Even if you are objectively right and he is wrong, you're going about it the wrong way.
Butting heads like 2 rams, bulls or roosters (note: these are male animals) is not appropriate for a woman. Plus it is counter-productive. You will only force him to dig his heels in and stubbornly stick to his course of action, just to assert his authority and dominance (to show you who's boss) if nothing else.
On the other hand, why don't you bring out his compassion and love for you? They must be there, or you wouldn't have married him. You need to trust him that he won't make your life miserable. When he sees that you're miserable, he's bound to do something about it.
Making yourself miserable ahead of time, over nothing, doesn't count. That is just being willful, emotional, moody, etc.
How many times does a couple fight about something that hasn't even happened yet? I know couples that fight about income or money who haven't had to pay a single late fee, much less had to go without food, electricity, or water for even one day. And yet the husband in question still hasn't earned the unconditional trust of his wife to look out for the well being of his family!