and Hell

 "Many souls are falling into Hell.  Pray for poor sinners."  Veronica LuekenThere are over thirty repeated references to the existence of Hell in the Old Testament alone. For instance: "The sorrows of death have compassed me: and the perils of Hell have found me" (Psalms [Douay-Rheims] 114:3). "The Lord Almighty will take revenge on them, in the day of judgment he will visit them. For he will give fire and worms into their flesh, that they may burn, and may feel for ever" (Judith 16:17). "Depart from me, come not near me, because thou art unclean: these shall be smoke in my anger, a fire burning all the day" (Isaiah 65:5). "A fire is kindled in my wrath, and shall burn even to the lowest hell...I will heap evils upon the transgressors of my law, and will spend my arrows among them" (Deut.32:22-23). "The congregation of sinners is like tow heaped together, and the end of them is a flame of fire" (Ecclesiasticus 21:10). "He shall be punished for all he did, and yet shall not be consumed:...he shall burn, and every sorrow shall fall upon him...All darkness is hid in his secret places: a fire that is not kindled shall devour him" (Job 20:17,22,26).

In the Gospels, Jesus speaks of Hell more than of Heaven. In Matthew, Jesus says "But I say to you, that whosoever is angry with his brother, shall be in danger of the judgment....And whosoever shall say, you fool, shall be in danger of Hell fire" (St. Matt. 5:22). "The Son of Man shall send his angels and they will collect out of his kingdom all who cause others to sin and all evildoers. They will throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth" (St. Matt. 13:41-42). In Mark, Jesus warns: "And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter into life maimed than with two hands to go into Hell, into the unquenchable fire..." (St. Mark 9:43).

A description of the last judgment in the Book of Revelations clearly makes the point: "And I saw the dead, great and small, standing in the presence of the throne, and the books were opened; and another book was opened, which is the book of life; and the dead were judged by those things which were written in the books, according to their works. And the sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hell gave up their dead that were in them; and they were judged every one according to their works. And Hell and death were cast into the pool of fire. This is the second death. And whosoever was not found written in the book of life, was cast into the pool of fire" (Rev. 20:12-15).

Jesus describes in Matthew the last judgment as His separation of the sheep (those who loved God and neighbor) from the goats (those who did not). To the goats, Jesus says His indictment will be: "Depart from Me, you accursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. ...And these will go off to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life" (St. Matt. 25:41,46). Jesus Christ could not have been more clear that each of us, by our choices and conduct, risks eternal punishment after death - Hell.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 17, 2017, 12:54:15 AM
Quote from: Ladislaus
I'm actually with OP on this one.  I think that there are a significant number of people in hell whose actually sufferings, apart from the pain of loss, are relatively mild.  This is a permissible opinion based on what was taught by the Council of Florence.


The pain of loss itself is too horrible to imagine.
 
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 17, 2017, 09:23:47 AM
Quote from: poche
Veronica Lueken


 :facepalm:
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 18, 2017, 04:08:50 AM
Apparitions of the Damned from Hell

In Chapter 16 of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus tells a parable on Hell. A rich man who has died and is in Hell pleads with God to send the poor man Lazarus, who has gone to Heaven, back from the dead to warn his five brothers that Hell really exists. God replies: "If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead." However, God is so merciful that He has reportedly allowed certain of the damned in Hell to return to earth to witness to others that there truly is a place of eternal suffering - Hell - for those who disobey God and His commandments. Here are two examples of many such occurrences, docuмented in the annals of private revelation.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 18, 2017, 01:56:38 PM
Quote from: poche
Apparitions of the Damned from Hell

In Chapter 16 of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus tells a parable on Hell. A rich man who has died and is in Hell pleads with God to send the poor man Lazarus, who has gone to Heaven, back from the dead to warn his five brothers that Hell really exists. God replies: "If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead." However, God is so merciful that He has reportedly allowed certain of the damned in Hell to return to earth to witness to others that there truly is a place of eternal suffering - Hell - for those who disobey God and His commandments. Here are two examples of many such occurrences, docuмented in the annals of private revelation.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm


Thank you for that site, which i believe i have gone to but it was long ago

As to this part, found @ that site:

In this century alone, the number of persons being chosen by God to witness the reality of Hell is greater then all prior centuries combined

I believe i am one of those so chosen, but i don't believe i have actually BEEN in Hell, as in completely, just that i have had an experience of Hell b/c i had the misfortune of being around someone who had (my take) sold his/her (won't say) soul to the devil...

To be in a place where is absolutely no love and only malice and hate... is hell.

Actually, this has happened 2 or 3 times in my life, and with both genders.. Being around them caused me to "go there" I had to pray a certain way to get out of there
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 20, 2017, 11:09:15 PM
Apparitions of the Damned from Hell

In Chapter 16 of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus tells a parable on Hell. A rich man who has died and is in Hell pleads with God to send the poor man Lazarus, who has gone to Heaven, back from the dead to warn his five brothers that Hell really exists. God replies: "If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead." However, God is so merciful that He has reportedly allowed certain of the damned in Hell to return to earth to witness to others that there truly is a place of eternal suffering - Hell - for those who disobey God and His commandments. Here are two examples of many such occurrences, docuмented in the annals of private revelation.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 21, 2017, 11:34:35 PM
God's 20th Century Warnings of Hell

In this century alone, the number of persons being chosen by God to witness the reality of Hell is greater then all prior centuries combined. Clearly, as our world moves further away from belief in sin and punishment for sin, God increases His Divine Mercy by granting us more and more confirmations of that reality.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm

Now is the time of mercy. Twenty minutes after you are dead is twenty minutes too late.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 21, 2017, 11:38:57 PM
God's 20th Century Warnings of Hell

In this century alone, the number of persons being chosen by God to witness the reality of Hell is greater then all prior centuries combined. Clearly, as our world moves further away from belief in sin and punishment for sin, God increases His Divine Mercy by granting us more and more confirmations of that reality.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm

Now is the time of mercy. Twenty minutes after you are dead is twenty minutes too late.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 22, 2017, 11:33:48 PM
Blessed Faustina Is Shown Hell

Sister Faustina, the beatified [canonized April 30, 2000] Polish nun was shown Hell in 1936. Here is her account from her Diary (741): "Today, I was led by an angel to the chasms of hell. It is a place of great torture; how awesomely large and extensive it is! The kinds of tortures I saw: the first torture that constitutes hell is the loss of God; the second is perpetual remorse of conscience; the third is that one's condition will never change; (160) the fourth is the fire that will penetrate the soul without destroying it-a terrible suffering, since it is a purely spiritual fire, lit by God's anger; the fifth torture is continual darkness and a terrible suffocating smell, and, despite the darkness, the devils and the souls of the damned see each other and all the evil, both of others and their own; the sixth torture is the constant company of Satan; the seventh torture is the horrible despair, hatred of God, vile words, curses and blasphemies. These are the tortures suffered by all the damned together, but that is not the end of the sufferings. There are special tortures destined for particular souls. These are the torments of the senses. Each soul undergoes terrible and indescribable sufferings, related to the manner in which it has sinned. There are caverns and pits of torture where one form of agony differs from another. I would have died at the very sight of these tortures if the omnipotence of God had not supported me. Let the sinner know that he will be tortured throughout all eternity, in those senses which he made use of to sin. (161) I am writing this at the command of God, so that no soul may find an excuse by saying there is no hell, or that nobody has ever been there, and so no one can say what it is like. I, Sister Faustina, by the order of God, have visited the abysses of hell so that I might tell souls about it and testify to its existence. I cannot speak about it now; but I have received a command from God to leave it in writing. The devils were full of hatred for me, but they had to obey me at the command of God. What I have written is but a pale shadow of the things I saw. But I noticed one thing: that most of the souls there are those who disbelieved that there is a hell. When I came to, I could hardly recover from the fright. How terribly souls suffer there! Consequently, I pray even more fervently for the conversion of sinners. I incessantly plead God's mercy upon them. O my Jesus, I would rather be in agony until the end of the world, amidst the greatest sufferings, than offend You by the least sin."

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Lighthouse on February 23, 2017, 12:25:15 AM
Quote
Guest said:
This is the OP, and I wanna say thanks for the replies. Honestly,  I feel like I'm slowly descending into disbelief. Maybe deist or agnostic or some other. I still believe in God, and I still kind of believe in the afterlife, but really I'm just losing faith in Catholicism's view of God and heaven and hell and all that. I mean, what if Christianity is just another religion? Like islam or something. I've always had problems with the whole EENS idea. I read that God wills all men to be saved, yet why doesn't He give a clear and concise path to all men then? He allows so many to remain in ignorance and suffering. Then just damns them to the fire? I know the traditional christian idea that heaven is not a right, it's only a gift, no one deserves it; but still, why does the alternate have to be so terrible?


Around 8 sentences and almost 10 uses of "I".

What if you were starting to date someone and the first paragraph out of  your mouth contained this many self references? That person would probably be busy the next time you tried to contact them. It's all about finding the truth, not how you feel about the truth.  Sit back and take a look at the outside sources of truth. Give "I" a rest for awhile.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 23, 2017, 08:13:08 AM
Guest unregistered,

Sister of the Nativity, a reliable mystic, was told that some souls in hell "only" suffered from the absence of God. However they must be rather rare, and we can add that the loss of God is the worst pain.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on February 24, 2017, 12:56:14 AM
Sister Josefa Menendez's Description of Hell

One of the greatest mystics of this century was Sister Josefa Menendez, who died in 1923 at the age of 33. This young Spanish sister, who had a short religious life of great suffering, experienced revelations throughout much of her life, compiled in The Way Of Divine Love. More than once, she was taken to Hell to witness and feel the suffering first-hand. Sister Josefa was reluctant to write on the subject of Hell, and did so only to conform to Our Lord's wishes. Sister Josefa repeatedly dwelt on what she described as the greatest torment of Hell, namely, the soul's inability to love. One of these damned souls cried out: "This is my torture...that I want to love and cannot; there is nothing left me but hatred and despair. If one of us could so much as make a single act of love...But we cannot, we live on hatred and malevolence..." (March 23, 1922).

She records, too, the accusations made against themselves by these unhappy souls: "Some yell because of the martyrdom of their hands. Perhaps they were thieves, for they say: 'Where is our loot now?' ...Cursed hands... Others curse their tongues, their eyes...whatever was the occasion of sin... 'Now, O body, you are paying the price of the delights you granted yourself!...and you did it of your own free will...'" (April 2, 1922).

"I saw several souls fall into Hell, and among them was a child of fifteen, cursing her parents for not having taught her to fear God nor that there was a Hell. Her life had been a short one, she said, but full of sin, for she had given in to all that her body and passions demanded in the way of satisfaction..." (March 22, 1923).

"My soul fell into abysmal depths, the bottom of which cannot be seen, for it is immense...; Then I was pushed into one of those fiery cavities and pressed, as it were, between burning planks, and sharp nails and red-hot irons seemed to be piercing my flesh. I felt as if they were endeavoring to pull out my tongue, but could not. This torture reduced me to such agony that my very eyes seemed to be starting out of their sockets. I think this was because of the fire which burns, burns ... not a finger nail escapes terrifying torments, and all the time one cannot move even a finger to gain some relief, not change posture, for the body seems flattened out and [yet] doubled in two. Sounds of confusion and blasphemy cease not for an instant. A sickening stench asphyxiates and corrupts everything, it is like the burning of putrefied flesh, mingled with tar and sulphur ... a mixture to which nothing on earth can be compared... although these tortures were terrific, they would be bearable if the soul were at peace. But it suffers indescribably... All I have written," she concluded, "is but a shadow of what the soul suffers, for no words can express such dire torment." (September 4, 1922).

"Today, I saw a vast number of people fall into the fiery pit . . . they seemed to be worldlings and a demon cried vociferously: 'The world is ripe for me . . . I know that the best way to get hold of souls is to rouse their desire for enjoyment . . . Put me first . . . me before the rest . . . no humility for me! but let me enjoy myself . . . This sort of thing assures victory to me . . . and they tumble headlong into hell.' " (October 4, 1923)

"Tonight I was transported to a place where all was obscure. . . Around me were seven or eight people; I could see them only by the reflections of the fire. They were seated and were talking together. One said: 'We'll have to be very careful not to be found out, for we might easily be discovered.'

"The devil answered: 'Insinuate yourselves by inducing carelessness in them . . . but keep in the background, so that you are not found out . . . by degrees they will become callous, and you will be able to incline them to evil. Tempt these others to ambition, to self-interest, to acquiring wealth without working, whether it be lawful or not. Excite some to sensuality and love of pleasure. Let vice blind them . . . As to the remainder . . . get in through the heart . . . you know the inclinations of their hearts . . . make them love . . .love passionately . . . work thoroughly . . . take no rest . . . have no pity. Let them cram themselves with food! It will make it all the easier for us . . . Let them get on with their banqueting. Love of pleasure is the door through which you will reach them . . .' " (February 3, 1923).

