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I'm not coping
« on: December 30, 2021, 04:57:02 PM »
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  • Im not coping at all.

    I've lived a pretty horrible life full of horrific sins.

    I was praying recently and the word unjustified came to me . Never heard of it , I heard of Justified as it was a Justin Timberlake album
    When I googled unjustified, it meant unworthy in the site of God.

    I've been back and forth with my faith. I even gave up last summer.

    I know we are in the age of antichrist where God pours out his wrath on mankind. With no mercy .. we get what we deserve 

    I'm started to get more and more sick, no I haven't taken the Vax but I have underlying health problems. 
    The radiation is pretty bad where I am too.

    I feel like I'm just living to die soon to burn for eternity .

    Sr lucia said to her relative priest that there won't always be hope for our salvation.

    I feel so hopeless 




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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #1 on: December 30, 2021, 05:04:26 PM »
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  • What?  If you go to confession, and don't commit ay more mortal sins, you will go to heaven (perhaps by way of purgatory).  Period.


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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #2 on: December 30, 2021, 05:05:24 PM »
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  • Please see a priest asap.
    Please say the Rosary and ask Our Lady to assist you asap.
    This sounds like an attack from the enemy.
    God loves a repentant sinner, and we are all sinners.

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #3 on: December 30, 2021, 05:07:39 PM »
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  • But God doesn't forgive sins after the " day of the lord". The three and a half years where the sacrifice is taken away, and sinners have to face their eternal guilt ( Daniel 12)

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #4 on: December 30, 2021, 05:10:53 PM »
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  • That's Satan telling you all of this. He is the master of despair. Go see a priest, go to confession, and start a regimen of daily prayer even if you don't want to do it - do it.
    "Be not therefore solicitous for tomorrow; for the morrow will be solicitous for itself. Sufficient for the day is the evil thereof." [Matt. 6:34]

    "In all thy works remember thy last end, and thou shalt never sin." [Ecclus. 7:40]

    "A holy man continueth in wisdom as the sun: but a fool is changed as the moon." [Ecclus. 27:12]


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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #5 on: December 30, 2021, 05:13:40 PM »
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  • But God doesn't forgive sins after the " day of the lord". The three and a half years where the sacrifice is taken away, and sinners have to face their eternal guilt ( Daniel 12)
    Unless you can point to where the Church has explicitly taught that, don't buy it. It is your mind and/or the Devil messing with you.
    Patience is a conquering virtue. The learned say that, if it not desert you, It vanquishes what force can never reach; Why answer back at every angry speech? No, learn forbearance or, I'll tell you what, You will be taught it, whether you will or not.
    -Geoffrey Chaucer

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #6 on: December 30, 2021, 05:20:23 PM »
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  • Im not coping at all.

    I've lived a pretty horrible life full of horrific sins.

    I was praying recently and the word unjustified came to me . Never heard of it , I heard of Justified as it was a Justin Timberlake album
    When I googled unjustified, it meant unworthy in the site of God.

    I've been back and forth with my faith. I even gave up last summer.

    I know we are in the age of antichrist where God pours out his wrath on mankind. With no mercy .. we get what we deserve

    I'm started to get more and more sick, no I haven't taken the Vax but I have underlying health problems.
    The radiation is pretty bad where I am too.

    I feel like I'm just living to die soon to burn for eternity .

    Sr lucia said to her relative priest that there won't always be hope for our salvation.

    I feel so hopeless
    I lived the first 30+ years of my life in serious sin. Meditate on Mary of the Desert. You have to remember... In this world, in this kind of dream, God is infinitely merciful. When we wake up from the dream, this period of mercy... When we die, God is infinitely just. God always forgives, man sometimes, nature never.

    In this life you need to take the plunge and realize God set up this system for people like us, not the perfect. You need to go to adoration multiple times a week if possible. The most helpful thing for me is just getting down on my knees and just look at Him. In another thread I was posting about how God simply used to strike people down... The fact that you have not been struck down is proof he loves you. Go into the chapel, kneel and tell Him how happy you are that He does not kill you immediately for entering His temple. That's step one, you are going to instantly feel relief. Step two is telling Him you just want refuge from the world. Even if you just stare like a retard for an hour God is going to work the impossible in you. Let Him win this for you.

    You need to stop worrying about private revelation also, but if you spend an hour+ a week in from of Him every week you'll realize some things are beyond you and He is in control. My family prays for you nightly already but know that we do.

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #7 on: December 30, 2021, 05:23:51 PM »
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  • I lived the first 30+ years of my life in serious sin. Meditate on Mary of the Desert. You have to remember... In this world, in this kind of dream, God is infinitely merciful. When we wake up from the dream, this period of mercy... When we die, God is infinitely just. God always forgives, man sometimes, nature never.

