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Re: Emotional abuse
« Reply #45 on: November 03, 2025, 08:06:21 PM »
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  • Don't do this, any good man will end the courtship over this disrespect. And some men really try to pacify their anger, so don't intentionally make them angry.

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    The advice has helped many in my extended family. 

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    « Reply #46 on: November 03, 2025, 08:09:02 PM »
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  • All of the poor marriages are a sign of a poor prayer life.  End of story.
    Perhaps interiorly, but not necessarily exteriorly.


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    « Reply #47 on: November 03, 2025, 08:33:03 PM »
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  • As well as women using child custody threats to make a man stay in relationship.
    This reminds me of a story I found funny...
    One family member's husband threatened to divorce her time and time again, every time he got upset (over stupid things).  The wife held her tongue and bore the abuse until she could take it no more.  One day after his tirade, she replied, "divorce me if you want, but you get the kids."  They had nine, one being handicapped.  Never again did he threaten her with divorce.  They've been married 45 years now and have a wonderful relationship.

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    « Reply #48 on: November 04, 2025, 01:34:49 AM »
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  • The advice has helped many in my extended family.
    All the 'advice' does is 

    1. make you sin
    2. avoid men with a short fuse or strong anger

    It doesn't help find any other problems.

    It's like saying

    "Oh ladies to make sure he isn't a porn addict you need to leave naughty magazines for him to find, if he looks at it find someone else to marry" :facepalm:

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    « Reply #49 on: November 04, 2025, 07:28:02 AM »
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  • All the 'advice' does is

    1. make you sin
    2. avoid men with a short fuse or strong anger

    It doesn't help find any other problems.

    It's like saying

    "Oh ladies to make sure he isn't a porn addict you need to leave naughty magazines for him to find, if he looks at it find someone else to marry" :facepalm:
    Usually if a couple is together for 6 months before getting engaged something will come up on it’s own (in other words a year before marriage), unless it’s a long distance relationship.  Probably jealousy is a thing to look for as well, and not necessarily (but obviously including) about another man (who may only know the girl) but also relatives and friends (isolation).  Some men have a short fuse by virtue of their temperament which is not necessarily a reason to leave in and of itself but what they do when they’re angry, throwing things, name calling, (obviously physical abuse) would be reasons to leave because this type of behavior will only escalate after marriage.


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    Re: Emotional abuse
    « Reply #50 on: November 04, 2025, 09:23:51 AM »
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  • Usually if a couple is together for 6 months before getting engaged something will come up on it’s own (in other words a year before marriage), unless it’s a long distance relationship.  Probably jealousy is a thing to look for as well, and not necessarily (but obviously including) about another man (who may only know the girl) but also relatives and friends (isolation).  Some men have a short fuse by virtue of their temperament which is not necessarily a reason to leave in and of itself but what they do when they’re angry, throwing things, name calling, (obviously physical abuse) would be reasons to leave because this type of behavior will only escalate after marriage.
    Exactly.

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    Re: Emotional abuse
    « Reply #51 on: November 04, 2025, 09:32:39 AM »
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  • Usually if a couple is together for 6 months before getting engaged something will come up on it’s own (in other words a year before marriage), unless it’s a long distance relationship.  Probably jealousy is a thing to look for as well, and not necessarily (but obviously including) about another man (who may only know the girl) but also relatives and friends (isolation).  Some men have a short fuse by virtue of their temperament which is not necessarily a reason to leave in and of itself but what they do when they’re angry, throwing things, name calling, (obviously physical abuse) would be reasons to leave because this type of behavior will only escalate after marriage.
    The issue is that one poster said that the ladies should INTENTIONALLY make the man very angry.

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    Re: Emotional abuse
    « Reply #52 on: November 04, 2025, 08:27:40 PM »
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  • 1. Is quite something. Most people today do not have fully trad family members.
    All the more reason to meet them if your son/daughter will be regularly interacting with them. Just because they are Traditional Catholics doesn’t mean they’re good people.