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on February 24, 2017, 10:24:39 AM
Faith is a priceless gift. You need to value it very much.

Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mithrandylan on February 24, 2017, 11:14:32 AM
OP,

Some posters since you mentioned an increasing disbelief have recommended that you pray for faith.  I'll second that recommendation, and I'll pray for an increase of your faith, BUT:

It seems that you have a few intellectual premises that are incompatible with faith, because they're incompatible with reason.  Faith is not a state or condition that "takes over" where reason "leaves off."  You've probably heard it said that the faith is reasonable, but do not take this to mean that reason leads us to a gap, and then faith takes over so that we can make a blind leap over that gap into actual religion where reason ceases to function and faith takes over.

Stop caring about your feelings.  If you went to buy a car, or a home, or something else, you'd (hopefully) have a fairly rigorous intellectual process that guided your decision; you'd want to know a bunch of details in the order of fact and reason to determine whether or not the car or the home was actually good in the objective order.  When it comes to your very life and how you live it, the same sort of deliberation is made all the more important.

So go back to the reasons that you were Catholic in the first place.  Find those reasons.  Hopefully, you'll find that they were intellectual.  If they weren't, then it's time to make them intellectual.  And by intellectual I don't mean that it's time to go to the library and time for you to become a scholar.  I meant that you need to have actual REASONS, not FEELINGS, that are informing your "religious sense."

If you don't have that, not only will you certainly not ever be religious, you'll never be much of anything other than a slave to your passions or feelings.  For instance, if you were to marry, what will you do after the honeymoon ends (and it ALWAYS does) and you begin to "feel" ordinary and complacent?  What will you do when the nice feelings of love and excitement and novelty in your spouse begin to wear off?  If you only married them for those feelings in the first place, you're going to end up divorced.  Again and again.  You'll be sixty years old with several spouses behind you and kids from each of them, and you'll have taught each of them to just follow their feelings so don't count on them ever caring about you being in a nursing home because it's an inconvenience to their feelings to have to juggle your feelings, which by that time will be so overwhelming due to you have virtually no social stability, a scattered family, and your mortality sneaking up on you more gradually by the day.

So go back to the reasons why we're Catholic.  Really basic ones.  Does God exist?  Why?  How does natural reason show us that He exists?  If He does exist, what do we know about Him?  Do we know that he is all powerful, the cause of all things, all knowing, etc.?  If we do, do we know that he has established a Church?  If He has, which one?  What are our obligations to belong to that Church and to live according to God's laws?

Each and everyone one of those questions can be answered without appealing to feelings.  And really, they MUST be answered without an appeal to feelings.  These are questions, believe it or not, that have already been answered by St. Thomas, and he's answered those questions without ever appealing to the need for feeling, sentiment, or blind faith.  Look to him, and look to others who have shown through reason and natural philosophy certain basic, fundamental truths about religion.  

Pray, of course.  But you sound like you're beyond prayer, at least in the sense that short of a very strong influx of faith, you simply do not find the fundamental truths of religion AS SUCH to be convincing.  Your problem isn't "just" with the Catholic faith, it seems to be with all religion itself.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Arsenius on February 24, 2017, 01:42:55 PM
Quote from: Ladislaus
I'm actually with OP on this one.  I think that there are a significant number of people in hell whose actually sufferings, apart from the pain of loss, are relatively mild.  This is a permissible opinion based on what was taught by the Council of Florence.


Totally agree. Heaven and Hell are not for mortal eyes. Too much speculation (on either extreme) is unhealthy and unproductive. It's rather sadistic and pathetic how many traditional Catholics seem to garner a sick fascination/joy with the thought of everybody going to Hell aside from their small circles. Pray and do penance for everyone - especially yourself. "O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell, lead all souls to Heaven especially those in most need of thine mercy".

(I'm not the OP)

Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on February 27, 2017, 06:06:46 PM
This is the OP, and I want to say thank you all very much for the replies. They really did help. God bless you all. I'm doing better, thank God. Still have some issues, but I pray they will be resolved soon. And thank you for not making fun of me. I was honestly expecting jeers and insults lol...

Again,  thank you.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on March 01, 2017, 12:49:16 AM
The Fatima Children Are Shown Hell

 In 1917, during World War I and that "hell on earth," the Virgin Mary appeared to three children at Fatima, Portugal on the 13th of the month from May through October. During here appearance on July 13th, 1917, she showed these three young children, ages 7 to 10, a vision of Hell. Lucia, who is still alive today [R.I.P. Feb. 13, 2005], the Blessed Virgin Mary opened her hands, and "rays of light seemed to penetrate the earth, and we saw as it were a sea of fire. Plunged in this fire were demons and souls in human form, like transparent burning embers, all blackened or burnished bronze, floating about in the conflagration, now raised into the air by the flames that issued from within themselves together with great clouds of smoke, now falling back on every side like sparks in huge fires, without weight or equilibrium, amid shrieks and groans of pain and despair, which horrified us and made us tremble with fear. (It must have been this sight which caused me to cry out, as people say they heard me.) The demons could be distinguished by their terrifying and repellent likeness to frightful and unknown animals, black and transparent like burning coals. Terrified and as if to plead for help, we looked up at Our Lady, who said to us so sadly: "You have seen Hell where the souls of poor sinners go. Thus, when you say the rosary, say after each mystery: O my Jesus, forgive us our sins, save us from the fires of Hell and lead all souls to Heaven, especially those most in need of Thy Mercy." After this vision, the children lived dramatic lives of sacrifice and penance for sinners so that sinners might be converted and saved from the fires of Hell that God had shown them through His Heavenly prophetess.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on March 02, 2017, 11:27:24 PM
Boy Raised from the Dead by St. John Bosco

A fifteen year old boy in Turin was about to die. He called for Don Bosco, but the saint was not able to make it in time. Another priest heard the boy's confession and the boy died. When Don Bosco returned to Turin, he set out at once to see the boy. When told that the boy was dead, he insisted that it was "just a misunderstanding." After a moment of prayer in the room of the dead child, Don Bosco suddenly cried out: "Charles! Rise!" To the utter amazement of all present, the boy stirred, opened his eyes, and sat up. Seeing Don Bosco, his eyes lit up.

"Father, I should now be in Hell!" gasped the boy. "Two weeks ago I was with a bad companion who led me into sin and at my last confession, I was afraid to tell everything . . . Oh, I've just come out of a horrible dream! I dreamt I was standing on the edge of a huge furnace surrounded by a horde of devils. They were about to throw me into the flames when a beautiful Lady appeared and stopped them. 'There's still hope for you, Charles,' she told me. 'You have not yet been judged!' At that moment I heard you calling me. Oh, Don Bosco! What a joy to see you again! Will you please hear my confession?"

After hearing the boy's confession, Don Bosco said to the boy, "Charles, now that the gates of Heaven lie wide open for you, would you rather go there or stay here with us?" The boy looked away for a moment and his eyes grew moist with tears. An expectant hush fell over the room. "Don Bosco", he said at last, "I'd rather go to Heaven." The mourners watched in amazement as Charles leaned back on the pillows, closed his eyes, and settled once more into the stillness of death.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on March 06, 2017, 02:09:22 AM
The Old General and The Count

In Russia shortly before the horrible military campaign between Napoleon and Russia in 1812, two high-ranking military men, one a Count and the Military Governor of Moscow and the other a General, were scoffing over drinks about the existence of God, life after death and Hell. They made a mocking "pledge of honor": if there were a Hell, the first there would come to inform the other of it. A few weeks later, the General departed for the front. One morning, while the Count was lying in bed, the General suddenly appeared before him, pale, with his right hand on his breast, declaring: "What do we do now? There is a Hell and I am there! What do we do now?" He then disappeared. The Count ran to friends, eyes wild, hair on end, and exclaimed what had just happened. Two weeks later, word was received in Moscow that the General had died in battle - on the same day and at the very hour he appeared to the Count. He had kept his word of honor: Hell exists.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 06, 2017, 10:08:26 AM
Quote from: Guest
Is it wrong to believe that, of the 'majority' that doesn't make it to heaven, a good 'chunk' of that population doesn't suffer much, if at all, in hell? Perhaps they go to a place like limbo or limbo itself. Perhaps there is a temporary suffering in hell for some souls and then they are admitted into a non suffering 'part' of hell...


Yes, you can believe this.  As long as the pain of loss is still somewhat there.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on March 13, 2017, 12:35:18 AM
The Young Lord and His Mistress

In London during the winter of 1847-1848, a wealthy young widow in here late 20's suddenly found herself in an illicit relationship with a young Lord. Late one night as she was falling asleep, a glimmer of light started to grow and expand at her door. To her astonishment the door started to slowly open, and there was the young lord. He approached, grabbed here left wrist, and hissed: "There is a Hell." The pain in her wrist was so great she lost consciousness. When she came to, she had a terrible burn into her wrist down to her bone. The carpet also was scorched where his footsteps had come and gone. The next day she learned that the night before, her lord had been found drunk and had died in his servants' arms. She apparently lived the rest of her life with her charred scar as a reminder.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: poche on March 13, 2017, 11:33:38 PM
he Young Harlots

Rome, 1873. A prostitute dies late one night at the local hospital. At that instant, one of her "co-workers" back at the brothel starts screaming, waking up the entire neighborhood and bringing the police. Why? Because her friend at the hospital had suddenly appeared to her in flames, stating: "I am damned!" At daybreak, the poor girl left. Word followed of the death the night before of her friend at the hospital. Word then spread all over Rome of these events. As always, the wise listened, the foolish laughed.

http://www.tldm.org/News8/RealityOfHell.htm
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on March 14, 2017, 04:16:07 AM
 :roll-laugh1: :fryingpan:

Matthew is not only the moderator - he's the owner here!

I'm hanging around for the fireworks.  :heretic:

:popcorn: :rahrah: :boxer:

Methinks you've been watching too much Fox TV! :wink:
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Matthew on March 14, 2017, 01:31:41 PM
Surprise, surprise -- GLSector doesn't belong here!

Who'da thunk it?

A lot of people, I'm sure...

Needless to say, GLSector has been banned for insolence.

He is a sad example of a person damaged and brainwashed by the modern world, with all its errors. He has a very slim chance of saving his soul. I was hoping to keep him around so he would learn something about Tradition -- I figured it would be for his own good. But I think he's contaminated CathInfo enough. May God have mercy on him.
Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Croix de Fer on March 14, 2017, 03:41:23 PM
https://www.olrl.org/doctrine/cry.shtml

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This unusual narrative recounts the revelations of a lost soul to a former acquaintance. It is a powerful record of the steps which led a young woman to lose her soul in Hell for all eternity.

Although it has several times been printed with imprimatur, this in itself does not guarantee the authenticity of the story.

An imprimatur merely indicates that the subject matter is free from error in faith and morals.

Is it true?

Obviously, it cannot be "guaranteed" because the only evidence is that of the girl herself.

It certainly may be true and its instructional qualities would pertain even if the story itself were not true.

In the July apparition at Fatima a vision of a Hell of fire was given to the three little children, and significantly, its existence was confirmed by the great public miracle on October 13th.

Yet Hell is little spoken of in the pulpits. Because of this, the special intervention of Heaven, may, as at Fatima, be necessary to restore this sobering doctrine to its important place in Christian dogma.

It is well to remember that the Hell spoken of here is the Hell which has a significant place in Catholic doctrine, the Hell described vividly by Christ Himself, the Hell seen in all its livid horror by the children at Fatima on July 13th, 1917.

The names of persons and places are omitted because of the nature of the story, plus the fact of its recent origin.

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Clara and Annette, both single Catholics in their early twenties, worked adjacent to each other as employees of a commercial firm in Germany. Although they were never very close friends, they shared a courteous mutual regard which led to an exchange of ideas and, eventually, of confidences. Clara professed herself openly religious, and felt it her duty to instruct and admonish Annette when the latter appeared excessively casual or superficial in religious matters.

In due course, Annette married and left the firm. The year was 1937. Clara spent the autumn of that year on holiday at Lake Garda. About the middle of September she received a letter from her mother. "Annette . . . is dead. She was the victim of an auto accident and was buried yesterday at Wald-Friedhof."

Clara was frightened since she knew her friend was not very religious. Was she prepared to appear before God? Dying suddenly, what had happened to her?

The next day she attended Mass, received Holy Communion, and prayed fervently for her friend. The following night, at ten minutes after midnight, the vision took place. . .

