and you don't know what time it is. everyone else knows we have a 40 yo single man on a steady diet of sugar running loose around here bragging about taking up the best years of a young woman's life without marrying her and dropping bait whenever he gets the chance. The OP isn't a sincere attempt to address genuine problems that face men who are looking to marry.
I make a point about how we should make things personal... and you just keep digging that hole by making things personal.
Even if that were true, it still brings up important issues to be discussed. This is a discussion forum after all.