Author Topic: gαy cousin (Read 4716 times)

Änσnymσus · « **on:** February 26, 2015, 02:38:18 PM »

I just received an invitation to the so called wedding of him and his boyfriend. I am in a dilemma. My parents are pressuring me to go to the ceremony. I fear that if I don't go my relationship with my family will be irreparably harmed. This man is ardently ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ. He supports gαy pride parades. My parents say I need to be tolerant and that being gαy is nothing out of the ordinary. My mother tells me even the pope accepts them. Help me.

Nadir · « **Reply #1 on:** February 26, 2015, 03:20:31 PM »

Do what you know to be right. Do not attend, even if it means rejection and alienation.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #2 on:** February 26, 2015, 04:28:29 PM »

If you want to lose your soul, then go.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #3 on:** February 26, 2015, 06:05:43 PM »

OP you fear irreparably harming your relationship with your family, which is understandable because you love them, and respect your parents.

The horrible truth is that your poor parents are trying to do harm to you, by pressuring you to publicly do something immoral. Don't fall for it. They probably don't love your cousin more than they do you. But you know, if they do choose a sodomite union over a Godly relationship with you, (and believe me, it could end up like that) you will be better off.

In other words, don't be scared to do the right thing. Doing the right thing is almost always a huge pain in the neck compared to instant gratification and fear of human respect. Don't go; it's a filthy trap.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #4 on:** February 26, 2015, 06:14:15 PM »

http://www.thesacredheart.com/shwound.htm

Nothing will be refused!

God bless!

Matthew · « **Reply #5 on:** February 26, 2015, 08:23:57 PM »

Yes, I wouldn't go.

The cousin (and your parents!) seem pretty far gone, in terms of Catholic doctrine and truth.

Losing such (protestant? non-Catholic?) influences will not be a bad thing.

Matthew 19:29
And every one that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands for my name' s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall possess life everlasting.

Luke 14:26
If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.*

*Note that we are not allowed to hate even our enemies, but it means that we should be willing to choose God over even the closest of human relationships.

Viva Cristo Rey · « **Reply #6 on:** February 26, 2015, 10:53:19 PM »

Don't go.

Viva Cristo Rey · « **Reply #7 on:** February 26, 2015, 11:19:32 PM »

I just wanted to say that we are all praying for you. You are in a difficult situation.
It is going to hurt because it your parents. It isn't fair that your parents would do that to you. Hopefully they will get over it. Don't go.

poche · « **Reply #8 on:** February 26, 2015, 11:25:50 PM »

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I just received an invitation to the so called wedding of him and his boyfriend. I am in a dilemma. My parents are pressuring me to go to the ceremony. I fear that if I don't go my relationship with my family will be irreparably harmed. This man is ardently ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ. He supports gαy pride parades. My parents say I need to be tolerant and that being gαy is nothing out of the ordinary. My mother tells me even the pope accepts them. Help me.

I recommend that you find a reason to be unavoidably "out of town."

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #9 on:** February 27, 2015, 08:36:00 AM »

Maybe you could go to satisfy your parents if you disrupt it. Stand up and loudly object to the horrible sacrilege. They have no right to do this and you have no right to be there in support. If you go you'll harm your relationship with God. Better to displease your family and be with God in heaven than to displease God and be in hell with your family.

BTNYC · « **Reply #10 on:** February 27, 2015, 08:59:01 AM »

Do not go and make it clear to everyone why you're not going - because this "ceremony" is an attempt to grant one of the Four Sins that Cry to Heaven for Vengeance the status of holy matrimony and that that is an outrageous affront to Almighty God and that you'd no sooner show support for it than you would for a ritual human sacrifice.

Fear not for any repercussions that will come as a result. God will grant you graces for your defense of the Truth and will pay you back tenfold for your losses.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #11 on:** February 27, 2015, 09:32:30 AM »

Quote from: Matthew

Matthew 19:29
And every one that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands for my name' s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall possess life everlasting.

Luke 14:26
If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.*

*Note that we are not allowed to hate even our enemies, but it means that we should be willing to choose God over even the closest of human relationships.

I was going to cite that exact same verse from Luke. It is just what came to mind. And the one from Matthew 19 is perfect too.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #12 on:** February 27, 2015, 10:16:28 AM »

OP here. I have my kids wondering why they can't see him at his party. They think its a party

Nadir · « **Reply #13 on:** February 27, 2015, 02:42:05 PM »

You do not need to answer to your kids. You just say, "Because I said so, and I am the one who makes decisions here" (I hope that is the truth, if not make it the truth from now on).

Depending on the age of your kids and the degree of their innocence, (eg are they hom-schooled or are they subjected to "sex education" in the school system?) you may need to answer them honestly.

Such a ceremony is a blasphemous mockery of the Sacrament of Marriage. Do you really even consider subjecting your kids to this travesty?

BTNYC · « **Reply #14 on:** February 27, 2015, 03:10:20 PM »

Young children should be kept as far away from sodomites - particularly those so bold in their depravity as to make a public ceremony of it - as possible. Would you allow your children around your cousin if he were a murderer, or a pederast (which many sods actually are, for the record)?

Unfortunately, in the OP's case, keeping the children away from the sodomites sounds like it's going to be a case of closing the stable doors after the horses have bolted.

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