"Clara, do not pray for me! I am in hell. If I tell you this and speak at length about it, do not think it is because of our friendship. We here do not love anyone. I do this as under constraint. In truth, I should like to see you to come to this state where I must remain forever."

"Perhaps that angers you, but here we all think that way. Our wills are hardened in evil - in what you call evil. Even when we do something 'good', as I do now, opening your eyes about hell, it is not because of a good intention."

"Do you still remember our first meeting four years ago at. . .? You were then 23 and had been there already half a year. Because I was a beginner, you gave me some helpful advice. Then I praised your love of your neighbor. Ridiculous! Your help was mere coquetry. Here we do not acknowledge any good - in anybody."

"Do you remember what I told you about my youth? Now I am painfully compelled to fill in some of the gaps."

"According to the plan of my parents, I should not have existed. A misfortune brought about my conception. My two sisters were 14 and 15 when I was born."

"Would that I had never existed! Would that I could now annihilate myself! Escape these tortures! No pleasure would equal that with which I would abandon my existence, as a garment of ashes which is lost in nothingness. But I must continue to exist as I chose to make myself - as a ruined person."

"When father and mother, still young, left the country for the city, they had lost touch with the Church and were keeping company with irreligious people. They had met at a dance, and after a year and a half of companionship they 'had' to get married."

"As a result of the nuptial ceremony, so much holy water remained on them that my mother attended Sunday Mass a couple of times a year. But she never taught me to pray. Instead, she was completely taken up with the daily cares of life, although our situation was not bad."

"I refer to prayer, Mass, religious instruction, holy water, church with a very strong repugnance. I hate all that, as I hate those who go to church, and in general every human being and everything."

"From a great many things do we receive torture. Every knowledge received at the hour of death, every remembrance of things lived or known is for us, a piercing flame. In each remembrance, good and bad, we see the way in which was present - the grace we despised or ignored. What a torture is this! We do not eat, we do not sleep, we do not walk. Chained, with howling and gnashing of teeth, we look appalled at our ruined life, hating and suffering. Do you hear? We here drink hatred like water. Above all we hate God. With reluctance do I force myself to make you understand."

"The blessed in heaven must love God because they see Him without veil, in all His dazzling beauty. That makes their bliss indescribable. We know this and the knowledge makes us furious. Men on earth, who know God from nature and from revelation, can love Him, but they are not compelled to do so. The believer - I say this with gnashing of teeth - who contemplates Christ on the cross, with arms extended, will end by loving Him."

"But he whom God approaches only in the final storm, as punisher, as just avenger, because he was rejected by Him, such a person cannot but hate Him with all the strength of his wicked will. We died with willful resolve to be separated from God. Do you now understand why hell lasts forever! It is because our wills were fixed for eternity at the moment of death. We had made our final choice. Our obstinacy will never leave us. Under compulsion, I must add that God is merciful even towards us. I affirm many things against my will and must choke the torrent of abuses I should like to vomit out."

"God was merciful to us by not allowing our wicked wills to exhaust themselves on earth, as we should have been prepared to do. This would have increased our faults and our pains. He caused us to die before our time, as in my case, or had other mitigating circuмstances intervene. Now He shows Himself merciful towards us by not compelling a closer approach than that afforded in this remote inferno. Every step bringing us closer to God would cause us a greater pain than that which a step closer to a burning furnace would cause you."

"You were scared when once, during a walk, I told you that my father, a few days before my first Communion, had told me: 'My little Annette, the main thing is your beautiful white dress, all the rest is just make-believe.' Because of your concern, I was almost ashamed. Now I sneer at it."

"The important thing is that we were not allowed to receive Communion until the age of 12. By then I was already absorbed in worldly amusements and found it easy to set aside, without scruple, the things of religion. Thus, I attached no great importance to my first Communion. We are furious that many children go to Communion at the age of seven. We do all we can to make people believe that children have insufficient knowledge at that age. They must first commit some mortal sins. Then the white Particle will not do so much damage to our cause as when faith, hope, and charity - oh, these things! - received in Baptism, are still alive in their hearts."

"Marta K - and you induced me to enter "The Association of the Young Ladies." The games were amusing. As you know, I immediately took a directive part. I liked it. I also like the picnics. I even let myself be induced to go to confession and communion sometimes."

"Once you warned me, 'Anne, if you do not pray, you go to perdition.' I used to pray very little indeed, and even this unwillingly. You were then only too right. All those who burn in hell did not pray or did not pray enough."

"Prayer is the first step towards God. And it is the decisive step. Especially prayer to her who is the Mother of Christ, whose name we never pronounce. Devotion to her rescues from the devil numberless souls whom sin would infallibly give to him."

"I continue my story, consumed with rage and only because I have to. To pray is the easiest thing man can do on earth. And God has tied up the salvation of each one exactly to this very easy thing."

"To him who prays with perseverance little by little God gives so much light, so much strength, that even the most debased sinner will at the end come back to salvation. During the last years of my life I did not pray any more, so I lacked those graces without which nobody can be saved. Here we no longer receive graces. Moreover, should we receive them we would cynically refuse them. All the fluctuations of earthly existence have ceased in the other life. For years I was living far away from God. For, in the last call of grace I decided against God."

"I never believed in the influence of the devil. And now I affirm that he has strong influence on the persons who are in the condition in which I was then. Only many prayers, others and mine own, united with sacrifices and penances, could have snatched me from his grip. And even this only little by little. If there are only few externally obsessed, there are very many internally possessed. The devil cannot steal the free will from those who give themselves to his influence. But in punishment of their, so to speak, methodical apostasy from God, He allows the devil to nest in them."

"I hate the devil too. And yet I am pleased about him, because he tries to ruin all of you; he and his satellites, the fallen with him at the beginning of time. There are millions of them. They roam around the earth, as thick as a swarm of flies, and you do not even notice it. It is not reserved to us damned to tempt you; but to the fallen spirits. In truth every time they drag down here to hell a human soul their own torture is increased. But what does one not do for hatred?"

"Deep down I was rebelling against God. You did not understand it; you thought me still a Catholic. I wanted, in fact, to be called one; I even used to pay my ecclesiastical dues. Maybe your answers were right sometimes. On me they made no impression, since you must not be right. Because of these counterfeited relationships between the two of us, our separation on the occasion of my marriage was of no consequence to me. Before the wedding I went to confession and communion once more. It was a precept. My husband and I thought alike on this point. Why not comply with this formality? So we complied with this, as with the other formalities."

"Our married life, in general, was spent in great harmony. We were of the same idea in everything. In this too, that we did not want the burden of children. In truth, my husband would have like to have one; no more, of course. In the end I succeeded in dissuading him even from this desire. Dresses, luxurious furniture, places of entertainment, picnics and trips by car and similar things were more important for me... It was a year of pleasure on earth, the one that passed from my marriage to my sudden death. Internally, of course, I was never happy, although externally at ease. There was always something indeterminate inside that gnawed at me."

"Unexpectedly I had an inheritance from my Aunt, Lotte. My husband succeeded in increasing his wages to a considerable figure. And so I was able to furnish our new home in an attractive way. Religion did not show its light but from afar off, pale, feeble and uncertain."

"I used to give free vent to my ill humor about some mediaeval representations of hell in cemeteries or elsewhere, in which the devil is roasting souls in red burning coals, while his companions with long tails drag new victims to him. Clara! One can be mistaken in depicting hell, but never can one exaggerate."

"I tell you: the fire of which the Bible speaks, does not mean the torment of the conscience. Fire is fire! What He said: 'Away from Me, you accursed one, into eternal fire', is to be understood literally. Literally! How can the spirit be touched by material fire, you will ask. How can your soul suffer on earth when you put your finger on the flame? In fact the soul does not burn; and yet what torture all the individual feels!"

"Our greatest torture consists in the certain knowledge that we shall never see God. How can this torture us so much, since on earth we are so indifferent? As long as the knife lies on the table, it leaves you cold. You see how keen it is, but you do not feel it. Plunge the knife into the flesh and you will start screaming for pain. Now we feel the loss of God. The lost Catholics suffer more than those of other religions, because they, mostly, received and despised more graces and more light. He who knew more suffers more cruelly than he who knew less. He who sinned out of malice suffers more keenly than he who sinned out of weakness. But nobody suffers more than he deserves. Oh, if that were not true, I should have a motive to hate!"

"My death happened this way . . ."

"A week ago - I am speaking according to your reckoning, because according to pain, I could very well say that it is already ten years that I am burning in hell - a week ago, then, my husband and I, on a Sunday went on a picnic, the last one for me. The day was glorious. I felt very well. A sinister sense of pleasure that was with me all the day long, invaded me. When lo, suddenly, during the return, my husband was dazzled by a car that was coming full speed. He lost control."

"Jesus, used frequently by some people of German language - escaped from my lips with a shivering. Not as a prayer, but as a shout. A lacerating pain took hold of the whole of me. (In comparison with the present only a trifle). Then I lost consciousness. Strange! That morning this thought had come to me in an inexplicable way: 'You could go to Mass once more', It seemed like the last call of Love."

"Clear and resolute, my 'NO' cut off that train of thought. You will know already what happened after my death. The lot of my husband and that of my mother, what happened to my corpse and the proceedings of my funeral are known to me through some natural knowledge we have here. What happens on earth we know only obscurely. But we know what touches us closely. I see also where you are living."

"I myself awoke from the darkness suddenly, in the instant of my passing. I saw myself as flooded by a dazzling light. It was in the same place where my dead body was lying. It was like a theater, when suddenly the lights in the hall are put out, the curtains are rent aside and an unexpected scene, horrible illuminated, appears. The scene of my life."

"My soul showed herself to me as in a mirror; all the graces despised from my youth until my last NO to God. I felt myself like an assassin, to whom his dead victim is shown during his trial at court - Should I repent? Never! - Should I feel ashamed? Never!"

"However, I could not even stand before the eyes of God, rejected by me. There was only one thing for me: flight! As Cain fled from the dead body of Abel, so my soul rushed from the sight of horror."

"This was the particular judgment: the invisible Judge said: 'Away from Me'. Then my soul, as a yellow brimstone shadow, fell headlong into the place of eternal torture."
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Title: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 19, 2017, 12:23:28 AM
Quote from: Croix de Fer
https://www.olrl.org/doctrine/cry.shtml

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This unusual narrative recounts the revelations of a lost soul to a former acquaintance. It is a powerful record of the steps which led a young woman to lose her soul in Hell for all eternity.

Although it has several times been printed with imprimatur, this in itself does not guarantee the authenticity of the story.

An imprimatur merely indicates that the subject matter is free from error in faith and morals.

Is it true?

Obviously, it cannot be "guaranteed" because the only evidence is that of the girl herself.

It certainly may be true and its instructional qualities would pertain even if the story itself were not true.

In the July apparition at Fatima a vision of a Hell of fire was given to the three little children, and significantly, its existence was confirmed by the great public miracle on October 13th.

Yet Hell is little spoken of in the pulpits. Because of this, the special intervention of Heaven, may, as at Fatima, be necessary to restore this sobering doctrine to its important place in Christian dogma.

It is well to remember that the Hell spoken of here is the Hell which has a significant place in Catholic doctrine, the Hell described vividly by Christ Himself, the Hell seen in all its livid horror by the children at Fatima on July 13th, 1917.

The names of persons and places are omitted because of the nature of the story, plus the fact of its recent origin.

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Clara and Annette, both single Catholics in their early twenties, worked adjacent to each other as employees of a commercial firm in Germany. Although they were never very close friends, they shared a courteous mutual regard which led to an exchange of ideas and, eventually, of confidences. Clara professed herself openly religious, and felt it her duty to instruct and admonish Annette when the latter appeared excessively casual or superficial in religious matters.

In due course, Annette married and left the firm. The year was 1937. Clara spent the autumn of that year on holiday at Lake Garda. About the middle of September she received a letter from her mother. "Annette . . . is dead. She was the victim of an auto accident and was buried yesterday at Wald-Friedhof."

Clara was frightened since she knew her friend was not very religious. Was she prepared to appear before God? Dying suddenly, what had happened to her?

The next day she attended Mass, received Holy Communion, and prayed fervently for her friend. The following night, at ten minutes after midnight, the vision took place. . .

"Clara, do not pray for me! I am in hell. If I tell you this and speak at length about it, do not think it is because of our friendship. We here do not love anyone. I do this as under constraint. In truth, I should like to see you to come to this state where I must remain forever."

"Perhaps that angers you, but here we all think that way. Our wills are hardened in evil - in what you call evil. Even when we do something 'good', as I do now, opening your eyes about hell, it is not because of a good intention."

"Do you still remember our first meeting four years ago at. . .? You were then 23 and had been there already half a year. Because I was a beginner, you gave me some helpful advice. Then I praised your love of your neighbor. Ridiculous! Your help was mere coquetry. Here we do not acknowledge any good - in anybody."

