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Do you both have a prayerful life?  Does your husband have good company?  Bad company at work?  Do you have connections with his family?  What do they have to say?

I hope these questions aren’t too personal, I’m just having a hard time wrapping my mind around how you can both be of such poor health and suffer from the same ailments? 

Were you both sickly when you met? Did your and his condition develop after you married? Have you lived in the same house since being married? I’m just wondering if your condition is environmental. Maybe mold toxins? 

That's fine, I understand it is quite crazy! We both had some health issues before we married, but they did worsen when we got married. Looking back I don't know why the priest let me marry in my state (my state is worse in some ways than my husband), it felt like he wanted to get rid of me or something. I do not wish to accuse the priest, but his behaviour was odd. I had been too poor to solve my problems for so long, so my husband provided for me and unfortunately we were misled by heath care providers that gave terrible advice and gave me new problems. We have always lived together after marriage, yes. I have thought of mold toxicity too, perhaps CIRS or something, I'm not sure. We do live in a poorly maintained apartment building but keep our unit as clean as we can, and have recently got an air purifier. People smoke like crazy inside the building sometimes, I'm sure that has affected us negatively.

*hugs* 
I feel for you both. I do hope you will not be too hard on yourself with keeping up with housework. If you are not getting adequate rest, it will make things worse. If you can afford to get paper products for eating and drinking I sure would! When we sleep our cells are healing and our body is doing what it needs to do in order to rejuvenate. 

I’m going to guess you are dealing with several auto immune diseases which conventional doctors are nearly worthless in diagnosing and treating. Have you been able to see a functional medicine doctor? 


I apologize for veering off the original intent of your post. I just feel if we can get to the root cause, things will improve. Your husband just sounds exhausted and stressed to the max. Is there any way he could procure a better job? I’ve found that taking amino acids has helped greatly with managing my stress and mood, especially l-theanin, 5 htp and GABA. They are not expensive and have been a game changer for me with mood and sleep. 

Praying for you and your husband! Not having much family support is very difficult. Unfortunately, you are in good company as many trads suffer that same type of sorrow.