Author Topic: Family Holidays and gαy family members (Read 2871 times)

Änσnymσus · « **on:** November 07, 2014, 09:25:10 AM »

I have a family member who recently came out of the closet and said that he is gαy. He has found himself a boyfriend. I never suspected this guy to do this. He has always come to our house for Thanksgiving and Christmas. He wants to come to our home on thanksgiving. My children like this guy. He has a sense of humor and they like that. what should I do?

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #1 on:** November 07, 2014, 01:28:15 PM »

Refuse the visit. Your children should not be around ill example. Limit exposure to sin as much as possible. Their souls are more important.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #2 on:** November 07, 2014, 01:39:19 PM »

Do you care more about his "feelings" or his immortal soul? If you truly care about his immortal soul, you know what you must do. Yes, it will be uncomfortable. I always regret that when my brother went on our annual family camping trip with our NO family, he sprang a last-minute surprise on us -- he brought his current girlfriend. I always regretted that I did not have the courage to ask them to leave.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #3 on:** November 07, 2014, 01:51:30 PM »

I would not let an open ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ interact with my children.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #4 on:** November 07, 2014, 01:54:05 PM »

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I would not let an open ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ interact with my children.

My children are asking me why I don't like him. They want him to come.

This is a grave dilemma.

I am the OP by the way

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #5 on:** November 07, 2014, 01:56:25 PM »

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I would not let an open ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ interact with my children.

My children are asking me why I don't like him. They want him to come.

This is a grave dilemma.

I am the OP by the way

I don't know how old your children are, but when my parents said they didn't like someone, I also didn't like that person because my parents didn't like them

You worry about what your children think but you should be concerned that they are not concerned with what you think.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #6 on:** November 07, 2014, 02:21:03 PM »

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I would not let an open ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ interact with my children.

My children are asking me why I don't like him. They want him to come.

This is a grave dilemma.

I am the OP by the way

Your children should be content with whatever answer you do choose to give and with whatever action you take.

You should tell them that you do like this individual and that they do not need to worry about it.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #7 on:** November 07, 2014, 02:44:37 PM »

OP, I am sorry for the pain this causes your family. It's tragic that your family member is on the fast track to hell, in league with the highest order of mortal sinners committing one of the 4 most grievous sins. This is a grave dilemma indeed, but more for him.

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You worry about what your children think but you should be concerned that they are not concerned with what you think.

Sadly this seems true.
THIS IS A CRITICAL TEACHING MOMENT FOR YOUR CHILDREN. At your judgement, He will hold you strictly accountable. Who knows what sins your children may encourage or engage in, if you are not courageous in the Faith especially pertaining to this particular heinous sin. Explain as best you can depending on their ages why this is an "intrinsic evil" and a disorder of great magnitude. Do not allow them near this man. It is as though a death has occurred in the family.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #8 on:** November 07, 2014, 02:51:18 PM »

We have to stop being modernistic nice guys, tolerating all manner of evil from family and friends because we don't want to hurt feelings or rock the boat. Even to this extent, hesitant to separate our children from a practicing sodomite! Have you lost your mind? What's the debate? Why are we all so cowardly?

No guts, no glory. Catholics, defend the faith or go to hell with all the other lukewarm Novus Ordo Catholics that you always criticize.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #9 on:** November 07, 2014, 02:59:03 PM »

You tell your children the truth: He is not pleasing God, we pray for him. And, tell your brother(?) he is not to touch your children! ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖs are after children, they recruit.

My brother-in-law married my sister and he lied to her of him being a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ. She got Genital Herpes and all her pregnancies were C-section. They are divorced, invalid marriage. Now, don't over look AIDs and whatever else they can bring on. No kissing of the children. You must protect your family!!!

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #10 on:** November 07, 2014, 03:04:21 PM »

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ou should tell them that you do like this individual and that they do not need to worry about it.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is what NOT to do, if you are Catholic. That's soft pedaling sin. They need to see parental outrage at this man's in your face offense against God, not namby pamby "don't worry".

God is so greatly offended by this sin that Holy Church, His Body, has determined it to be one of the most egregious.

So no, please don't tell your children they don't need to worry. Tell them to pray, pray, pray, for this man will surely go to eternal damnation if he persists in such evil.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #11 on:** November 07, 2014, 04:18:07 PM »

Tell the children the truth, that this man is in sin and oriented to Hell unless he repents and mend his ways.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #12 on:** November 07, 2014, 04:29:20 PM »

My other family members and relatives are saying that Pope Francis said that we are not to judge gαys. They are saying he is who he is and just accept it. He wants to bring his boyfriend to Thanksgiving dinner with us.

OP

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #13 on:** November 07, 2014, 04:30:52 PM »

I discovered a ɧoɱosɛҳųαƖ cousin with his "partner" coming out at my aunt's funeral.

I told my kids that he is a pervert, and that many of them are demons in human suits. They were not allowed to be anywhere near him at the reception. We never liked each other growing up, so I didn't have the drama of removing him from the scene.

But I wouldn't hesitate to cut him out of my kid's lives with zero apology, and never ever allow him near my kids under any circuмstance. The percentage of kids molested by homo relatives is off the chart. They're fast and extremely cunning.

Änσnymσus · « **Reply #14 on:** November 07, 2014, 04:36:10 PM »

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My other family members and relatives are saying that Pope Francis said that we are not to judge gαys. They are saying he is who he is and just accept it. He wants to bring his boyfriend to Thanksgiving dinner with us.

OP

I wouldn't even discuss it any further. I'd find something else to do on that day, especially because he already has your kids under his spell. It's nearly impossible to watch more than one child with the degree of supervision needed in this type of situation at family gatherings. It's absolutely not worth the risk, and you can take it to the bank. My husband has worked with the collateral damage of these situations for decades in his work.

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