I'm not buying any of it. We're having our chains yanked. And that's the good news. If she's really sick enough to come here and tell her real problems to a bunch of feds, bots, sots, and a few good Catholics, then it's no wonder her problems have reached such dire proportions.
This is what I mean, she has chosen her own fate on purpose. She wanted this and gets a kick from complaining. Perhaps, fairest assumption, she got a lot more abuse than what she was looking for. She's a damaged girl, wanted a damaged boy, married him, now is in no escape. She may have wanted a sickly boy to prop around, and has been getting retaliation back. This is not a situation you find yourself in innocently, especially as a lady. Gear up for the long haul.