    In this life you need to take the plunge and realize God set up this system for people like us, not the perfect. You need to go to adoration multiple times a week if possible. The most helpful thing for me is just getting down on my knees and just look at Him. In another thread I was posting about how God simply used to strike people down... The fact that you have not been struck down is proof he loves you. Go into the chapel, kneel and tell Him how happy you are that He does not kill you immediately for entering His temple. That's step one, you are going to instantly feel relief. Step two is telling Him you just want refuge from the world. Even if you just stare like a retard for an hour God is going to work the impossible in you. Let Him win this for you.

    You need to stop worrying about private revelation also, but if you spend an hour+ a week in from of Him every week you'll realize some things are beyond you and He is in control. My family prays for you nightly already but know that we do.
    This was me BTW (as if someone couldn't already tell by the posting style lol)...
    Regard all of my posts as unfounded slander, heresy, theologically specious etc
    I accept Church teaching on Implicit Baptism of Desire.
    Francis is Pope.
    NO is a good Mass.
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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #8 on: December 30, 2021, 05:24:48 PM »
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  • The devil's just toying with you.  Remember this old story? 

    I once heard a story about Satan’s Garage Sale. Satan advertised that he was selling off many of his tools, and he put on display some of his best items. Many demons showed up to see just what the devil was getting rid of that day. They came from all around to see what they could purchase to improve their shameful skills. Each tool sold almost as quickly as it was placed upon the display tables.
    Satan had carefully marked the price upon each tool:
    ANGER: $100                        RESENTMENT: $400                HATRED: $600, etc., etc.
    Anger was selling fairly low...so common, so plain, so effective. Greed brought a big price, and Pride drove bids to high levels. Multiple copies of the jealousy tool were hot items. Lust, as always, was at a bargain-basement price.
    There were tools that would make it easy to tear others down for use as stepping stones; some lenses for magnifying one’s own importance; and, if you looked through them the other way, they could be used to belittle others.
    There was an assortment of gardening implements to help one’s pride to grow by leaps and bounds: the rake of scorn; the shovel of jealousy along with the tools of gossip and back-biting, of selfishness and apathy. All were pleasing to the eye and came complete with fabulous promises and guarantees of prosperity.
    One visitor, as he browsed, noticed two well worn, non-descript tools on a table in one corner. He found it curious that those two tools had no price tags. When he asked why, Satan just laughed and said, “Well, that’s because I use them so much. If they weren’t so plain looking, people might see them for what they are.” 
    This seemed to please the old man. He snatched up the tools and held them to his chest. With a glint in his eye, he asked the Devil, “How much for these?”
    I’m sorry, those tools aren’t for sale,” the Devil replied.
    Without hesitation, the man said, “I’ll pay you any amount!”
    The Devil narrowed his eyes and hissed, “I told you, those tools are not for sale, nor will I ever sell them. They are the most useful tools I own!  Without them I wouldn’t be half as effective in my work. With those tools alone, I can accomplish my every task. Now, good day, sir!”
    Disappointed, the man looked once more at the shiny tools, then slowly placed them back on the table in the corner. With almost a whisper, he said to the Devil, “If I can’t buy them, would you at least tell me their names?”
    A slow and wicked grin grew across the Devil’s face. Satan pointed to the two tools, and said, “You see, that one’s Doubt and that one’s Discouragement — and those will work when nothing else will.”
    The devil continued, “They are more useful to me than any of the others. When I can’t bring down my victims with the rest of my tools, I use doubt and discouragement. With those tools alone, I can accomplish my every task.
    Perplexed, the old man wondered out loud, “What’s so special about those tools?”
    “Nothing paralyzes a person, nothing stops someone in their tracks like discouragement and doubt, resulting in hopelessness. Discouragement and Doubt are no respecters of persons. They keep the unemployed, unemployed; the homeless, homeless; the sick, sick. 
    “They can even draw the most powerful ministry to its knees. When overcome with discouragement and doubt that leads to hopelessness, persons cannot pray, they cannot worship, and they become a victim of their environment. Discouragement and doubt drain their victims of courage, vision, faith, expectation, and the will to make a difference in the kingdom of God. If I can get people discouraged and full of doubt, then I have successfully neutralized them. They are then left with only enough energy to feel hopeless and sorry for themselves.”
    - Anonymous

    Go to confess, cheer up and remember God is on your side and God plus one is a majority.




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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #9 on: December 30, 2021, 05:25:47 PM »
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  • I know I clicked that box.
    "Let God arise, and let His enemies be scattered: and them that hate Him flee from before His Holy Face"  Psalm 67:2[/b]


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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #10 on: December 30, 2021, 05:54:54 PM »
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  • OP, are you the same person who keeps posting about how there can be no salvation any longer because Christ has already returned?

    If so, I think that you are plagued by a dark mental obsession of diabolical origin.  You may also need some psychological help.

