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Änσnymσus

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Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
« on: December 10, 2015, 02:15:16 PM »
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  • Just wondering.  

    I don't mean anything indecent, just something like decent ballroom dancing.  Maybe even just at home.


    Offline JezusDeKoning

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #1 on: December 10, 2015, 02:20:22 PM »
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  • We are not Jansenists. So, yes.
    Remember O most gracious Virgin Mary...


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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #2 on: December 10, 2015, 03:47:02 PM »
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  • Quote from: JezusDeKoning
    We are not Jansenists. So, yes.


    We're not Puritans, either!  Dance away!

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #3 on: December 10, 2015, 05:44:11 PM »
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  • No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #4 on: December 10, 2015, 05:50:08 PM »
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    No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.


     :laugh2:
    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. (Matthew 24:24)


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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #5 on: December 11, 2015, 08:09:37 AM »
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    No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.


     :roll-laugh2:OP here.  Given I'm a woman, that doesn't sound like it would work too well!

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #6 on: December 11, 2015, 08:34:20 AM »
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    No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.


     :roll-laugh2:OP here.  Given I'm a woman, that doesn't sound like it would work too well!


    In that case, I don't think my wife would be too please either.  

    But, seriously, the Church does not forbid dancing.  Traditionally, there have always been times when dancing has been completely acceptable, even in Catholic countries.  The Church did not condemn such activities unless the activities were occasions of sin.  Dancing could be sinful if not properly supervised in the case of unmarried people.  Most "modern" dance is probably sinful.

    But a husband and wife dancing together?  I cannot see a problem.

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #7 on: December 12, 2015, 10:15:57 AM »
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  • next question will probably be can i have relations with my wife..........................................................



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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #8 on: December 12, 2015, 11:57:33 AM »
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    No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.


    I like this answer. "Ask a stupid question, get a stupid (or smart aleck) answer."

    Therefore this answer was perfect.

    I disagree that "there are no dumb questions".

    Is there that much ignorance out there? People confusing Traditional Catholicism with the Old Catholics, Amish, puritans, Mormons? What's next, confusing us with the Muslims?

    I guess truth is one and error is many. 2+2=4, but the number of wrong answers for 2+2 is infinite.

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #9 on: December 12, 2015, 04:54:57 PM »
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    Offline Viva Cristo Rey

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #10 on: December 12, 2015, 04:59:23 PM »
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  • Just no liturgical dancing  :roll-laugh1:
    May God bless you and keep you


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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #11 on: December 14, 2015, 08:59:51 AM »
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    No.  It is not ok for you to dance with my wife.


    I like this answer. "Ask a stupid question, get a stupid (or smart aleck) answer."

    Therefore this answer was perfect.

    I disagree that "there are no dumb questions".

    Is there that much ignorance out there? People confusing Traditional Catholicism with the Old Catholics, Amish, puritans, Mormons? What's next, confusing us with the Muslims?

    I guess truth is one and error is many. 2+2=4, but the number of wrong answers for 2+2 is infinite.


    Maybe it was a dumb question, but it was asked with a good motive- to avoid behaviour that offends God.  Not everyone has had a solid Catholic upbringing and I think it's rather obvious that many trads do have a puritanical streak.  And there are many people that pull out quotes from the Church fathers, the Cure of Ars, etc. condemning dancing.  So I don't think it was actually an unreasonable question.  

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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #12 on: December 14, 2015, 09:56:22 AM »
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  • There are different types of dancing and even music.  

    Jesus and Mary attended weddings and probably took part in dances that include everyone holding hands and dancing in a circle.  

    Our ancestors loved to dance jigs, polkas, waltzes and square dance.

    50's, 60, 70 80 were bad enough.  

    The 2000 and 90 the dancing and music is even more pornographic.









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    Is it OK to dance with your spouse?
    « Reply #13 on: December 19, 2015, 12:06:05 AM »
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  • Why not dance with your spouse?