Saw this on FB, a post about a woman wanting to use NFP but her husband ends up becoming grumpy and irritable. They're in their mid-40s and the reason to use NFP is because of a history of having dangerous pregnancies. The comments are from women who say that their husbands act like this as well when they use NFP. Some other comments even suggest to get the husband to fast, pray novena, or lower his testosterone! Any suggestion to give up NFP is shut down immediately with hostility. 

No one talk about long-term effects of NFP on a marriage, especially how it could affect the husband (since they're usually the ones with a higher sex drive). And NFP forces the woman to be intimate during her low-libido days. Also, these modernist Catholics get offended when marital debt is mentioned. 

Angry men because of frustration due to being with a cold wife.  Interesting to think what unseen affects are produced in the children. Disrespect possibly?  Alcoholism?  

NFP is just a control mechanism for closet feminists.

NFP is just a control mechanism for closet feminists.

This^.     

And then they gaslight and say their husband doesn't care about their concerns or something? Of course he cares...

Saw this on FB, a post about a woman wanting to use NFP but her husband ends up becoming grumpy and irritable. They're in their mid-40s and the reason to use NFP is because of a history of having dangerous pregnancies. The comments are from women who say that their husbands act like this as well when they use NFP. Some other comments even suggest to get the husband to fast, pray novena, or lower his testosterone! Any suggestion to give up NFP is shut down immediately with hostility.

No one talk about long-term effects of NFP on a marriage, especially how it could affect the husband (since they're usually the ones with a higher sex drive). And NFP forces the woman to be intimate during her low-libido days. Also, these modernist Catholics get offended when marital debt is mentioned.

There is nothing "natural" about NFP. These women are obviously just trying to find excuses to not pay the marital debt to their husbands. Pesky husband? With NFP, each month you can get a one week free apart from that pervert you live with!

If the pregnancies are so dangerous that it would put the woman's life in danger, then why even risk conception during the women's "infertile" days. If the gravity of the consequence is so dire that you need to get a dispensation, how can you even risk a pregnancy by performing the marital act outside of when NFP allows you to? Shouldn't you just abstain until the wife's health problems are treated? Abstain completely or don't abstain at all. Concocting a scheme to avoid children while still engaging in the marital act is CONCEPTION. It is diabolical. If we can admit that NFP is permissible, then the Orthodox don't have it wrong when they say that non-abortifacient modes of contraception like condoms are permissible (which are obviously against the natural law).

You will find that many young traditional Catholics completely deny that NFP is okay. It's not until you get up to the married demographic and older when you start seeing acceptance across the board of the "rhythm method." This tells me that the reasoning for people relenting to accept NFP is completely utilitarian. In theory, all Catholics deny it. It is not until they get married, that they convince themselves that they must have been misinformed in their younger and more foolish years. "How could God WANT me to have a child right now. A child is too much of a cross to bear... NOW I understand. God wouldn't want me to have a child right now! Besides... my husband has been slightly annoying lately with his advances... I guess now I have an excuse to ignore him!!!"

At my SSPX parish, the young people in my friend circle (who all have differing views on the papacy, BoD, FSSP, etc etc.) are all completely unanimous in agreeing that to use NFP for the express purpose of avoiding a child is always a mortal sin. It is obvious. I do not see how one can convince themselves that NFP is not obviously against the natural law.

Your wife using thermometers and reading charts every time before you enter into the marital act? Way to kill the mood. 

a woman wanting to use NFP but her husband ends up becoming grumpy and irritable.

Men actually do want children, despite what this contraceptive-mentality wife may think. To deny him children will make him "grumpy and irritable", because obviously (if he's a good Catholic husband) he married to have children.