OP here.
I do cook. I'm pretty good. He doesn't need to scream at me when I fall asleep to do it. "Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the Church." Screaming at me and cussing is not Christ loving the Church.
The pet is a service animal for my health issues. She's more than a pet. Love to me would be to wait for my pet to be able to make the move. Why should I have to sacrifice something, a being, that I NEED? For him?
I have talked to several priests.
The conclusion is that he is not working this out with me. He is not talking to me. He is taking a meager job that is enough to support him. He does not have a home prepared. How is this logical? The priests agree on this, it makes no sense.
For all of his own reasons, he wants out. He isn't even speaking to me. I'm sleeping on the couch as he talks on the phone in the room about me in another language in a bad way, so I just left the house.
Aren't I worthy of being loved, all of me, who I was before, and am now, before he made the Sacrament of Matrimony with me? He is abandoning me. If he gave this time, it would work out. If we negotiated, we could spend time there half the year and the other half here. There are ways to meet together in this. He isn't giving me the chance.
In fact, he told me today he won't have children with me and that I am a woman out of 300, whatever that means. I'm really, really hurt, to say the least.