"Do you remember what I told you about my youth? Now I am painfully compelled to fill in some of the gaps."

"According to the plan of my parents, I should not have existed. A misfortune brought about my conception. My two sisters were 14 and 15 when I was born."

"Would that I had never existed! Would that I could now annihilate myself! Escape these tortures! No pleasure would equal that with which I would abandon my existence, as a garment of ashes which is lost in nothingness. But I must continue to exist as I chose to make myself - as a ruined person."

"When father and mother, still young, left the country for the city, they had lost touch with the Church and were keeping company with irreligious people. They had met at a dance, and after a year and a half of companionship they 'had' to get married."

"As a result of the nuptial ceremony, so much holy water remained on them that my mother attended Sunday Mass a couple of times a year. But she never taught me to pray. Instead, she was completely taken up with the daily cares of life, although our situation was not bad."

"I refer to prayer, Mass, religious instruction, holy water, church with a very strong repugnance. I hate all that, as I hate those who go to church, and in general every human being and everything."

"From a great many things do we receive torture. Every knowledge received at the hour of death, every remembrance of things lived or known is for us, a piercing flame. In each remembrance, good and bad, we see the way in which was present - the grace we despised or ignored. What a torture is this! We do not eat, we do not sleep, we do not walk. Chained, with howling and gnashing of teeth, we look appalled at our ruined life, hating and suffering. Do you hear? We here drink hatred like water. Above all we hate God. With reluctance do I force myself to make you understand."

"The blessed in heaven must love God because they see Him without veil, in all His dazzling beauty. That makes their bliss indescribable. We know this and the knowledge makes us furious. Men on earth, who know God from nature and from revelation, can love Him, but they are not compelled to do so. The believer - I say this with gnashing of teeth - who contemplates Christ on the cross, with arms extended, will end by loving Him."

"But he whom God approaches only in the final storm, as punisher, as just avenger, because he was rejected by Him, such a person cannot but hate Him with all the strength of his wicked will. We died with willful resolve to be separated from God. Do you now understand why hell lasts forever! It is because our wills were fixed for eternity at the moment of death. We had made our final choice. Our obstinacy will never leave us. Under compulsion, I must add that God is merciful even towards us. I affirm many things against my will and must choke the torrent of abuses I should like to vomit out."

"God was merciful to us by not allowing our wicked wills to exhaust themselves on earth, as we should have been prepared to do. This would have increased our faults and our pains. He caused us to die before our time, as in my case, or had other mitigating circuмstances intervene. Now He shows Himself merciful towards us by not compelling a closer approach than that afforded in this remote inferno. Every step bringing us closer to God would cause us a greater pain than that which a step closer to a burning furnace would cause you."

"You were scared when once, during a walk, I told you that my father, a few days before my first Communion, had told me: 'My little Annette, the main thing is your beautiful white dress, all the rest is just make-believe.' Because of your concern, I was almost ashamed. Now I sneer at it."

"The important thing is that we were not allowed to receive Communion until the age of 12. By then I was already absorbed in worldly amusements and found it easy to set aside, without scruple, the things of religion. Thus, I attached no great importance to my first Communion. We are furious that many children go to Communion at the age of seven. We do all we can to make people believe that children have insufficient knowledge at that age. They must first commit some mortal sins. Then the white Particle will not do so much damage to our cause as when faith, hope, and charity - oh, these things! - received in Baptism, are still alive in their hearts."

"Marta K - and you induced me to enter "The Association of the Young Ladies." The games were amusing. As you know, I immediately took a directive part. I liked it. I also like the picnics. I even let myself be induced to go to confession and communion sometimes."

"Once you warned me, 'Anne, if you do not pray, you go to perdition.' I used to pray very little indeed, and even this unwillingly. You were then only too right. All those who burn in hell did not pray or did not pray enough."

"Prayer is the first step towards God. And it is the decisive step. Especially prayer to her who is the Mother of Christ, whose name we never pronounce. Devotion to her rescues from the devil numberless souls whom sin would infallibly give to him."

"I continue my story, consumed with rage and only because I have to. To pray is the easiest thing man can do on earth. And God has tied up the salvation of each one exactly to this very easy thing."

"To him who prays with perseverance little by little God gives so much light, so much strength, that even the most debased sinner will at the end come back to salvation. During the last years of my life I did not pray any more, so I lacked those graces without which nobody can be saved. Here we no longer receive graces. Moreover, should we receive them we would cynically refuse them. All the fluctuations of earthly existence have ceased in the other life. For years I was living far away from God. For, in the last call of grace I decided against God."

"I never believed in the influence of the devil. And now I affirm that he has strong influence on the persons who are in the condition in which I was then. Only many prayers, others and mine own, united with sacrifices and penances, could have snatched me from his grip. And even this only little by little. If there are only few externally obsessed, there are very many internally possessed. The devil cannot steal the free will from those who give themselves to his influence. But in punishment of their, so to speak, methodical apostasy from God, He allows the devil to nest in them."

"I hate the devil too. And yet I am pleased about him, because he tries to ruin all of you; he and his satellites, the fallen with him at the beginning of time. There are millions of them. They roam around the earth, as thick as a swarm of flies, and you do not even notice it. It is not reserved to us damned to tempt you; but to the fallen spirits. In truth every time they drag down here to hell a human soul their own torture is increased. But what does one not do for hatred?"

"Deep down I was rebelling against God. You did not understand it; you thought me still a Catholic. I wanted, in fact, to be called one; I even used to pay my ecclesiastical dues. Maybe your answers were right sometimes. On me they made no impression, since you must not be right. Because of these counterfeited relationships between the two of us, our separation on the occasion of my marriage was of no consequence to me. Before the wedding I went to confession and communion once more. It was a precept. My husband and I thought alike on this point. Why not comply with this formality? So we complied with this, as with the other formalities."

"Our married life, in general, was spent in great harmony. We were of the same idea in everything. In this too, that we did not want the burden of children. In truth, my husband would have like to have one; no more, of course. In the end I succeeded in dissuading him even from this desire. Dresses, luxurious furniture, places of entertainment, picnics and trips by car and similar things were more important for me... It was a year of pleasure on earth, the one that passed from my marriage to my sudden death. Internally, of course, I was never happy, although externally at ease. There was always something indeterminate inside that gnawed at me."

"Unexpectedly I had an inheritance from my Aunt, Lotte. My husband succeeded in increasing his wages to a considerable figure. And so I was able to furnish our new home in an attractive way. Religion did not show its light but from afar off, pale, feeble and uncertain."

"I used to give free vent to my ill humor about some mediaeval representations of hell in cemeteries or elsewhere, in which the devil is roasting souls in red burning coals, while his companions with long tails drag new victims to him. Clara! One can be mistaken in depicting hell, but never can one exaggerate."

"I tell you: the fire of which the Bible speaks, does not mean the torment of the conscience. Fire is fire! What He said: 'Away from Me, you accursed one, into eternal fire', is to be understood literally. Literally! How can the spirit be touched by material fire, you will ask. How can your soul suffer on earth when you put your finger on the flame? In fact the soul does not burn; and yet what torture all the individual feels!"

"Our greatest torture consists in the certain knowledge that we shall never see God. How can this torture us so much, since on earth we are so indifferent? As long as the knife lies on the table, it leaves you cold. You see how keen it is, but you do not feel it. Plunge the knife into the flesh and you will start screaming for pain. Now we feel the loss of God. The lost Catholics suffer more than those of other religions, because they, mostly, received and despised more graces and more light. He who knew more suffers more cruelly than he who knew less. He who sinned out of malice suffers more keenly than he who sinned out of weakness. But nobody suffers more than he deserves. Oh, if that were not true, I should have a motive to hate!"

"My death happened this way . . ."

"A week ago - I am speaking according to your reckoning, because according to pain, I could very well say that it is already ten years that I am burning in hell - a week ago, then, my husband and I, on a Sunday went on a picnic, the last one for me. The day was glorious. I felt very well. A sinister sense of pleasure that was with me all the day long, invaded me. When lo, suddenly, during the return, my husband was dazzled by a car that was coming full speed. He lost control."

"Jesus, used frequently by some people of German language - escaped from my lips with a shivering. Not as a prayer, but as a shout. A lacerating pain took hold of the whole of me. (In comparison with the present only a trifle). Then I lost consciousness. Strange! That morning this thought had come to me in an inexplicable way: 'You could go to Mass once more', It seemed like the last call of Love."

"Clear and resolute, my 'NO' cut off that train of thought. You will know already what happened after my death. The lot of my husband and that of my mother, what happened to my corpse and the proceedings of my funeral are known to me through some natural knowledge we have here. What happens on earth we know only obscurely. But we know what touches us closely. I see also where you are living."

"I myself awoke from the darkness suddenly, in the instant of my passing. I saw myself as flooded by a dazzling light. It was in the same place where my dead body was lying. It was like a theater, when suddenly the lights in the hall are put out, the curtains are rent aside and an unexpected scene, horrible illuminated, appears. The scene of my life."

"My soul showed herself to me as in a mirror; all the graces despised from my youth until my last NO to God. I felt myself like an assassin, to whom his dead victim is shown during his trial at court - Should I repent? Never! - Should I feel ashamed? Never!"

"However, I could not even stand before the eyes of God, rejected by me. There was only one thing for me: flight! As Cain fled from the dead body of Abel, so my soul rushed from the sight of horror."

"This was the particular judgment: the invisible Judge said: 'Away from Me'. Then my soul, as a yellow brimstone shadow, fell headlong into the place of eternal torture."
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That is an intersting story, but I never said that I didn't belive in eternal fire. I believe that, if Catholicism is the only tru religion, only a minority actually goes to eternal torment. Though I'm honestly starting to doubt Catholicism. Not completely though. Please pray for me. The horrid desolation has returned.  I'm about to sleep now though, so hopefully it will be forgotten as I sleep and I wake up not dying inside.  :pray: :pray: :pray:  :cry:
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 20, 2017, 04:23:01 PM
This is the OP again. I have found what might be 'solutions' to my problems. The first is the doctrine of apocatastasis. This was something that was believd by many in the early church. Basically it is the belief that, in the end, all things will be reconciled to God.  There will be punishment after death, maybe even a long punishment,  but it will be temporary. Pretty much a like the current view of purgatory. The second 'solution' is the belief in a spirit world. The way that spiritualists believe the after life to be. The afterlife/spirit world is a world similar to ours,  but free of anguish and sorrow. Apparently there are are lower and higher realms, and it is possible to fix yourself even after death,  contrary to the traditional Christian view that only on earth are you able to do good and do bad and that death is the end. The lower realms are for people who were bad on earth and it is possible for then to repent of their wrongs and ascend to higher levels. These options are just so much more consoling to me than the traditional Christian view of eternal fire for 99.89 %of humanity. Such thinking makes me hopless, to be honest. And anxious too. I'm honestly almost starting to doubt that Catholicism,  or even Christianity in general is the only true 'way.' What is it about Catholicism that makes it unique enough to prove that it is the only true faith? I know a lot if miracles have happened in Catholicism. I recently was reading about Andre Besette who was greatly devoted to St.Joseph. Thousands of miraculous healings were performed by him, though he always gave credit to St Josephs intercession. And this was quite recent, 1800s to 1900s. But still, there are miracles and supernatural events everywhere, in all faiths and beliefs. Ive heard of plenty of miraculous things happening in protestant churches. I'm so spiritually lost right now.  I still feel really empty and super sad and anxious,  but believing in everlasting torment for temporal actions would make me sadder! At least with these 2 options, there is ALWAYS hope. The main thing that bothers me,  like I stated above,  is the whole idea that people who suffer in earth will suffer more in the afterlife forever simply because they didn't get baptized or were ignorant of what they needed to know. I know of people who went through anguish and pain for decades until they passed away.  I don't want to believe that are not at rest and at peace now.  And I really doubt they were Christian. At most, they were a 'non practicing.' I feel so so so low right now and when I think of things like this it makes feel numb and sad. Too much empathy maybe? ? I dont care. Another thing that makes me doubt is the amount of Near Death Experiences that exist. Or the accounts of people who have actually died. That all mostly saw and experienced things totally contrary to traditional Christian afterlife view. 
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 20, 2017, 11:28:56 PM
This is the OP again. I have found what might be 'solutions' to my problems.

The doctrine of apocatastasis "was formally condemned in the first of the famous anathemas (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/01455e.htm) pronounced at the Council of Constantinople in 543: Ei tis ten teratode apokatastasis presbeuei anathema esto [See, also, JustinianLiber adversus Originem, anathemas 7 and 9.] The doctrine (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/05075b.htm) was thenceforth looked on as heterodox by the Church (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/03744a.htm)." http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/01599a.htm


There will be punishment after death, maybe even a long punishment,  but it will be temporary.

