*hugs*
I feel for you both. I do hope you will not be too hard on yourself with keeping up with housework. If you are not getting adequate rest, it will make things worse. If you can afford to get paper products for eating and drinking I sure would! When we sleep our cells are healing and our body is doing what it needs to do in order to rejuvenate.
I’m going to guess you are dealing with several auto immune diseases which conventional doctors are nearly worthless in diagnosing and treating. Have you been able to see a functional medicine doctor?
I apologize for veering off the original intent of your post. I just feel if we can get to the root cause, things will improve. Your husband just sounds exhausted and stressed to the max. Is there any way he could procure a better job? I’ve found that taking amino acids has helped greatly with managing my stress and mood, especially l-theanin, 5 htp and GABA. They are not expensive and have been a game changer for me with mood and sleep.
Praying for you and your husband! Not having much family support is very difficult. Unfortunately, you are in good company as many trads suffer that same type of sorrow.
Thank you for your kind charity, it means very much, and for your prayers. We need grace more than anything else. What you have recommended is insightful and helpful, thank you. No, he cannot be employed elsewhere.
Yes it is so sad that many traditional Catholics have the same cross, but I reflect on what the saints would say; they would relish the opportunity of suffering for Our Lord! We truly have to place our happiness in the eternal, especially today.