The OP sounds lonely. He may think finding the right woman will solve his problem, which it will not. He needs men friends. No woman is going to trust a man who does not have friends who are men. Hanging around with other men may help him adjust so he does not appear whiny to others.

Alternatively, trad clerics (+Sanborn included) should not refuse the Sacraments to those faithful who do not submit to their opinions

Priests have a conscience and have to handle things the best way they know how. Study the issue, perhaps you will agree with whatever it is. If not, life is tough, comply if you want the Sacraments. Offer it up. Consider it a penance. It's worth it.

Yes, it is definitively denigration. He doesn't claim to be pope, he doesn't do anything a pope does. He doesn't claim ordinary jurisdiction. People just denigrate him because they don't like some decisions he has made. Mistaken conclusions don't warrant denigration. The mature Catholic will say he is mistaken, and show why.

Anon #1 and Anon #2 want to complain about their circuмstances and feel justified in their indignation, not take good spiritual advice from older more seasoned men.

That’s the jist of it. They will only entertain those that agree with them.

This is directionally correct but ignores the very real hatred and contempt boomer men have for their sons and their sick fascination with bending over backwards for their daughters. 

All boomers regardless of political belief are simps. They will do anything for their daughters, bail them out of any bad situation, while leaving their sons to twist in the wind. A while back, a guy posted on here about how he justifiably felt a little resentment when he offered to buy his dad's car off him and was told no only for the dad to outright give it to the guy's sister when she could afford to buy her own car. Every millennial guy and tons of zoomers, the ones with sisters, have stories of our parents screwing us over like this to some degree. Some creep replied to OP to the effect of "your dad was right to screw you over, and in fact, I'm going to personally pay my daughter's rent so she doesn't have to marry some dirtbag for money" (what is this, 1750?). I'm convinced that if infanticide were legal, a significant number of boomers would have left their infant sons exposed on a hilltop. 

Boomers have a bizarre two-tier mentality where their sons are expected to scrape and fight for everything with no help whatsoever, a cartoonish interpretation of trad masculinity, while they encourage their daughters to be progressive, aim for the stars, and give them everything they can to help. DEI played perfectly on the boomer's character defects because it allowed them justification for something they'd already been doing. 

Another example: I once worked at a tech startup run by a boomer. He hired a Filipina administrative assistant and treated her like a daughter, at one point buying her a Mercedes on the company dime. She totaled it a week later because she was that bad of an alcoholic. She was also later discovered to have embezzled a quarter of a million from the company. 

The recent trend of Zillow crack shack slop posting is the final degeneration of the boomer's obsession with protecting his daughters and eating his sons. "Man up" style shaming language is used to browbeat young white men into accepting third class status. "Lower your expectations, white man. Move to Shitstain, Iowa, work at Hy-Vee, and live in a former meth lab. You don't deserve to have dreams or ambitions. OTHER people get to be doctors, lawyers, tech workers, or politicians, but not you. You're a pussy if you don't choose to immiserate yourself." The boomer would never dare give that advice to his daughter. He's probably paying her law school tuition. He almost certainly put her on birth control when she was 16 because he didn't have the balls to tell her not to be a slut (while telling his son he would kill him if he got anyone pregnant at that age).

Why are boomers like this? Is it because they're afraid of their wives (boomer women are borderline feral)? Is it because they want to fuck their daughters? Is it because they view their sons as sɛҳuąƖ competition? Either way, we see the effects of it all around us. 

DEI was able to destroy the lives of white male millennials and zoomers because it played to the boomer's cucked, servile, wounded ego. If boomer men didn't have an incestuous obsession with their daughters, none of this pressure from women and minorities would have worked.

...and? Is therapy, or thinking that someone might possibly benefit from it, sinful now?

To be precise, though, I did not NOT tell you to go to therapy, I deliberately said this:

...and? Is therapy, or thinking that someone might possibly benefit from it, sinful now?

To be precise, though, I did not NOT tell you to go to therapy, I deliberately said this:


If I were Croix, I would say that you need your ass kicked. And there's truth to that, I'm sure that it would be of some help. But it would likely only result in an external change. As long as someone is around, you'd act better, but as soon as the pressure was off it'd be back to the same silliness.

I'm convinced that there is an aspect of maturing that is of free choice. One has to consciously decide to grow up, to be willing to do the necessary work. But you have to do it ONLY because you want to. You shouldn't do it for me or for anyone else here, or for your family, or (you'll probably consider it highly impious of me to say) even for God Himself. You should do it for YOU.
 
So, as far as therapy goes, I have not and would not absolutely tell you to go. Anyways, unless you want it, want to see if it's a tool that might be helpful, and are willing to put in the work, it wouldn't do any good.

An additional point about external factors that I think deserving of consideration. Immaturity, or delayed maturity, is becoming a more and more common problem in the world, especially the West.

1) Technology and social programs have taken much of the physical danger out of life. The effects of an action, or inaction, are no longer so immediate. So people don't learn simple lessons and skills that should be, and were once considered, common sense.

2) Lack of fathers in the home. People do sometimes need a kick in the butt. Dad is usually the one best equipped to give it.

I give these as reasons to help explain a phenomenon, NOT to be used to further a shitty, excuse seeking, paralyzing attitude. When you have a need that isn't being met, obey our Lord's directive, "Seek and you shall find".

Technology causing you problems? Shut it off or at least figure out a way to use it as a help rather than a hindrance to your advancement.

No dad around to kick you in the butt? Then you better learn to kick it yourself.

You fail, fall back into old habits? Get up, try to figure out what went wrong, make changes and try again. And again. And again. And again...... as many times as necessary.

You want to dismiss this as a bunch out of touch boomer platitudes? Go right ahead. No one owes you guys a damn thing and I'm guilt-trip proof. When you get old enough, you'll realize that the only person you've really been hurting with your crap is yourself, and it's your own fault.

Now I'm off to do fun boomer things. See Ya!