    Your preoccupation with salvation and despair are related to scruples.  Stop worrying about whether or not you'll be saved.  Love God and seek to do His will.  This could be a liberating sentiment for you:  "Dear God, I don't know whether You have determined that I should be saved, but in the time I have in this world, I want to love You.  If You judge that I deserve to be lost, may Your will be done, and glory to You.  But I love You anyway."

    Scrupulous people only (or at least predominantly) care about sin because of its impact on themselves.  Worry about sin because of how it offends and hurts God.  God is Love, and God is Mercy.  He's never ever dragged any souls kicking and screaming into hell, against their will.  Everyone who goes to hell goes there because he preferred that to being with God and wanted to go there.


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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #11 on: December 30, 2021, 06:00:22 PM »
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  • It's also pride that causes people to obsess about the enormity of their sins.  It's an insult to God to believe that ANYTHING you are capable of doing isn't but a tiny drop compared to the infinite ocean of His Mercy.  Our Lord's sacrifice can easily sweep away any cuмulative sin that all of humanity is collectively capable of.  Just as our ability to love and our ability to think are a pathetic joke compared to God, so is our ability to sin.  Our sins don't stand a chance in the face of God's Mercy and Our Lord's sacrifice on the cross.  You think too highly of yourself if you think that Our Lord can't wipe them away with a flick of His little finger.  It's like when we blow a dandelion seed out of the palm of our hand, that's how Our Lord could blow away all your sins.

    Consider also that the greater the sins you have been forgiven, the greater is the glory given to His Mercy.  Let Him glorify Himself and His mercy in you by forgiving your sins.  You're the only one standing in the way of that happening.

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #12 on: December 30, 2021, 06:02:46 PM »
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  • OP, are you the same person who keeps posting about how there can be no salvation any longer because Christ has already returned?

    If so, I think that you are plagued by a dark mental obsession of diabolical origin.  You may also need some psychological help.

    Your preoccupation with salvation and despair are related to scruples.  Stop worrying about whether or not you'll be saved.  Love God and seek to do His will.  This could be a liberating sentiment for you:  "Dear God, I don't know whether You have determined that I should be saved, but in the time I have in this world, I want to love you.  If you wish for me to be lost, may your will be done, and glory to You.  But I love you anyway."

    Scrupulous people only (or at least predominantly) care about sin because of its impact on themselves.  Worry about sin because of how it offends and hurts God.  God is Love, and God is Mercy.  He's never ever dragged any souls kicking and screaming into hell, against their will.  Everyone who goes to hell goes there because he preferred that to being with God and wanted to go there.
    This. "Lord, I fear Hell because I do not want to blaspheme You or Mary's name for eternity" is one that I say from the bottom of my heart. I think almost anyone of good will can pray this honesty and thus have the beginnings of a healthy filial fear. Servile fear is good but it alone isn't where you should stop. This isn't to say you shouldn't meditate on Hell daily - keeping that servile fear as well as "perfect" or so-called filial fear.
    Regard all of my posts as unfounded slander, heresy, theologically specious etc
    I accept Church teaching on Implicit Baptism of Desire.
    Francis is Pope.
    NO is a good Mass.
    Not an ironic sig.

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #13 on: December 30, 2021, 06:08:15 PM »
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  • This. "Lord, I fear Hell because I do not want to blaspheme You or Mary's name for eternity" is one that I say from the bottom of my heart. I think almost anyone of good will can pray this honesty and thus have the beginnings of a healthy filial fear. Servile fear is good but it alone isn't where you should stop. This isn't to say you shouldn't meditate on Hell daily - keeping that servile fear as well as "perfect" or so-called filial fear.

    "If you judge in Your Infinite Love and Mercy and Justice that I am to be lost, then glory be to Your judgement because if that is what You will, then I will it also.  Just please grant that I not hate or blaspheme You in eternity.  I will be glad that You have chosen to save others rather than me, because in the end I only want what You want."

    "Our Lady, I am happy that God has chosen you for such great love, honor, and predeliction ... instead of me.  If I could switch places with you, I would not, because I prefer that You enjoy that honor and love than that I should."

    "Father, I am happy that you have chosen others to be great saints, while allowing me to be a wretch.  I am happy for them, and for the delight You take in their holines."

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    Re: I'm not coping
    « Reply #14 on: December 30, 2021, 06:09:18 PM »
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  • "If you judge in Your Infinite Love and Mercy and Justice that I am to be lost, then glory be to Your judgement because if that is what You will, then I will i also.  Just please grant that I not hate or blaspheme You in eternity.  I will be glad that You have chosen to save others rather than me, because in the end I only want what You want."
    Thank you Lad!
    Regard all of my posts as unfounded slander, heresy, theologically specious etc
    I accept Church teaching on Implicit Baptism of Desire.
    Francis is Pope.
    NO is a good Mass.
    Not an ironic sig.