No, Mercy and Justice, That is false. Hell is eternal.
  
Daniel 12:2,3  Many of those who sleep in the dusty ground will awake – some to everlasting life, and others to shame and everlasting abhorrence.  But the wise will shine like the brightness of the heavenly expanse. And those bringing many to righteousness will be like the stars forever and ever. 
 
Matthew 25:41  “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you accursed, into the eternal fire that has been prepared for the devil and his angels!

The second 'solution' is the belief in a spirit world. The way that spiritualists believe the after life to be. The afterlife/spirit world is a world similar to ours, but free of anguish and sorrow. ...  contrary to the traditional Christian view ...

There are not two worlds. There is one and you'd better not be wrong about the real world. 

These options are just so much more consoling to me than the traditional Christian view of eternal fire for 99.89 %of humanity.

Are you seeking Truth or your own comfort and consolation?
 
St Paul wrote to the Corinthians: 1 - 2 : 6-10
Howbeit we speak wisdom among the perfect: yet not the wisdom of this world, neither of the princes of this world that come to nought; But we speak the wisdom of God in a mystery, a wisdom which is hidden, which God ordained before the world, unto our glory: Which none of the princes of this world knew; for if they had known it, they would never have crucified the Lord of glory. But, as it is written: That eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither hath it entered into the heart of man, what things God hath prepared for them that love him.  But to us God hath revealed them, by this Spirit. For the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.

How much comfort and consolation did Our Lord have as He hung on the cross for our sins? We are meant to follow in His footsteps and carry our cross whatever it be. There will neither be any consolation for you in spiritualism. These thoughts are from the evil one, so you must be a very important one for him to attack you in this way. 

1 Corinthians 10: [13] (http://www.drbo.org/x/d?b=drb&bk=53&ch=10&l=13#x) Let no temptation take hold on you, but such as is human. And God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that which you are able: but will make also with temptation issue, that you may be able to bear it. 

Such thinking makes me hopless, to be honest. And anxious too. I'm honestly almost starting to doubt that Catholicism,  or even Christianity in general is the only true 'way.' .... I'm so spiritually lost right now.  I still feel really empty and super sad and anxious,  but believing in everlasting torment for temporal actions would make me sadder!

M&J, I am praying for you in your distress, which must be tremendous. Do not give up hope. Do you have the consolation of being able to consult a good priest about your dilemma?




Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on March 21, 2017, 12:28:32 AM
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Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 27, 2017, 03:22:18 AM
The traditional idea of hell still seems totally overkill. Isn't punishment supposed to be to discipline you and eventually correct you? It makes more sense to see hell as that, a temporary punishment to fix you. Punishment for the sake of it isn't right. You don't send your child to timeout for no reason, you do it to teach him a lesson and fix him. God's mercy endures forever,  while His anger is limited.

"God is the savior of ALL men,  especially of believers." 1 Timothy 4 10

"In Christ, ALL will be made to live." 1Corinthians 15 22

"The last enemy to be destroyed will be death." 1 Cor 15 26 (How can death be destroyed if hell will be for ever?)

There a ton of verses that seem to support Christian universalism. Everywhere I see that Christ  is the Saviour of ALL men and the WHOLE WORLD. Not just a few men. And yes, I know that there are frequent references to eternal fire and whatnot; but I've read compelling evidence that shows how the greek word doesn't really mean eternal.  It just means an indefinite period of time. Many early Christians believed in Universalism, it seems:

http://www.tentmaker.org/Quotes/churchfathersquotes.htm

Also, a lot of these seem pretty hard to refute:


http://richardwaynegarganta.com/Bible%20Threatenings%20Explained.htm


I'm sorry, but it just seems to make more sense to believe that Christ truly is the Victor over death. The traditional view of salvation just makes God look like a failed Saviour. An accident.  It makes the cross seem like a frail and almost pathetic attempt. Like "awww, well at least you tried!" If ony 3 out of 3838298374748383829383838 people will go to heaven everyday...? I don't want to believe God is a failure or that the cross is useless!! But, again, the traditional view makes it seem so. At least in my confused view. Please enlighten me if you can.  


P.s. As for Apocosatasis being condemned:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/afkimel.wordpress.com/2015/05/18/apocatastasis-the-heresy-that-never-was-2/amp/

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Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 27, 2017, 04:16:39 AM
There also seems to be some confusion in traditional Catholic views of hell and heaven. In every Catechism you see, it says that hell is for mortal sinners. What is a mortal sinner? Such a person is someone who has fully, one-hundred percent understood the truth. The truth was deeply ingrained into his mind, heart and soul. Yet what did he do with that deeply drilled truth? He rejected it with spite and malice in his heart. That is a mortal sinner. I feel like there are two types of mortal sinners: Catholic and non Catholic.  A Catholic mortal sinner enters such a state when he does something that is only wrong for Catholics to do. Like skip Mass because you don't feel like going. A non Catholic,  who may barely know what mortal sin means, cannot be punished for not going to Mass or even failing at keeping Sunday holy. A well instructed Catholic, however, can be punished. Basically what I am trying to say is that the category of 'mortal sinner' is quite narrow. So not many people can roast on eternal flame for ever and ever in the first place. Also, according to traditional Catholic thought,  you need baptism to be saved. So millions upon millions upon millions of otherwise good people are and will burn forevermore because they didn't get baptized. Yet, they didn't explicitly choose to not get baptized. So how can such people burn for ever when they didn't explicitly choose evil over good? Makes NO sense. This is why, if hell is eternal, then hell mustn't be that bad. The majority of Hell simply must be a place of comfort and consolation.  Most people or souls in hell must be at peace. No sense of loss for many of these souls. And maybe there is even a 'second' purgatory! Where the souls destined to the resting places of hell have to be purged of faults before entering into that rest. Hell is an ordinary end for man, and beacause God's love amd mercy endures FOR EVER, and because He Himself says that He will not be angry for ever; then the ordinary end must be good. Heaven however is the EXTRAordinary end. The above and beyond. I will not be influenced by the unnecessarily rigid and downright mean opinions of Western Church fathers like St. Augustine. Where everyone must suffer. This holy man lived an extremely sinful lifestyle, so obviously he kind of exaggerated and went overboard when he disciverd the truth.   I think thay only that small minority of people who, again, had the truth deeeeeeeep in their hearts and souls and rejected it with explicit and graphic malice towards God and/or neighbor; or those who commit grave evils thay even non-Christians recognize as evil (like murder or rape) can actually burn in some eternal fire. It makes no sense to punish someone so cruelly for doing things they didn't even know were that bad. Like eating meat on Good Friday. Another thing to consider is that Scripture tells is that God's mercy endures FOREVER. In scripture, God punishes to teach a lesson. What lesson is there in eternal fire? There is no room for loving correction and discipline in there....

What do you all think? God is charity.

Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely, is not puffed up,
5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil:
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth with the truth:
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Stubborn on March 27, 2017, 04:34:39 AM
The traditional idea of hell still seems totally overkill. Isn't punishment supposed to be to discipline you and eventually correct you? It makes more sense to see hell as that, a temporary punishment to fix you. Punishment for the sake of it isn't right. You don't send your child to timeout for no reason, you do it to teach him a lesson and fix him. God's mercy endures forever,  while His anger is limited.
Here (https://www.cathinfo.com/the-library/so-high-the-price/msg484149/?topicseen#msg484149) is snip from this thread that's worth reading on the subject.

THE OPTIMISTS

The optimists object: “Can it be possible that God punishes a momentary sinful pleasure with an eternity of pain?”

It is not only possible, but it is right and just. The offense given by the sinner to God when he transgresses His holy laws involves infinite malice, since it is an offense to infinite Majesty. Therefore, it deserves an infinite punishment. But since man, being finite, is incapable of undergoing punishment that is infinite in intensity, God punishes him with a chastisement infinite in duration. In acting thus, God acts justly.

Consider my son, that if you go to hell, you will never leave it. There, every pain is suffered and suffered forever.

Even when a hundred years have gone by since you went to hell, or a thousand, hell will be just beginning. After a hundred thousand, a hundred million years, after millions of centuries, hell will still be just beginning.

If an angel were to bring news to the damned that God had decided to free them from hell when as many million centuries had passed as there are drops of water in the ocean, leaves on the trees and grains of sand on the earth - if the damned were to hear that, they would be immensely consoled.

"True", they would say, "many centuries must yet pass, but some day the time of our freedom will come." In reality, however, such vast stretches of time and more than we can possibly imagine, shall pass and find hell still only beginning.

Every soul damned in hell would be willing to make this agreement with God: "Lord, increase my suffering as much as You will; make me stay here in this place of torment as long as You will, but give me hope that someday You will free me."

But no, this hope, this end to suffering, shall never be.

At least if the poor soul of the damned could deceive himself and cheer himself up by thinking, "Who knows? Perhaps some day God will have pity on me and lift me out of this burning inferno."

No, not even that way is open to him, for he will forever see written before him the sentence of his wretched eternity.....
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on March 27, 2017, 05:45:33 AM
The traditional idea of hell still seems totally overkill. Isn't punishment supposed to be to discipline you and eventually correct you? It makes more sense to see hell as that, a temporary punishment to fix you. Punishment for the sake of it isn't right. You don't send your child to timeout for no reason, you do it to teach him a lesson and fix him. God's mercy endures forever,  while His anger is limited.
At 19 years of age you are still young and arrogant enough to think you know better than God himself. As Matthew said in Reply 4: The problem with the OP's reasoning is that he fails to consider that choosing oneself over God in any serious matter makes one "gravely evil". In other words, any mortal sin.

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Isn't punishment supposed to be to discipline you and eventually correct you? It makes more sense to see hell as that, a temporary punishment to fix you. Punishment for the sake of it isn't right. You don't send your child to timeout for no reason, you do it to teach him a lesson and fix him. God's mercy endures forever,  while His anger is limited. 
By the time you die, there is no more “fixing” for the one who dies in grave mortal sin; in other words he has renounced any right or desire to live with God in Eternal Life. Hell is eternal “timeout”, if you want to use that word, chosen by the unrepentant sinner himself. It is God’s Mercy and Justice that determines this. He gives the unrepentant sinner the thing he most desires – to escape from God’s presence.


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"God is the savior of ALL men,  especially of believers." 1 Timothy 4 10

"In Christ, ALL will be made to live." 1Corinthians 15 22

"The last enemy to be destroyed will be death." 1 Cor 15 26 (How can death be destroyed if hell will be for ever?)

The unrepentant sinners will live forever, just as the just will live forever. They will not live together though. They will be separated by a wide chasm – that between Heaven and Hell. 


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There a ton of verses that seem to support Christian universalism. Everywhere I see that Christ  is the Saviour of ALL men and the WHOLE WORLD. Not just a few men. And yes, I know that there are frequent references to eternal fire and whatnot; but I've read compelling evidence that shows how the greek word doesn't really mean eternal.  It just means an indefinite period of time. Many early Christians believed in Universalism, it seems:

http://www.tentmaker.org/Quotes/churchfathersquotes.htm

A ton of verses, but you have not quoted one! You are fooling yourself. That collection of quotes does not back up your claims. These people are quite devious, devilish; on the page where they ask for your money they say: *We are working on a Bible translation without Hell in it. Funding for this will determine how soon it goes out and the quality of the printing and binding. Please consider this project. It's very important.
In other words, they write their own Bible to suit their heresy.



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Also, a lot of these seem pretty hard to refute:
http://richardwaynegarganta.com/Bible%20Threatenings%20Explained.htm

I'm sorry, but it just seems to make more sense to believe that Christ truly is the Victor over death. The traditional view of salvation just makes God look like a failed Saviour. An accident.  It makes the cross seem like a frail and almost pathetic attempt. Like "awww, well at least you tried!" If ony 3 out of 3838298374748383829383838 people will go to heaven everyday...? I don't want to believe God is a failure or that the cross is useless!! But, again, the traditional view makes it seem so. At least in my confused view. Please enlighten me if you can.   

