OP here:
My comment above is not a regret for those who have given me advice on how to help my husband. I am simply overwhelmed and cannot fathom how people can be so uncharitable to one who is forcing themselves to be vulnerable for the sake of her husband. I have revealed very humiliating details about myself in hopes that it would help give further insight as to what to do next. That is not easy for me to do at all. I have nothing to gain from being anonymous here, I am not asking for money, this does not bring me honour, and none of this brings me pleasure either.
Maybe we are both broken, and perhaps I am at fault here, I am more than willing to believe that. But I know the good Lord can bring good out of every evil, and He will wipe every tear from our eyes, and He takes into account our good intentions. I will continue to love my husband and love God, and I forgive from my heart those who have spoken uncharitably of my husband and I in this thread. He is not a slob, he may have some problems but seriously, who out of any of you can boast being an angel, because mortal sin is the greatest problem we can have, not being sickly and unable to have children. Please do not imitate the friends of Job.
Everything I have said has been an attempt to receive guidance and insight, and not to complain needlessly or rant.
I do not know why I am repeatedly viewed this way. One who tells another problems obviously wants a solution. Thank you to those who have understood this, and for their kind contributions.
I could have gone to a Reddit forum, but the nature of my questions often invites a lot of impurity into the question, and I am bound not to enter the occasions of sin.
I have reason to believe we may have been cursed, there are people who know us that have a history of being involved in the occult. Does anyone know of a traditional Catholic exorcist, properly ordained?