MaterDominici, is that you? 
Matthew, will you stand for this?
Seriously, though, ex-seminarians take much of what they learned into whatever vocation they end up in, both in terms of their knowledge of the faith and spiritual formation, and none of it is wasted. To paraphrase Evelyn Waugh, if ex-seminarians are lame, imagine how lame they (we) would be had we not gone to seminary at all.
Waugh:
Yes, perhaps it helps them to be better men.
There might also be the possibility that priestly knowledge can be wielded incorrectly by someone who, in fact, is not a priest.
I don't know. My general experience is that it has something to do with some kind of autism.
Could be wrong. But you meet five, ten, twenty over the years and you see patterns....