It seems to me that the person who opened this thread does not quite understand the rules for Mass.
If the priest is taking the prescribed minimum time, saying the black and doing the red, there is nothing to complain about.
You might not like it, but he is following the rules. There is absolutely nothing to complain about.
It is really simple as that. There is nothing else happening.
It would be more profitable if you spend some time figuring out how to take greater spiritual benefit from the mass. Following the mass with the missal does not seem to be working for you.
Maybe you could read the Gospel before mass and meditate on it during the mass.
You could try to pray the Sorrowful Mysteries of the Rosary too.
These are just some suggestions. You can find a lot of methods for assisting at mass on books about piety and spirituality.