To divorce the idea of grace from the New Mass from the New Mass itself is kind of schizophrenic. They are inextricably linked. 
Dear Sir-
Answers of this kind show me that you are not fit to metal in these matters, as it has been explained to you several times that we are discussing grace from the
sacrament, not from the
rite.
My suspicion is that you have been conditioned into not being able to make that distinction as a protective measure (i.e., crimethinking as a means of persevering in error).