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Änσnymσus

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Immodest outfits
« on: November 16, 2025, 08:11:06 PM »
Sometimes the younger girls at my chapel dress in a manner that is frankly too revealing. I don't need to see a young woman in tight clothing in the house of God.

Should I tell them off? Should I talk to the parents about it? 

It's quite a distraction and it can be scandalous. Plus I don't think our Lord and Lady would approve of their outfits.
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Offline Giovanni Berto

Re: Immodest outfits
« Reply #1 on: November 16, 2025, 08:21:36 PM »
You should tell the priest. Never go to the woman directly.
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Offline AMDG forever

Re: Immodest outfits
« Reply #2 on: November 16, 2025, 08:47:50 PM »
Quote from: Änσnymσus on November 16, 2025, 08:11:06 PM
Sometimes the younger girls at my chapel dress in a manner that is frankly too revealing. I don't need to see a young woman in tight clothing in the house of God.

Should I tell them off? Should I talk to the parents about it?

It's quite a distraction and it can be scandalous. Plus I don't think our Lord and Lady would approve of their outfits.
Hey, no offense to you but how tight or revealing are the clothes? Some people are overly sensitive to that stuff.
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Änσnymσus

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Re: Immodest outfits
« Reply #3 on: November 16, 2025, 09:07:32 PM »
Quote from: Giovanni Berto on November 16, 2025, 08:21:36 PM
You should tell the priest. Never go to the woman directly.
This is bad advice.  It's not the priest's job to be fashion police.

Public shaming should come back.  It's the only thing that works on women.  You see a women dressed inappropriately, you say something like "Wow, didn't know you could dress like that a church."  

It's not about being mean, it's about correcting bad behavior.  It works.  That's how society used to operate.
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Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Immodest outfits
« Reply #4 on: November 16, 2025, 09:10:40 PM »
Correct advice is in fact to tell the priest, and if the priest does nothing, that's on him.  You are not in charge of the chapel or responsible for how people dress or behave.  You are responsible only for yourself.  If the priest does nothing, you can go to the priest's superior (if he has one).  If it's an occasion of sin for you, then you should go somewhere else.
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