You do not need “to believe God is a failure or that the cross is useless!!”
What you need is to study and seek out the Catholic teaching. It is full of HOPE, if only you can come to comprehend it a little. But you will not find hope in any of that putrid muck you are allowing yourself to wallow in. As a woman old enough to be your grandmother I am giving you a little homely advice: Get the hell out of there!
First Epistle Of Saint Paul To The Corinthians Chapter 1 [18 (http://www.drbo.org/x/d?b=drb&bk=53&ch=1&l=18#x) - 25] (http://www.drbo.org/x/d?b=drb&bk=53&ch=1&l=25#x)
For the word of the cross, to them indeed that perish, is foolishness; but to them that are saved, that is, to us, it is the power of God.  For it is written: I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and the prudence of the prudent I will reject.  Where is the wise? Where is the scribe? Where is the disputer of this world? Hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world?
For seeing that in the wisdom of God the world, by wisdom, knew not God, it pleased God, by the foolishness of our preaching, to save them that believe.  For both the Jєωs require signs, and the Greeks seek after wisdom:  But we preach Christ crucified, unto the Jєωs indeed a stumblingblock, and unto the Gentiles foolishness:  But unto them that are called, both Jєωs and Greeks, Christ the power of God, and the wisdom of God.  For the foolishness of God is wiser than men; and the weakness of God is stronger than men.
 

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P.s. As for Apocosatasis being condemned:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/afkimel.wordpress.com/2015/05/18/apocatastasis-the-heresy-that-never-was-2/amp/
?? 
The links you present are unadulterated garbage – excuse the expression. The last one Eclectic Orthodoxy (https://afkimel.wordpress.com/) is a blogger who says of himself: "I'm a blogger, dammit, not a theologian!" It has no authority whatever.

Get yourself into some good Catholic literature, so that you may save your soul.  Just because you’re young doesn’t mean you have plenty of time before you too come before the Merciful Judge. Now is the time to set good patterns that will stay with you.

I am praying for you. How is your prayer life, by the way?

Sorry about the formatting. I haven't worked that out yet.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Ladislaus on March 27, 2017, 08:17:27 AM
The traditional idea of hell still seems totally overkill. Isn't punishment supposed to be to discipline you and eventually correct you? It makes more sense to see hell as that, a temporary punishment to fix you. Punishment for the sake of it isn't right. You don't send your child to timeout for no reason, you do it to teach him a lesson and fix him. God's mercy endures forever,  while His anger is limited.
Indeed, your propositions are heretical.

But, to answer from reason, hell is where people go who will not any longer be corrected.  Correction involves a cooperation on the part of the subject.  There are those who, in the end, will REFUSE to be corrected.  God uses LIFE as His attempt to correct any and all who will be corrected.  After that, hell is there choice.

You see, when one is judged, God does NOT say, "Well, I see that you want to go to heaven, but, sorry, you're going to hell instead."  Not at all.  By that time, it's effectively the SOUL who has made the decision to go to hell.  That soul does NOT WANT God, has chosen anything or everything BESIDES God.  Having thus chosen throughout his life, he is no longer even capable of saying, "Well, now I change my mind and choose God."  He has already made his choice.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 27, 2017, 05:38:14 PM
These bums should receive some sort of door prize for twisting and taking out of context the Church Fathers and scripture quotes.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 29, 2017, 12:55:54 AM
Bizarre, Truth and Mercy, Bizarre.  :o
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 29, 2017, 06:28:36 PM
The problem with the traditinal view of hell is that it assumes that everyone is either 100 percent evil or 100 percent  good. That is not the case. I don't think many people are 100 percent left or right. Eternal fire is for MORTAL sinners. That is, those who are actually wicked and evil all the way through. That is what Scripture says. How many people are mortal sinners?  Like I said above, the category seems somewhat  narrow, at least from my limited P.O.V.  Only those who willingly reject God and/or commit grave evils that even non Christians know is morally wrong,  can possibly suffer for eternity. 

  Scripture says God is not angry forever,  that He wills the salvation of ALL and that His mercy endures forever. Yet the Catholic Church declares EENS. Why then does God allow billions of people to remain ignorant of the 'only' way to happiness after death? Why wouldn't He give every single person a clear and concise path which to follow?  Then, the person  can choose FAIRLY which path to take. This seems to be a contradiction,  And it would have me believe that after death there is a chance for repentance and conversion. At least for those who never heard of the Truth, or never heard enough of it. That's only fair! EENS sometimes seems like a political tool. What better way to control people than to tell them that only you can lead to happiness after death,and that if they leave you than they will burn in eternal fire?? Also, why do so many Bibe translations corrupt the text and translate the words sheol, gehenna, and hades into 'hell?' Definitely seems like an agenda is being pushed here... Finally, I don't necessarily have to disbelieve in an eternal hellfire, but it goes against all common sense to say that most of humanity will end up there. Either God allows people to repent and convert after death and suffering is only temporary;  or hell is eternal and is mostly a 'paradise' as Christ told the good thief it was on the Cross. Only a smaller part of hell would be for eternal suffering, for those who were actually at fault and explicitly chose evil and had enough knowledge of the truth and what thay had to do.

P.s. I'm not officially disbelieving in any Catholic dogma...just questioning. No matter how much I doubt I always come crawling back, but this time the doubt has reached record heights. And I'll never become aatheist. I will always believe in the supernatural, paranormal, spirti world and afterlife, God, good and bad spirits, etc..

Another P.S. as you can all see, I'm not posting anonymously anymore. So maybe this thread could be moved somewhere more appropriate? 


"God has shut up all in unbelief, that He may have mercy on all" Rom 11:32

"I will draw all things to myself" St. John 12:32

"All mankind shall see the salvation of God" St. Luke 3:6

" for it has pleased God the father that in him all his fullness should dwell and that through him he should reconcile to himself all things whether on Earth or in the heavens making peace through the blood of his cross" Colossians 1:20
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 29, 2017, 07:19:42 PM
Let me tell you what St. Thomas Aquinas says regarding the OP.

If a person who is not in grace commits even a venial sin, the penalty is eternal torment, for God must punish sin, even venial sin, since it is actual sin willfully committed.

Now out of the trillions of people who have died, how many do you suppose have died in original sin and at LEAST venial sin?

There you go.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on March 29, 2017, 08:41:51 PM
The main reason people are going to hell is that they prefer to please themselves, rather than to please God.

So, Mercyandjustice, remember that when you try to make Hell a pleasant place in your mind. You are wanting to please yourself. 

It's not a buyer's market, where you get the hell of your choice. No one can design his own eternal punishment. He may chose it but it's not his to design. 

We just get what's coming to us, whether Heaven or Hell, but we have no say in the design.  No, hell is settled long ago and any of your wishful thinking will not make a skerrick of difference to the outcome. 

So buckle down and live the life of a Catholic, and stop toying with these three other options. As the saying goes, Don' t play with fire!
:heretic:
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on March 29, 2017, 09:37:41 PM
The main reason people are going to hell is that they prefer to please themselves, rather than to please God.

So, Mercyandjustice, remember that when you try to make Hell a pleasant place in your mind. You are wanting to please yourself.

It's not a buyer's market, where you get the hell of your choice. No one can design his own eternal punishment. He may chose it but it's not his to design.

We just get what's coming to us, whether Heaven or Hell, but we have no say in the design.  No, hell is settled long ago and any of your wishful thinking will not make a skerrick of difference to the outcome.

So buckle down and live the life of a Catholic, and stop toying with these three other options. As the saying goes, Don' t play with fire!
:heretic:
Only those  (like us) who have been sufficiently   preached to can displease God by preferring ourselves over him with malice in our hearts. Only we are liable to punishment. But what of those who don't know? You cannot be punished in such a manner for IGNORANCE. And I don't understand how thinking only a part of hell is reserved for fire is somehow bad or heretical. Christ Himself called hell, according to Catholicism, 'paradise' when He said to the good thief,  "Today you will be with me in paradise."
 Somebody will burn in eternal flames for doing something he didn't even know was wrong, or at least gravely evil? Really? Totally contradicts scripture and common sense. "God is NOT ANGRY FOREVER" "God wants ALL to be saved." "His mercy endures FOREVER." God is merciful forever until someone 'not in a state of grace' eats just a little too much ice cream after dinner. Then, he commits the SIN of gluttony and is damned to torment FOREVER!! Absolutely ridiculous.  Maybe these doctrines made sense hundreds of years ago when those who came up with these doctrines lived in societies where everyone either was under the Church's control or at least knew about what the Church taught. But now we see through a bigger lense. Billions are and were inculpably out of the Church. Inculpably didn't know/ don't know what God wants. There is no justice in punishing someone for doing stuff he didn't know was wrong in the first place. The doctrines and traditions of men can't change God's mercy. What a depressing world view. Imagine going outside for a walk. Pretty much all the faces you see are damned! For supposedly  "preferring" themselves over God. One who is ignorant cannot burn in eternal fire. Scripture says that the WICKED will burn. WI-CK-ED. Ayayay this is all just too much -_-. I wish the west was like the east in this aspect. The Eastern Christians have a more vague view of the afterlife. The west is too detailed and excessive in this point. I'll just believe God is merciful and just and wants the best for us. AS SCRIPTURE STATES. And I will believe that He will see what is best for our souls in the next life and that He will give it to us. That's it. Am I a heretic now?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Lighthouse on March 29, 2017, 11:01:25 PM
You're not at a crossroads, you're at a place of misapprehended choices and horrible consequences. All the difficulties you find necessary to throw in your own path to salvation are tattered old and answer subjects that each have a specific answer welded into place by the Church.

You think you have the ability to insert your own answer, and that's all it takes. These things are mostly settled theology. You need to get out of the basement and do some reading. You will get nowhere chasing around in your own head to find truth.

But it's even worse than you may think. One of the 6 sins against the Holy Spirit is "impugning the known truth".

Indeed, I pray that God has mercy on your soul.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on March 30, 2017, 05:16:57 AM
Only those  (like us) who have been sufficiently  preached to can displease God by preferring ourselves over him with malice in our hearts. ..
Why do you specify "malice". God  hates not only "malice"; He also hates indifference, selfishness, gluttony, luxury, and lukewarmness.
Apocalypse (Revelation) 3:16 (http://www.drbo.org/x/d?b=drb&bk=73&ch=3&l=16#x) But because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold, nor hot, I will begin to vomit thee out of my mouth.
You realise, don't you Mercyand justice, that you can go into the eternal fire, not only for those sins committed "with malice in our hearts", but for the things that we have omitted doing:
Matthew 24 [41 - 46] Then he shall say to them also that shall be on his left hand: Depart from me, you cursed, into everlasting fire which was prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry, and you gave me not to eat: I was thirsty, and you gave me not to drink. I was a stranger, and you took me not in: naked, and you covered me not: sick and in prison, and you did not visit me. Then they also shall answer him, saying: Lord, when did we see thee hungry, or thirsty, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister to thee? Then he shall answer them, saying: Amen I say to you, as long as you did it not to one of these least, neither did you do it to me. And these shall go into everlasting punishment: but the just, into life everlasting.

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...I will believe that He will see what is best for our souls in the next life and that He will give it to us. That's it.
Am I a heretic now?

 
Then why don't you simply trust God, without going against what He and His Holy Church teaches us?

I did not accuse you of being a heretic, although some of the things you are saying here are heretical. You say yourself that you could go any one of four ways and three of those ways will certainly lead you to hell. You seem to be a very confused young man, and the level of your culpability is for God to judge. 
I asked before, but you didn't answer me. You just keep going over the same ground and there is no breakthrough. 
But I am asking you again now. How is your prayer life? Do you pray the Rosary? 
Rejoice, O Virgin Mary, for thou alone have destroyed all heresies. Thou believed the word of the Archangel Gabriel. A virgin still, thou brought forth the God-man; thou bore a Child, O Virgin, and remained a Virgin still. Mother of God, intercede for us.
http://www.catholictradition.org/Mary/mary5.htm
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 30, 2017, 09:17:25 PM
bump
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Stubborn on March 31, 2017, 04:04:24 AM
bump
Bump for what?
The OP apparently chooses to reject what the the Church, Her saints, and Fathers - even what Christ Himself preached about hell, choosing instead to accept the liberals' idea that God, being the kindly old grandfather that He is, could not possibly condemn people who've transgressed His laws with an eternity of fire and pain.
No different than the way 99% of the world thinks.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on March 31, 2017, 11:18:45 AM
While it is true God wills the salvation of all in one sense, in another sense he does not.

Antecedently, before any consideration of anyone's actions, God does will all men to be saved.

But consequently, in light of his knowledge of the unrepentant sin of man, he chooses only to bring some to salvation and not all.

Those whom he had chosen from eternity to save are the elect.

Those he has chosen to allow to damn themselves are the reprobate.

All those who are saved are saved purely by the graciousness of God and all those who are damned are damned on account of their own sinfulness, having fixed their will on sin and refusing to turn away from it.

Now at the end of time, God wills to manifest his glory. Part of that means to manifest his justice and his mercy. His justice will be made manifest in most, for few are saved, and his mercy will be made manifest in the elect, for God owes no man heaven and all from conception deserve hell.

Read Romans 9.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 01, 2017, 06:12:38 PM
Why do you specify "malice". God  hates not only "malice"; He also hates indifference, selfishness, gluttony, luxury, and lukewarmness.
Apocalypse (Revelation) 3:16 (http://www.drbo.org/x/d?b=drb&bk=73&ch=3&l=16#x) But because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold, nor hot, I will begin to vomit thee out of my mouth.
You realise, don't you Mercyand justice, that you can go into the eternal fire, not only for those sins committed "with malice in our hearts", but for the things that we have omitted doing:
Matthew 24 [41 - 46] Then he shall say to them also that shall be on his left hand: Depart from me, you cursed, into everlasting fire which was prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry, and you gave me not to eat: I was thirsty, and you gave me not to drink. I was a stranger, and you took me not in: naked, and you covered me not: sick and in prison, and you did not visit me. Then they also shall answer him, saying: Lord, when did we see thee hungry, or thirsty, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister to thee? Then he shall answer them, saying: Amen I say to you, as long as you did it not to one of these least, neither did you do it to me. And these shall go into everlasting punishment: but the just, into life everlasting.



Then why don't you simply trust God, without going against what He and His Holy Church teaches us?

I did not accuse you of being a heretic, although some of the things you are saying here are heretical. You say yourself that you could go any one of four ways and three of those ways will certainly lead you to hell. You seem to be a very confused young man, and the level of your culpability is for God to judge.
I asked before, but you didn't answer me. You just keep going over the same ground and there is no breakthrough.
But I am asking you again now. How is your prayer life? Do you pray the Rosary?
Rejoice, O Virgin Mary, for thou alone have destroyed all heresies. Thou believed the word of the Archangel Gabriel. A virgin still, thou brought forth the God-man; thou bore a Child, O Virgin, and remained a Virgin still. Mother of God, intercede for us.
http://www.catholictradition.org/Mary/mary5.htm
Indifference,  selfishness,  etc is malice. Lukewarm people  are people who have had the truth sufficiently preached to them and who do nothing with that knowledge.  AKA, they (from our point of view) prefer themselves. Also, Jesus refers to those who refuse to feed, clothe and all that out of contempt for their neighbor. Not everyone can feed and clothe others. So there is still malice in their somewhere I guess. Also, I still need someone to tell me of my personal view (only some people who dont end up in heaven actually 'burn' and suffer in hell.)  hell would be heretical. I don't see how, since Jesus Himself tells us that comfort is possible in hell. I think the main issue here is the dogmatic view of the afterlife in western Christianity combined with my desire to know everything.  I know in the east it is more vague, which I like more sometimes. 
And my prayer life is fine. Some days I pray,  others I pray only at night. I don't pray the Rosary much and I find myself praying chaplets more. Especially the Chaplet of Mercy and Holy Wounds chaplet.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 02, 2017, 03:14:10 PM
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Philosophical questions about the existence of evil have been the bane of Christian thinkers for centuries. That’s because the objections that skeptics pose against our faith are unanswerable from a traditional standpoint.
Take the h0Ɩ0cαųst, for example. From the traditional perspective, Jєωιѕн people went through the nightmare of Auschwitz — with its gas ovens, starvation and torture — only to pass on to an infinitely worse fate when they finally died. Is this assertion part of a doctrine that we can possibly deem “the good news”?
Look at the agony in the world that encompasses us. For the universalist, it is a part of our soul-making process. We learn goodness through the things we suffer. When we pass into the final state of perfection, we will all say that it was worth the pain (however unlikely this may seem now). Paul wrote, “I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory about to be revealed to us.” (Rom. 8:18) Universalists hope for a day when all mankind will see life from that perspective.
The traditionalist cannot even hope for such a thing. For the overwhelming majority of humanity, throughout all ages, existence will offer no meaning. Multitudes will be born, live a life of acute suffering and then die — only to be dispatched to an existence of perpetual anguish.
Annihilationists advance their position here as a worthy alternative. But their hypothesis also fails to identify any purpose or meaning in the lives of millions. A nonchristian woman grows up in a poor Ethiopian village. She is ravaged with hunger. Loved ones all around her succuмb to pestilence and malnutrition. Finally, she dies. When Jesus returns from heaven, he raises her, then sets her ablaze. She is extinct forever. What was the point of her life? Nothing. It was tragically absurd and meaningless.
Thought provoking insight from a universalist website. This is how I feel a lot of times.  How would a traditionalist answer the problem of pain?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 02, 2017, 03:35:42 PM
These things Jesus spoke; and raising His eyes to heaven, he said, "Father, the hour has come! Glorify Thy Son, that Thy Son may glorify Thee, even as Thou hast given Him power over all flesh, in order that to all Thou hast given Him He may give everlasting life, that they may know Thee, the only True God, and Him whom Thou hast sent, Jesus Christ. ---St John 17:1-4

Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 02, 2017, 03:43:27 PM
Thought provoking insight from a universalist website. This is how I feel a lot of times.  How would a traditionalist answer the problem of pain?
Our lives are meant to manifest God's glory for his own sake. For the damned they show forth the glory of his justice, for the saved they show forth the glory of his mercy, so that every life in every fate and every condition is oriented to the glory of God, whether they like it or not.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on April 02, 2017, 04:16:47 PM
Take the h0Ɩ0cαųst, for example. From the traditional perspective, Jєωιѕн people went through the nightmare of Auschwitz — with its gas ovens, starvation and torture — only to pass on to an infinitely worse fate when they finally died. Is this assertion part of a doctrine that we can possibly deem “the good news”?

Ah! Do you not know that Jєωιѕн people have ample proof and opportunity to accept Jesus as the Messiah and Saviour, but they refuse? They reject Him. You cannot blame their rejection of Jesus Christ on ignorance. 

So you persist in imbibing heretical nonsense from these people who have no understanding of the Church and what She teaches.

I notice that you changed your signature because instead of four possible ways you have added another 5th way, i.e. The Eastern Christians have a more vague view of the afterlife. 

You have replaced it with a falsehood: Pain is never permanent. Strange! Hell is pain and hell is permanent. Therefore pain can be permanent

I cannot answer other issues right now and if no one else does I may get back to it later if I have the time.

Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: shin on April 02, 2017, 04:38:08 PM
'Venial sin becomes mortal sin when one approves it as an end. . .'

St. Thomas Aquinas

'There is a sin which is always "unto death" (1 John 5:16): the sin for which we do not repent. For this sin even a saint's prayers will not be heard.'

St. Mark the Ascetic

'St. Augustine and St. Thomas define mortal sin to be a turning away from God: that is, the turning of one's back upon God, leaving the Creator for the sake of the creature.

What punishment would that subject deserve who, while his king was giving him a command, contemptuously turned his back upon him to go and transgress his orders? This is what the sinner does; and this is punished in hell with the pain of loss, that is, the loss of God, a punishment richly deserved by him who in this life turns his back upon his sovereign good.'

St. Alphonsus Maria de Liguori

'This I say, because God showed me somewhat of his truth, in order that I might know what man is without him; that is, when the soul is found in mortal sin, at that time, it is so monstrous and horrible to behold, that it is impossible to imagine anything equally so.'

St. Catherine of Genoa

'Without sanctifying grace it is not possible to refrain long from mortal sin.'

St. Thomas Aquinas

Yes, dear reader, before your Baptism you were a member of Satan, and now you are a member of Jesus Christ; you were a child of the devil, and now you are the child of God; you were a base associate of Satan, and you have become the sacred spouse of the Holy Ghost; you were the inheritor of the pains of hell, and now you are the heir of heaven; you were separated from your God, and you are united to him in most intimate union. Behold what you are, if you have still preserved the grace of your Baptism.

But, alas! if you have lost it through mortal sin, the holy union which you contracted with God is broken.'

St. Jean Eudes

'I repeat it; all works, without the help of grace are dead, being produced by the creature only; but grace aids all works performed by those who are not in mortal sin, and makes them worthy of heaven; not those which are ours solely, but those in which grace cooperates.'

St. Catherine of Genoa

- Some quotes for reflection on mortal sin. (http://saintsquotes.net/Selection%20-%20Mortal%20Sin.html)

To go to Heaven we have to live a supernatural life, not a natural life. It's not simply a matter of being bad enough to go to Hell, it's a matter of being good enough to go to Heaven. Nature cannot rise above nature. All the works of people on a natural level are at that same fallen level.

Some people only have faith on a natural level, the same for hope, the same for charity. But all three are required on a supernatural level, that level that shows union with Christ. Faith is precious.

'Human language cannot express the beauty of a soul which dies in a state of grace.'

St. Philip Neri
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 02, 2017, 04:46:46 PM

Quote
Our lives are meant to manifest God's glory for his own sake. For the damned they show forth the glory of his justice, for the saved they show forth the glory of his mercy, so that every life in every fate and every condition is oriented to the glory of God, whether they like it or not.

Yes, there are things that are more valuable than pain. God's gifts, life itself..
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 02, 2017, 05:57:15 PM
Take the h0Ɩ0cαųst, for example. From the traditional perspective, Jєωιѕн people went through the nightmare of Auschwitz — with its gas ovens, starvation and torture — only to pass on to an infinitely worse fate when they finally died. Is this assertion part of a doctrine that we can possibly deem “the good news”?

Ah! Do you not know that Jєωιѕн people have ample proof and opportunity to accept Jesus as the Messiah and Saviour, but they refuse? They reject Him. You cannot blame their rejection of Jesus Christ on ignorance.

So you persist in imbibing heretical nonsense from these people who have no understanding of the Church and what She teaches.

I notice that you changed your signature because instead of four possible ways you have added another 5th way, i.e. The Eastern Christians have a more vague view of the afterlife.

You have replaced it with a falsehood: Pain is never permanent. Strange! Hell is pain and hell is permanent. Therefore pain can be permanent

I cannot answer other issues right now and if no one else does I may get back to it later if I have the time.
But it is definitely possible that at least some were inculpably ignorant of Christ and therefore  "rejected" Him. When I think of "rejection" I think of pushing something or someone away maliciously. If a Jєωιѕн person is born and raised in a Jєωιѕн home, and knows next to nothing of Christ and His message, then how could he be grievously punished? That seems totally unfair. The problem with the traditional view, at least from my P.O.V., of hell and heaven is that it fails to take into account just how varied this world is. The theologuans and saints of the past lived in societies where everyone was under the Church's control. So this mentality of only two possible categories, totally good and totally bad, made sense to them. But now in this age of information, now that we see how different every single person is; it seems that not everyone is totally wicked and totally righteous. Not everyone is on the extreme north and south pole. There is an entire world in between, with differing amounts of goodness and badness. Everyones experiences, sins, good deeds vary much in culpability, malice, etc. That is not to say that the traditional view is necessarily wrong, but rather that there are many things about the afterlife and God's judgments that we know nothing of.  And the whole thing about works without sanctifying grace. That may be true, but why does having no grace suddenly mean everlasting fire? What if the person is inculpably without grace? I can understand that heaven is the extraordinary end of man, but again, why does the ordinary end (hell) have to be so dreadful? Why cant a portion, or even most of hell be a paradise, like Christ said on the cross? I can understand it being dreadful for the truly wicked, for those in mortal sin. But how many who dont make it to heaven are truly wicked? How many are in mortal sin? I don't know. But millions, probably hundreds of millions, BILLIONS have died/will die ignorant of Christ and His message. Not because they were preached to of it and said "No, I don't want it, it is useless." But simply because they never received a chance. Even people born here, in the U.S.! Or any other modern nation! Why can't those who never received a chance be preached to in the afterlife? And why can't only a portion of the place called "hell" be full of eternal suffering for those who are truly 100 percent wicked? One has to be 100 percent perfect to enter the glories of heaven. Therefore it only makes sense that ONLY  those who are 100 percent truly wicked can suffer any sort of eternal fire in a certain area of hell. If Universal Restoration isn't a thing, that is.

And the quote is apparently from St. Teresa of Avila.


"We all die, and like waters that return no more, we fall down into the Earth: neither will God have a soul to perish, but recalleth, meaning that he that is cast off should not altogether perish-- 2 Kings (2 Samuel) 14:14

Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 02, 2017, 11:10:25 PM
But it is definitely possible that at least some were inculpably ignorant of Christ and therefore  "rejected" Him. When I think of "rejection" I think of pushing something or someone away maliciously. If a Jєωιѕн person is born and raised in a Jєωιѕн home, and knows next to nothing of Christ and His message, then how could he be grievously punished? That seems totally unfair. The problem with the traditional view, at least from my P.O.V., of hell and heaven is that it fails to take into account just how varied this world is. The theologuans and saints of the past lived in societies where everyone was under the Church's control. So this mentality of only two possible categories, totally good and totally bad, made sense to them. But now in this age of information, now that we see how different every single person is; it seems that not everyone is totally wicked and totally righteous. Not everyone is on the extreme north and south pole. There is an entire world in between, with differing amounts of goodness and badness. Everyones experiences, sins, good deeds vary much in culpability, malice, etc. That is not to say that the traditional view is necessarily wrong, but rather that there are many things about the afterlife and God's judgments that we know nothing of.  And the whole thing about works without sanctifying grace. That may be true, but why does having no grace suddenly mean everlasting fire? What if the person is inculpably without grace? I can understand that heaven is the extraordinary end of man, but again, why does the ordinary end (hell) have to be so dreadful? Why cant a portion, or even most of hell be a paradise, like Christ said on the cross? I can understand it being dreadful for the truly wicked, for those in mortal sin. But how many who dont make it to heaven are truly wicked? How many are in mortal sin? I don't know. But millions, probably hundreds of millions, BILLIONS have died/will die ignorant of Christ and His message. Not because they were preached to of it and said "No, I don't want it, it is useless." But simply because they never received a chance. Even people born here, in the U.S.! Or any other modern nation! Why can't those who never received a chance be preached to in the afterlife? And why can't only a portion of the place called "hell" be full of eternal suffering for those who are truly 100 percent wicked? One has to be 100 percent perfect to enter the glories of heaven. Therefore it only makes sense that ONLY  those who are 100 percent truly wicked can suffer any sort of eternal fire in a certain area of hell. If Universal Restoration isn't a thing, that is.

And the quote is apparently from St. Teresa of Avila.


"We all die, and like waters that return no more, we fall down into the Earth: neither will God have a soul to perish, but recalleth, meaning that he that is cast off should not altogether perish-- 2 Kings (2 Samuel) 14:14
You ought to go ahead and read these 2 articles from the pre-Vatican II Catholic Encyclopedia:
HELL (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/07207a.htm)
CONSCIENCE (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/04268a.htm)
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 02, 2017, 11:13:41 PM
Those 2 articles will answer all your questions.

But be honest and read it all.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 02, 2017, 11:55:32 PM
OP,

Isn't it ironic that, here you are, complaining on behalf of all those people who don't know the truth and (so you think, erroneously) will be condemned on that score and yet, YOU have the truth staring right at you in the face, and yet you still REJECT it? How do you explain that? In which case, "For it had been better for them not to have known the way of justice, than after they have known it, to turn back from that holy commandment which was delivered to them." -2 Peter 2:21

You have stated many untrue things. The Church has never taught that people will be damned for being truly invincibly ignorant about Our Lord Jesus Christ. And you also forget that God has written His law on the hearts of every single person, and even if they are utterly ignorant natives in faraway lands with no contact with the world, they still have a conscience, and they can still either reject or obey God's law, and if they choose to obey, God will give them further graces to come to the truth and be saved. If they reject it they will be condemned and it will not be due to their not knowing about Our Lord but because they chose to commit some other sin.

And where did you get the idea that the Church teaches that either people are 100% good or bad? I've never heard such a thing. You really ought to read a moral theology book to find out just how many degrees of evil/sin there are, and how many distinctions and excusing causes there are. Most of what you say is just outright false.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Disputaciones on April 02, 2017, 11:58:22 PM
Surprise, surprise -- GLSector doesn't belong here!

Who'da thunk it?

A lot of people, I'm sure...

Needless to say, GLSector has been banned for insolence.

He is a sad example of a person damaged and brainwashed by the modern world, with all its errors. He has a very slim chance of saving his soul. I was hoping to keep him around so he would learn something about Tradition -- I figured it would be for his own good. But I think he's contaminated CathInfo enough. May God have mercy on him.

Which post was his? Did you delete it? I don't recall reading anything that sounded like it was from him.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 12:08:59 AM
And if our gospel be also hid, it is hid to them that are lost, In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of unbelievers, that the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God, should not shine unto them. -2 Corinthians 4:3
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 12:15:57 AM
It's very very simple- those who want the truth find it. Those who die without it never wanted it and their ignorance is punishment for unrepentant mortal sins.

There is no one whom God will refuse who truly desires him. He reveals his Son to the ones who desire him.

But to those who remain in willful sin, he does not. Therefore do not unreasonably pity the invincibly ignorant, they will all get exactly what they deserve. And those who seek, they find Christ, they leave this life as repentant Christians. 

But you see that is the whole reason God says to the damned, "I never knew you." Either because they never really sought him or abandoned him.

No one in Hell is there frustrated that they didn't get a chance to know Christ. Everyone there realizes they truly rejected their opportunity.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 04:06:47 AM
Which post was his? Did you delete it? I don't recall reading anything that sounded like it was from him.
Yes, Matthew deleted the offending entry very shortly after it was posted and immediately banned him.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 03, 2017, 08:52:19 AM
OP,

Isn't it ironic that, here you are, complaining on behalf of all those people who don't know the truth and (so you think, erroneously) will be condemned on that score and yet, YOU have the truth staring right at you in the face, and yet you still REJECT it? How do you explain that? In which case, "For it had been better for them not to have known the way of justice, than after they have known it, to turn back from that holy commandment which was delivered to them." -2 Peter 2:21

You have stated many untrue things. The Church has never taught that people will be damned for being truly invincibly ignorant about Our Lord Jesus Christ. And you also forget that God has written His law on the hearts of every single person, and even if they are utterly ignorant natives in faraway lands with no contact with the world, they still have a conscience, and they can still either reject or obey God's law, and if they choose to obey, God will give them further graces to come to the truth and be saved. If they reject it they will be condemned and it will not be due to their not knowing about Our Lord but because they chose to commit some other sin.

And where did you get the idea that the Church teaches that either people are 100% good or bad? I've never heard such a thing. You really ought to read a moral theology book to find out just how many degrees of evil/sin there are, and how many distinctions and excusing causes there are. Most of what you say is just outright false.
I have read in Catholic websites that purgatory exists in order to make you perfectly "clean." These websites usually pull out a quote from scripture, I think from the book of the Apocalypse. "Nothing unclean can enter heaven." Or something like that. If people aren't totally perfect and can still enter heaven,  then why does purgatory exist? Purgatory should purge you so that you may become 100 percent clean and therefore be worthy of heaven, no?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 09:12:57 AM
I have read in Catholic websites that purgatory exists in order to make you perfectly "clean." These websites usually pull out a quote from scripture, I think from the book of the Apocalypse. "Nothing unclean can enter heaven." Or something like that. If people aren't totally perfect and can still enter heaven,  then why does purgatory exist? Purgatory should purge you so that you may become 100 percent clean and therefore be worthy of heaven, no?
Yes, that's what purgatory is, so you're contradicting yourself.

And how about you answer the post you quoted?
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Mercyandjustice on April 03, 2017, 09:49:36 AM
Yes, that's what purgatory is, so you're contradicting yourself.

And how about you answer the post you quoted?
How am I contradicting myself? The Church teaches that one must be TOTALly perfect to enter heaven. So that means that right now there are 100 percent good people in heaven. Therefore it only makes sense that one must be TOTALly imperfect, wicked, to enter hell. And we know from scripture and tradition that hell can be good, even to be described as a paradise. Therefore only a part of hell can be fire and suffering forever, because the totally wicked can't enjoy anything, right? And yeah sure, let's go with the idea that if ignorant people followed their consciences then they would end up in heaven. Even then, I highly doubt the Father of mercy and God of all comfort would hold too much against them. Jesus tells us that the ignorant servant wouldn't be punished as much as the non ignorant. The punishment for the ignorant, in the traditional view, would be an etrnal loss of heaven. And even then, I don't see why God wouldn't be able to allow such people to remain 'blissfully ignorant' of what they've lost. You know, cuz He loves us. Honesty,  the whole idea of sufficient grace seems contradictory. Catholicism says we are born evil, pretty much. We are born concupiscient, hearts aimed towards evil, etc etc. How could a person naturally reach salvation? Isn't that 'pelagianism'? Doesn't traditional catholicism say that salvation is purely of God and His grace,  and not at all by our own efforts? If so, how does following a natural law gain us a supernatural end? Also, the sufficent grace theory, to me, is like throwing a plastic bag to someone drowning in a pool. If they drown, it is their fault for not utilizing something so (seemingly) small and insignificant in thier tumultuous situation. I don't understand the traditional Christian desire to see everyone burn and suffer. Even children. I remember reading through the Glories of Mary by Alphonsus and seeing a story (MYTH) where a 5 year old went to suffer in hell. LOL! I'm only laughing at how overkill and ridiculous this example is. 
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 10:23:15 AM
How am I contradicting myself?

I was referring to this: "If people aren't totally perfect and can still enter heaven,  then why does purgatory exist? Purgatory should purge you so that you may become 100 percent clean and therefore be worthy of heaven, no?"

The first sentence is false, because obviously nothing imperfect enters Heaven, which is what you say in the second sentence, so you contradict yourself here by answering your own question. 

Therefore it only makes sense that one must be TOTALly imperfect, wicked, to enter hell.

As it has been pointed out to you already, one mortal sin is of infinite malice and wickedness, although there is a hierarchy of evil of course. Blasphemy is regarded as the worst sin of all, but that doesn't make fornication not a mortal sin anymore does it?

And we know from scripture and tradition that hell can be good, even to be described as a paradise.
 
You should go read some pre-V2 Bible commentaries again. Abraham's Bosom was not the Hell of the damned, so no, Hell cannot be good or a paradise.

The punishment for the ignorant, in the traditional view, would be an etrnal loss of heaven.

This is assuming anyone who is ignorant cannot ever make it or come to the truth, but we know that is false, so your objections are baseless.
 
And even then, I don't see why God wouldn't be able to allow such people to remain 'blissfully ignorant' of what they've lost. You know, cuz He loves us.
 
Well this is what the limbo of the children is, don't you know?

Honesty,  the whole idea of sufficient grace seems contradictory. Catholicism says we are born evil, pretty much. We are born concupiscient, hearts aimed towards evil, etc etc. How could a person naturally reach salvation? Isn't that 'pelagianism'? Doesn't traditional catholicism say that salvation is purely of God and His grace,  and not at all by our own efforts? If so, how does following a natural law gain us a supernatural end?
 
That's not what I said, I said that if they follow the natural law, God will further help them and bestow supernatural faith on them and make them come to the truth. I said this because you were complaining that all the ignorant don't have a chance and they suffer so much here and will suffer even more in Hell etc.

Also, the sufficent grace theory, to me, is like throwing a plastic bag to someone drowning in a pool. If they drown, it is their fault for not utilizing something so (seemingly) small and insignificant in thier tumultuous situation.
 
You don't even understand most of anything you claim to be "wrong" and you're simply throwing out typical modern liberal objections filled with ignorance, so you better be quiet and go and lear something.
 
I don't understand the traditional Christian desire to see everyone burn and suffer. Even children. I remember reading through the Glories of Mary by Alphonsus and seeing a story (MYTH) where a 5 year old went to suffer in hell. LOL! I'm only laughing at how overkill and ridiculous this example is. 

It's not a desire, it's how things are, and yes, the 5 year old boy story is true.

Again, here you are, with truth staring you in the face, and all you do is scoff and complain about this and that, while complaining about people who "don't know." 

You're a perfect example of why people go to Hell. Keep on laughing.

Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 11:52:39 AM
God is merciful forever until someone 'not in a state of grace' eats just a little too much ice cream after dinner. Then, he commits the SIN of gluttony and is damned to torment FOREVER!! Absolutely ridiculous. 
You're right, that IS ridiculous, because that would not be a mortal sin.
Gluttony is in general a venial sin (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/14004b.htm) in so far forth as it is an undue indulgence in a thing which is in itself neither good nor bad. Of course it is obvious that a different estimate would have to be given of one so wedded to the pleasures of the table as to absolutely and without qualification live merely to eat and drink, so minded as to be of the number of those, described by the Apostle St. Paul (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/11567b.htm), "whose god is their belly" (Philippians 3:19 (http://www.newadvent.org/bible/phi003.htm#vrs19)). Such a one would be guilty of mortal sin (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/14004b.htm). Likewise a person (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/11726a.htm) who, by excesses in eating and drinking, would have greatly impaired his health, or unfitted himself for duties (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/05215a.htm) for the performance of which he has a grave obligation (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/11189a.htm), would be justly chargeable with mortal sin (http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/14004b.htm).
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Nadir on April 03, 2017, 05:39:34 PM

The seven deadly sins are as follows:
1)Sloth
2)Envy
3)Covetousness
4)Vainglory or pride
5)Gluttony
6)Lust
7)Anger.
Title: Re: Is it wrong to believe this about hell?
Post by: Änσnymσus on April 03, 2017, 10:42:19 PM
God is not merciful unconditionally. He very much attaches conditions, but if you meet them he will always be merciful-

Condition 1-

Repent.

Mercy is for the contrite, and justice for everyone else.